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I want a relationship based on love and not pleasure. How can I let her know that?

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Question - (19 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *akeee writes:

Okay I met this girl I really like 3 months ago and we started dating a month ago but she has a very awful past.. Her ex boyfriende was horrible with her and he used to beat her up and finally they had a kid together. The last time I saw her was 3 weeks ago and I really miss her and I want to be with her, I feel she doesn't trust me yet and I want to show her I want a relationship based on love and not pleasure. What can I do to see her again?

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A female reader, IMPULSE United States +, writes (19 February 2009):

Remember, simple things matter! Be supportive of her and show her that you care.

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (19 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt yeah i agree with "JAY"

just continue to be an awesome boyfrined to her and she'll soon realize that she caught a good one this time

and if you really want her to know that you want your guyses relationship based on love not pleasure than talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel, show her how you love her

gudd luck man, im sure it'll all turn out all right

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (19 February 2009):

jay12toes agony auntkeep going out with her, and be a good guy. show her you care, but dont be possesive. and wait for awhile to have sex.

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