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writes:My boyfriend looks at porn. I know it shouldn't really be a big deal, but it is. I mean I dont mind if i watch it with him, but he says he is goin to the restroom and i dont really think anything of it when he takes the laptop with him, cuz i think he is doin something important. But I get on and there is all this shit about webcams and shit. And like the last time we did stuff, it took him forever to cum while i was jackin him off, he actually had to do it himself.It makes me feel like I dont do it for him anymore, what should I do?
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reader, xXxkinki_katiexXx  +, writes (19 February 2009):
 Hi,,Can i just say??That if he gets off on porn and not much when you jerk him off that is wrong!! Tell him how you feel!!Or there is the alternitive which somebody said get a ban on the porn sites!! Or try to get to him before he gets to the pornAnd i suggest you asking him if he would like to make your own ''sex-tape''So he would be getting off on you and him instead of random-ners,,He will get used to getting off on you properly and hey-presto
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reader, gumbbo +, writes (19 February 2009):
You could install some software that prohibits viewing of porn site etc. He needs to get off the addiction of porn, and believe me, it can be addictive. Once he can't see it regularly anymore he'll soon lose interest. Yeah he'll prob watch it again if he finds a way, but in the mean time you will have gotten him off it and he will be more responsive to you. I am talking from experience. When i discovered a certain site that was a porn version of youtube, i couldn't stay off it, it was just too easy to see anything i wanted, i swear i was not even that into it before, but it was just so easy to do that i found myself watching it just for fun, then i'd get turned on, then i'd just have to masturbate in the end. When my g/f got back i'd already come, so wasn't as interested in sex with her as i would have been. Fortunately for me i gradually stopped bothering with the site, and did have more sex with my g/f after. She never found out must have just though i was going through and unhorny stage or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): i bet you do do it for him, he is just becoming addicted - talk to him.
Porn as fun as it is - is dangerous - too much and warps what sex is. You will only feel inadequate if you cant match the latest women in Bouncy vixens 37....(or so i am told..).
He is probably getting off on the porn and then coming to you - bit like a runner coming home after a race and then you saying lets go jogging. He wont be ready for it.
I think you should talk to him - explain that you dont like it and you feel bad.
if he keeps on then thats a different story, one thing at a time.
Hugs.Star..
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