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writes:I'm a bisexual female, and just started dating a girl for the first time. I am crazy about her so far but I'm not too crazy about getting oral sex. Only a few people have done it right for me and I don't orgasm from it. Actually, like most women, I don't orgasm unless it's by myself (the mental thing). Also, I'm used to penetration every time I have sex and can't imagine not having it. With that being said, my girl and I have not yet gotten physical yet, and I'm nervous that it's not going to do it for me. I'm attracted to her, and I love giving oral to both sexes, but I've never enjoyed getting it for more than a couple of minutes. Any advice? She says she doesn't really like using toys. Thanks! PS Is this at all common in bi women?
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reader, flicka23  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 I'm not a bisexual but I can relate to you when you say that you have never got an orgasm from oral sex, same for me. I think that each person's body is unique and you like penetration, your body response better to the act of penetration. A partner should make all his/her best to please the other partner and i think you should tell her honestly what are your preferences.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (19 February 2009):
 Okay, I'm not bi, so I don't have much to offer on this one. But may I just observe that you seem to be doing way too much thinking and way too much worrying. You're out way ahead of yourself here. It seems to me that you just need to tell that part of your brain that is responsible for worrying to "SHUT UP" for now. You can worry about things later, when you actually have something to worry about. Right now, all you have is possibilities.
Stop thinking so much already, okay?
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I said "STOP!" You two will figure it out, most of the fun is in the playing anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): teach her to love you the way you do. guide her to what pleases you get her to sit behind you and use her hands as your hands. (that can be trickly for the oral practice.)
with the oral -get her to be real slow and gentle and again tell her what works...she might actually have a 10inch tongue (or at least feel like it)? you never know.
Um no idea if common to all um Bi women...
Hugs Star.x.
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