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writes:ok so i had a dream the other night whilst at my boyfriends house. the problem is it was about his best friend. in my dream we were together and we kissed. it was one of those dreams where you feel as though you are really in it and you can feel everything like touch etc. the next time i saw his friend i realised that i have feelings for him. how do i stop these feelings...i love my boyfriend to bits but cant understand why i feel this way about his friend. is it normal to be attracted to someone so close to your boyfriend when you are in a loving relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): Hey - this is weird!! - I teach adults and I too had a dream about getting it on with one of my students which seemed very real and vivid to this day!! - The next time I saw him again we did infact end up kissing - but luckily that was all!! - Bizzarre huh?!You must follow your heart - maybe your subconscious is trying to tell you something!
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reader, SolvingSally  +, writes (19 February 2009):
Hi,I had this problem before. All you have to do is think about who you love more! If you love your boyfrind more try to thik about how great he is instead of his mate but if you feel that you prefer his mate then you should see if he feels the same way. If you love your boyfriend to bits then you should not have these dreams. But do not wory it is perfectly normal to have fantasies about another guy. Do not feel bad.Sally x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): I had the exact same thing.I think my feelings only lasted a few weeks as i slowly forgot about itit may be one of those things where you suddenly made those feeling real in normal life.Id say see how you go, chances are your feelings wont last long and youll carry on having a great time with your bfXxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): i have many dreams about people i shouldnt. but a dream is a dream. noone needs to know about it execpt you. they are harmless.if you truly love your boyfriend like you say you do, you wont act on these feelings. you can still love your boyfriend and admire boys from afar, its the touching that will get you into trouble. try to distance these feelings and rememeber who it is you dating. do you want to risk losing your boyfriend or ruining a friendship between them? :)
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