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Would you sleep with him and do you you think this whole thing is my fault?

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Question - (19 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm the girl with the pornstar boyfriend again and I have a little bit of situation. My boyfriend and I had a talk about work at his apartment when I spent the night and he said he does accounting instead of the real answer. He now wants to have sex since I faked being sick on V-Day and he's really persistant about it.

He's sent me picture's of him naked and wrote some explicit remarks under them. He's given me several massages in order to entice me. He's showed me a slideshow of his workout sessions in which he's wearing nothing! So seriously would you sleep with him and do you you think this whole thing is my fault.

P.S no resolutions that result in leaving him.

P.P.S I'll write "love Echo(My nickname) at the end of every one of my questions.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

it sounds like the only reason you'd be having sex w/ him is to please him…as of right now you're avoiding the situation…you don't owe him anything…it is your body and you are entitled to withhold sex from whoever or forever long you please…if he truly cares about you, then he would respect your boundaries…i'd say go ahead and bring up the porn star thing to him…what's the point of living in a relationship that is a lie

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