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writes:My boyfriend and I love each other im satisfied sexually but im not in the mood most of the time. how can i become more sexual and what are some things I can do to turn him on[Moderator's note: What do you mean by most of the time? It is preferred to be more specific. Thank you]
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): i have this problem too..im usually in the mood and my gf isnt..usually one to two times every 2 weeks if i dont initiate it..but anyway the thing that turns me on is if the sex is spontaneous or comes out of nowhere. its kinda lame when u know youre gonna have it cause theres no thrill cause u know youre gonna do it. what would turn me on is if we are watching tv or just layin in bed talking and she starts rubbing down there or does something out of nowhere that lead into sex. maybe its just me but thats a turn on for me, try something different
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): Things i would try;
Try dressing for sex - nice underwear etc. - don't tell him.
Go out with a skirt on and tell him you have no underwear on.
think about what turns you on, watch porn etc.
kiss lots and then some more
think of your most sexy scene in a book or move and then reenact it.
Let him watch you please yourself - teach him how to please you.
(just noticed i said things i would try. I wouldn't do the skirt on as i am a boy lol )
He is a boy and such he will probably always be gagging for it.
You don't have to match him, just enjoy what you share. If you dont want to do it then tell him to keep it until tomorrow when you will blow his mind.
Hugs Star.x.
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