A
female
age
30-35,
*saiyaSavannah
writes: I am trying to prepare myself for havign a REAL sexual encounter with this man I love, I am 19 and he is 28! I love him a lot, and I think i am ready to have sex with him. but I'm sooooo scared! I don't know anything about sex, and I want him to enjoy it and want to come back for more, how do I let go of my fears and become "Sasha Fierce" with this man. I am so scared I may look stupid doing something or may do it wrong and turn him off, I need to know things that are easy, straight to the point, and will cause quick stumulation. He is the first person I truly desire to be with since I lost my virinty last year! and I love him and want to make him SPRUNG!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, IMPULSE +, writes (19 February 2009):
If you are to the point where you love him, you should also be comfortable with talking to him about sexual things. Just ask him what he likes!
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): Just be yourself. More 'acting' you do, worse it will be for both of you. He is 28; he knows what he is doing. Don't forget to enjoy the moment.
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