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writes:I have noticed at my university that girls who are in relationships tend to be plain looking and most of the good looking women are single. Even though I have heard that I was beautiful many times, I have never had a serious relationship. Men view me as a hot girl who they want to screw and nothing else. I thought something must be wrong with my personality if that is all they want, but it seems like there is something wrong with them if cant see past the "hot body". So are beautiful women viewed as strictly fun for one night by men up to their age of maturity, whenever that may be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): Look at it this way. If like you say you are beutiful then it is only natural for guys to just want to screw you because they just want to boost to their buddies that the bedded miss beatiful,sad but true.Your beuty seems to be working agaist you in that guys know for a fact that there is going to be real stiff competition to keeping you.That almost every Tom,Dick and Harry are going trying to grab your attention.We love beatiful women believe me we do,unfortunately we do not like the stress that comes with dating a very beatifuf woman.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (19 February 2009):
 Ask yourself this, the men who just want you as a sex object, are these the same guys who are in comitted relationships with the "plain" looking women?
No? Mmm, could that explain it then? That the regular guys go for regular girls and have regular lives? Some men see women only as sex objects. (I do, I want sex, women object) Some men don't. It seems you are attracting the wrong kind.
Perhaps you got to ask yourself why.
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reader, gumbbo  +, writes (19 February 2009):
Not at all, my ex was very beautiful actually, naturally, she wore little makeup. I think the women who are single are probably, well it's not because of their beauty, it's more the way they are. I personally can't stand high maintenance women, the ones who cover themselves in makeup and bleach their hair. They are so annoying, however i probably would have sex with one. The plainer women are getting men probably because they are more natural, don't over do themselves, they are just nicer to be with. Men will view a woman as a sex object if that's what she is projecting. But if you are just a nice girl who doesn't obsess about the way you look and cover yourself in makeup and look fake, and expect a man to constantly have to reassure you, then you will not find it difficult to form a relationship with a man, whether you are really beautiful or plain. Theirs the old saying men go for blonds but marry brunettes. This shouldn't be taken literally, i like blonds (well not well it looks too stupid). It basically means men will sleep with fake looking women but ultimately they will want a natural girl as their partner.
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