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writes:me an my bf are on our 8 months,im 14 he's 15 we were the best couple ever we did everything together,my friends loved him,i was so happy to have him,,he was so important to me,, at the end of our 4 months wen summer ended,we started schools,he started hangin out wit his friends more,,he started, drinkin, blazzin, dealin, an goin to partys, he like forgot about me or us,,an we got in fights an he laid his hands on me an i got bruises from him but he doesnt do that anymorehe says he needs me but it doesnt seem like it,, idk like he would blow me off all the time, like one time he said im comin over babe at like 4 an it was gettn like late like babe u comn an he sed ya hold on got laterr, an it was like 12 he;s like sorry babe,,he did that alot an now he doesnt even come over that much anymore,,he barley txts me,, an he takes everything as a joke,, we broke up alot but it was like we got back together all the time cuz everytime i found the strengh to let go he would say somthing to make me fall back for him like i treat him soo good i bought him 100 $ nikes for his bdayan he didnt buy me anything for my bday but that didnt matter to me cuz i love him,,i mean i love him soo much he was their for me,, i miss the old him,,i wish he would just realize im getting tiredd of thiss,,what should i do leave him or keep him an see if he would ever change ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): it sounds like he has started hanging round with the wrong crowd. he obvs cares for you but is messed up. ive watched really good friends change because they have ended up in the wrong crowd but they grew out of it and although at first i refused to listen they won me back as they were truly sorry. it could just be a faze.i bet right now he thinks he is "cool". you have to sit him down and make him listen. tell him its them or you. if he choses you make sure he sticks to it. but sadly if he choses them then move on. you deserve better and who knows maybe losing you will make him realise what he has lost. but dont waste anymore time on someone who doesnt care about you as much as his new crew. good luck :) let me know how you get on x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): I can't believe you're like this when you're only in your teens. I'll tell you exactly the same words i told my cousin who loves this dude but with other complication and had to break up with him. You're still in (what i like to call) a fish bowl. You don't know what's is beyond school yet. This guy isn't worth all of that trouble. Right now you love him cause you don't know any better. Just wait until you're a little older and see that breaking up with him is a great decision you made.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): Well you are 14, and although you dont want to hear this, its not something that is going to last forever. Especially since you have your whole life ahead of you and you dont need someone that doesnt respect you to be dragging you down. Move on you deserve better. He doesnt like you he likes the idea of you. At your age you need to focus on getting though high school and having fun with your friends. make memories and take so many pictures. He needs to be dumped and remeber whatever he says, he doesnt really want you just the fact he can call on you whenever he feels like it. You dont make someone a priority when you are only an option.
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (19 February 2009):
leave him. there are a lot of guys out there. there is someone out there who will treat you right and who will always be there when you need him.
l have to agree with satindesire, the guy isn't going to change. you may love him but its not going to help. the fact that he says he is coming to see you and doesn't says a lot about his respect for you. cut all communication with him and with time the love will die
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): break up with him and this time dont get back together right away. try dating other people. it will help u to see who else is out there and it will show him how what hes doing is not right and that ur serious about him needing to change. dont get back together with him unless he proves and i mean actually does something not just say he will change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): he is no good for you. respect yourself and find a man who isn't a street rat criminal who will buy you flowers and your mother will like. trust me, you might be attrcted to the bad guy, but the good guy makes you so much happier. if you stay with this guy, you'll have a few ups, but not enough to make up for all the downs. I've been there.
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