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female
age
41-50,
*illed with questions
writes:There's this guy I've known for two years, we used to have sex and mess around and I wanted something serious but he didnt.. Now time has passed and I consider us pretty good friends. We don't mess around any more and just hang out.. Now he is being jealous about the guys I go out with and talk to.. Always asking twenty questions about my love life., Then when he says something about us and I tell him that we will always be friends he tells me he is bummed... Whats his problem?? I mean he had his chance why didn't he take it then??
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reader, filled with questions +, writes (20 February 2009):
filled with questions is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni completley agree I have had the talks with him about being friends and only that and we have not done anything since that which has been a couple months ago now his jealousy has only got worse. And he is wanting to spend extra time with me and asking if I would ever date him. I just dont get him I want to keep the friendship but dont know how to do it
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reader, Lizzabeth  +, writes (20 February 2009):
As harsh as this will come out but I think he doesnt want you but he doesnt want anyone else to have you. He thinks 'your' his because of your friendship and past. I think you seriously need to talk to this friend and put him in his place. If your over him, then he needs to move on too and stop getting in the way of your other relationships. The best way to solve this is honesty and communication!
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