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writes:Ok so I am so very confused. I thought things were over with a guy, I had texted him saying "I guess your over me, thanks for letting me know. see you around" after I hadn't heard from him in over a week then he responded "I'm sorry, you're so fun. Don't hate me". Then a few days later he called me to apologize and then asked me to come over. I told him no and he texted me the next day saying he was hoping i'd forgive him soon and I basically told him no. Then I saw him at a party and got drunk and asked if he wanted to have sex one last time and he said he didn't want it to be the last time so no. Then we talked and he said we could go at it but he was sick and didn't want to get me sick. I am so confused and a few days later I called to apologize for being drunk and mean and he said I shouldn't apologize because he deserved it. Then he asked me where that left us and I just said I don't know. And I'm really confused because I'm not sure if he is just trying to make me end things or if he still wants me. And I really like him but I just don't know what to do and I am so so very confused.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (19 February 2009):
 You havent mentioned why things ended between you or how long you were together for but you have to remember that it did end and there must have been a reason.
The two of you are confusing each other; you are sending him passive-aggressive text messages in the hope of getting a response out of him, then you are suggesting you have sex? I think you may be confusing him more than he is confusing you!
He is doing the typical man behaviour where he doesnt want you totally out of his life because he will still have feelings for you but then again he doesnt want to be with you either.
You both need to stop playing games! Meet up, and talk to him. Tell him you still like him and want to give it another go. He could either say yes then all is good and you are happy, or he could say no and then at least you know where you stand.
Or if you dont fancy talking to him then you have to cut off all contact with him and move on. Otherwise you will keep going round in circles being mean to each other and never getting anywhere!
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