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*hrissy121005
writes:I'm going out with a older guy and all my friends don't like him. I'm not allowed to date everyone, so I kept it a secret, but we got into a huge fight and broke up for 2 days, which a few friend found out we were together in the first place and they were saying how disappointed they are in me and how of all people, I had to chose him, that he was a flirt with other girls and that all he wanted is to have sex with me.Yet the thing is that we kind of are back together, and he's not the type of guy that just gets with a girl to sleep with her. As a couple we talk about it and he said that he didn't want me to think he wants sex, but I kept on talking about it, and he said that when the moment came, that we would talk about it. So now I don't want to disappoint my friends, but I want to be with this guy. Sometimes friends know best and sometimes they are wrong. So what should I do?Should I listen to my friends or stay with my man?
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reader, chrissy121005 +, writes (19 February 2009):
chrissy121005 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe was mad cuz i was with him alot, and he never told me, so r realationship started to get bad.he didnt call me or text me, and he didnt give anything on v-day (emotionaly, physically, or matarially)so i let it happen until i didnt feel like i was worthy for him, and i broke up with him.
then a teacher came and sat both of us down, and told him that he needs to act like a sinor and not lose me for something stupid. that i was one of the few underclass men that are a good caught
after that we talked about why he didnt like me, and he told me, and i just let him cool down for a day, and we talk today, and we made up.
but my friends hate him so much!
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (19 February 2009):
 if you think its right then stay with him. but im left wondering what the fight was about.... mabey its something that should make you reconcider your decision.
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