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anonymous
writes:My brain is telling me to say "goodbye", but my heart is not onboard. I have been seeing my "boyfriend" for 6 months. We had a rocky start. I had a drunken psycho moment. Then we kinda moved past it. We dont see eachother that often. He tells me that he has feelings for me, but he doesnt know what they are. He says he doesnt know what he wants right now. I have told him I really like him. He tells me to "relax" and we will see what happens. He assures me he is not seeing or sleeping with anyone els. I do beleive him and trust him. But I feel like I am compromising myself because I want a relationship and he doesnt know what he wants. Should i listen to my head and leave now or listen to my heart and give ut a little more time?
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (19 February 2009):
 Slow down, get to know each other first...........it takestime........why not be friends first and then maybe it can grow into more.We (women)wants relationships because we need security, men are not like that they will commit only when they are certain about someone. Forcing him into a relationship before he is ready is like forcing him to just jum into a very hot bath without taking time to go in one leg at a time. Spend nice time together as well as gf/bf time and just let nature ru its course, no need to rush things:) good luck hun, i hope thins helps
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reader, jam jar  +, writes (19 February 2009):
 give it more time. wait to find out what is happening. once your sure about where it is going then decide wat your going to do. but dont expect him to think the same way.
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