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*iethuni228
writes:So my boyfriend and I just made 6 months. We've been through more then the average couple would go through in this time period. I love him with all my heart. I don't have to think about it I just know. I know he loves me but I don't think he loves me whole heartedly like he says he does. Recently we had to seperate because he had to move back to his hometown which is 6 hours away. He calls me and everything and he tells me he loves me and that he's coming back for me, but then next thing you know he calls and says he doesn't know when he's coming back. So i asked y and he said because he has nothing to come back for so he's not rushing. Am I over analyzing or does he really mean it like i took it. Does he really not love me enough to try to fight for our love and stay together and come back like he said he would. I might be carrying his child now but he doesn't know that because i don't want that to change what he's thinking. I want him to stay with me for love not because of a child. I'd rather be a single mother then be in a relationship with someone that doesn't truly love me. Am i wrong for the way im thinking what do i do about this?
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (19 February 2009):
 Well for one thing you've only been together for 6 mounths, which is enough time to be in love but not enough time to be fully devoted. So he loves you, and he will come back for you, but for it to reach that type of devotion that newlyweds have then you have to be patient. {I say newly weds because they love each other enough to get married but haven't been together long enough to stop loving each other.}
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