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writes:Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm in a current relationship with this girl, I'm really in love with her and she's in love with me.. we've been going out for 8 months.I really want to have sex and I know you're gonna say ohh I'm too young, oh there's a lot of stuff to think about before you do this... well I know, I feel the same way but I just can't resist the urge, it's hard for me, whenever we make out I just lose my mind.What do I do?? Thanks.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah i agree with all of you
i dont want to be a dad and dont want to catch a disease..but masterbating just doesnt satisfy me..
i feel like she should be near me watching, or doing it for me
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reader, MinionServatis +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Well its become your not in love, you are fourteen, you just need more experience in order to know what love is, and it may feel like love, but hey, and if you're that turned on, just jack off or something, If you two are both ready, by all means go for it, but if you still feel that slight "oh no don't do it" then it best that you do not have sex, oh and you should search this on google,
"Alfie Patten", he is a 13 year old boy who is now a father. remember masturbation is no crime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): I think watching porn would make him have MORE urges than now. You CAN have self control. You really can. My guy just presses his 'thing' down, then he's back to normal.
Life is SO MUCH more than sex, sex, sex. You don't want to be a dad yet do you? or get some disease. It happens everyday...and you could be next.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): None of the women who answered you know how powerful that urge really is at this point in your life.They can't. Because they have never had that amount of Testosterone floating around their bodies at one time.But I'm a man. I know what it's like and it does get easier over time. The urge will die down. It might take years, but you have to do the best you can to keep on top of things.If you have sex now you run risks that won;t be there when you reach the age of consent, the age by which the government deems yoi abel to legally agree to sex with someone.You run the risk if at least some legal action, given your age I don't know exactly if jail-time will be there, but it is still a risk.My advice. Watch porn a lot and toss off discreetly whenever you can to keep the urge in check. Just make sure it doesn't interfere with your school-work and you'll come through it all just fine.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): masturbate…you lose it now, you can never get it back…and once you start, it's really hard to stop…plus it will complicate the hell out of your relationship…and you don't want to be a 14 yr old dad
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