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writes:I'm 16 and last year February I stopped going out with my boyfriend whom I had been going out with for a year and a half.We broke up but it was still like we were going out as we were still kissing etc. Then I went on holiday in mid August and when I came back he told me he liked someone else and started going out with her two weeks later. Last December they broke up and now we're getting closer again.I'm not sure whether I should be wth him again or not because he still goes to see her, even thuough he says they just talk but I feel as if I shouldn't go back to him after what he did to me, how he hurt me and upset me. What should I do?
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (19 February 2009):
 DONT TAKE HIM BACK FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS PRECIOUS TO YOU!!!
Sorry i had to release the fury of caps lock because of past experiences with this sort of thing. If you take him back you are essentially saying to the average male that it is ok to hurt you and leave you and have his way with another girl and then come crawling back after his little stretch is over. If you take him back he will continue to do the same things to hurt you. I know how guys think because i am one.
Dont make the same mistake my first love did. She chose her ex over me who continues to cheat on her to this day and has been violent to her. Not saying he will get violent but once these sort of activities start its all downhill from there. sorry i hope i help
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