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Will sex be painful?

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Question - (19 February 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a tight foreskin and I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. Would it be painful? If it would is there anything I can do to stop it being as painful?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

LOL I'm 17 and still a virgin D and I've onli had 1 boyfriend so far and never talked about having sex. If your foreskin is tight then you might want to slowly stretch it out during masturbation or whenever you're hard. As for the condom...just make sure you use it kus

A - it makes things "smoother" if you get what I mean and

B - safer for you and your bf in case of STDs

Just grab some at your nearest convenience store and make sure your door is locked and no one is home kus it gets awkward.... well GL XXX

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A male reader, cian Canada +, writes (20 February 2009):

cian agony auntAs the question shows, this is gay sex. I'm surprised no one really spoke to this.

The first time a man has gay sex, it is painful for both partners. The receiver is stretched out, and the giver is pinched. Sodomy at 15 is not an unreasonable stretch, but it will be challenging at best.

(Wait until your older, buddy.)

Potential issues include: torn foreskin, torn anus/sphincter, hemorrhoids; blood vessel damage; blisters; stds; and the list goes on and on - if you pursue this now.

If you have a tight foreskin, you can get circumcised, take pain medication for what you plan, or wait until your older so you do not damage your penis.

Alas, the choice is yours.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

If it is so tight then wait until you are a bit older as by then it won't be. Mine would never come back until I was I think 15 or 16.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

also ask yourself if you are really ready for sex? if you are you probably wouldn't be on here asking questions about it. don't rush into something if you are not ready, you could regret it.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

just because you can't get someone pregnant, does not mean you can't get an STD. so that's why condoms are important. also a condom may help ease any pain if you experience it.

i would suggest that you go and see a doctor about your tight foreskin, incase it causes any serious medical conditions later on in life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009):

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ouch

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009):

your a male, between 13 and 15 and planning sex... get real

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009):

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if any of you starts going on about tht stupid underage sex law.... its stupid! its not like im going to get anyone pregnant. at least i didnt get any annoying hateful answers

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A female reader, xXxkinki_katiexXx United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

xXxkinki_katiexXx agony auntHi,,

If you are going to have sex with you bf,,

Then use a condom anyway but as the other posters said it will decrease you pain,,

I heared masterbating helps!!

But truely at your age??

Having anal sex??

Stay safe!! :] xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009):

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erections arent painful and neither is masturbation. ive never suffered pain from it before. but people say that sex is going to be painful. yh ive heard the condom speech many a time i dnt need it again

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