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writes:My boyfriend and I are goiing to his grandma's house this weekend and we may be taking his little brother. We lived with his grandma for a few months and always slept in separate beds... but the little brother will make it so we are 1 bed short. Any suggestions on how to get his grandma to let us sleep together? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (19 February 2009):
remember older people are very set in their ways. when they were younger they would only court eachother and the thought of sex before marriage was a big no no. also the thought of sharing a bed when not married was also a big no no. so i think you need to just respect her wishes, after all it is her house.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you ... but not this grandma. she would see through the flowers plus she doesnt really like them. i would be better off teacheing her how to use the computer i picked out for her. but you guys are right i dont think we will push it..
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (19 February 2009):
 Ask your fella to ask her if it's alright. If she's uncomfortable with the idea, let it go. It's her house and you should respect her rules... my boyfriend and I have been together 3.5 years and my Grandma still feels weird about letting us sleep in the same bed, so whatever. It just makes the anticipation build for when we finally do get to share a bed again!
Oh yes, and score bonus points by bringing her some flowers. Why not? Grandma's love surprises. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): She'll point out there's always the sofa!Anyway, have a little respect for the old girl - it's her house after all. What you want will keep - it's only for a weekend for f***s sake!
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (19 February 2009):
 Tell her you are both adults and you are more than capable of sharing a bed without jumping on eachother.
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