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Is there such a thing as being too tight?

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Question - (19 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *izzabeth writes:

Is there such a thing as being too tight?

I am a virgin but I've messed around with lads including all foreplay, oral sex etc so Im not totally inexperienced but I've never gone all the way as I have this fear I am too tight.

I've explored and I know what I like but when it comes to vaginal stimulation I seem to be able to take 1 digit without any pain and that's what worries me and makes me use stupid excuses to avoid intercourse.

Is there such thing as being too tight? What can I do too loosen up?

A last point I'm not interested in any 'wait for the right person' stuff as Im 19, at university and not looking for anything serious.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

there is no such thing as too tight…the tighter the better…to increase both his and her pleasure…if you want to loosen up though a bit before you have sex for the first time, i'd recommend a dual stimulator from http://www.calexotics.com/ and a water-based lube of course…so, if it hasn't already, then you could break your hymen on your own, so you wouldn't have to worry about your first time hurting as much…i tried to break mine on purpose b/c i didn't want sex to hurt the first time…i think it worked lol

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