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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend's dad hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i need some solid advice here... the story is that at the moment i feel really down. i have spoken to my bf about it but he dosent think that im as depressed as i think i am. as it is at the moment money from my part is really tough. ive been recently off sick from ... (502 words)

He wants to be there for the birth... but what about after???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused me and my ex partner split up four months ago he said he was feeling trapped, without thinking straight I threw him out as we were regulary arguing, I found myself regretting that when he said he was happy and didn't want to come back I couldn't handle this ... (195 words)

How do you move on a mutual attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age - I've falling in love with a guy I hardly know. He works for his families business and is a f/t teacher. I am getting really close to his sisters and his mum likes me a lot. When at the family businessI can tell he is always looking at me and me at him. I feelhis mum has ... (179 words)

Her ex boyfriend won't leave us alone and refuses to believe she has moved on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for the past 7 months and we are very happy together. There is a problem though, her exboyfriend will not accept that they are not together any more. She has told him several times to move on but he refuses to do so. He has even tried to put moves ... (182 words)

Does anyone maybe know why I had this dream and what it means?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Does anyone maybe know why I had this dream. So it started out with me sitting with my friends and then a guy came over to sit with us. The guy which we will call um Jerami (fake name for the story). So Jerami and I started talking and that led into kissing and then that le... (112 words)

Flaky girlfriend never calls or is always late (but didn't used to be)

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl and I were together 4 years, broke up, had new FB/GFs and then got back together (sort of). She often says she'll call me at a certain time, or we'll hang out, but then I don't ever hear from her, or she'll call hours later to cancel our plans. I call her cell and she ... (84 words)

Depressed and lonely

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just finished school this year and i have never had a girlfriend. I'm not popular and i don't play any sports. I'm not very chatty. I prefer to be alone and be depressed. Why can't i find someone that can love me? I'm desperate.... (45 words)

She said she'd dump b/f and came back with an engagement ring!

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend fell in love with me and promised to dump her boyfriend, so that she could be free to be with me. After a couple of months at sea(She was in the military) she returned with an engagement ring. I was devistated... She told me that she was only marrying him for ... (147 words)

G/f asked me to clean house, I did, and now she's mad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, I was hinted at by my girlfriend to clean the house. So, I did. All of her crap that was just hanging out around the house I heaped on her bed. (I learned a long time ago to never put away another person's things because they NEVER can find them and get crabby.)... (115 words)

Calling all males, can you tell if a girl likes you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right. Simple question, more complicated answers I guess. I've read lots of times on here before that men and all males in general are rubbish at noticing signs that a girl likes them. Apparently they have no clue until they're told. I know girls tend to have a better emotiona... (143 words)

Like a virgin, not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My last relationship ended badly more then 4 years ago. I recently began dating again and I am very anxious about sex and intimacy. My ex and I enjoyed an incredible sexual connection and I do masturbate so I doubt that its physical. I am/was very sensual but now Im so nervous ... (88 words)

Ex 'poked' me on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend of 8 months dumped me last week by text because he 'didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend anymore'. So I was upset obviously but I wished him all the best in his life and good luck with exams etc and we said our goodbyes. Now I haven't heard from him f... (87 words)

I can't understand why he must have a girlfriend when he could have me anytime he wanted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everybody, I have a problem with my ex, we saw each other after our break up and I did that because he said that he loved me, but after one year of beeing with him whenever he wanted me and seeing him with his new girlfriend, I just couldn't stand it and even if I know ... (114 words)

Should I try and save what was a great relationship and could now be even stronger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ahh where to start.......I have been dating a girl now for almost 4 years we recently broke up, probably about 2 months ago. We had a great relationship and it all came to a fall over a house I wanted to buy. My gf and I had been looking at houses together but I will clarify ... (1183 words)

I know I don't love him but should I sacrifice my happiness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I hope that someone out there might have some helpful advice... I have been married for about 4 yrs and have a 5 yr old son from a previous relationship that went sour...My husband has been my sons father since he was 8 months old they love each other deeply and ... (193 words)

I messed up our friendship by hooking up with her kids' dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i really messed up a friendship over a yr ago and i really miss her. i hooked up w/her kids dad they had been split up for a couple yrs before this happened, and she lives out of state, so it wasn't like i broke them up. we were like sisters and the bestest of friends i have ... (114 words)

What can I do to win her love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I'm a bit upset with the rejection I get from girls. I'm 15 and really like this girl in my year and have for ages now but she doesn't feel the same as me and I really like her, what can I do to win the heart of my love?... (52 words)

Why won't my boyfriend meet my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. We dated for 2 months before then we broke up and got back together. He won't meet my parents because he thinks it "puts too much pressure on our relationship"... What does this mean? Why is he so scared to meet them. It... (90 words)

He keeps reminding me I messed him around in the past. Should I pursue it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for 8 years, and we saw each other a few times and still in contact now even though we are in relationships. I previously messed him around alot in the past which he still reminds me of now. I like him alot and for the past year we speak regular on and o... (140 words)

My boyfriend used to mess around with 14 nearly 15 year old girls when he was 23!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so heres the thing, ive had a boyfriend for nearly 2 months, that I REALLY care about okay. So I knew he has a reputation of "getting around", but ive recently found out he went as far as messing with 14 nearly 15 year old girls! his HIGHSCHOOL SISTERS FRIENDS! Mind you, ... (189 words)

How can I get a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I also want vaginal orgasms too not just clitorial. I know I have already asked this but I just dont know what to do at all. I am nervous and dont want to ask my mom because it is embarrassing but I want a toy. I dont know if she will let me nor do I know if my dad will (wh... (84 words)

Married but falling for another man, what should I do!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what do i do. im married, 1 child. great marriage, no lies, no infidelity, and no drama. but i think im falling for another man. hes married too. iv been apart working this past year and this man is working with me. were both apart from loved ones. and we have been seeing each ... (153 words)

Her past is affecting the way I see her now but I don't want to let her go...please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, this my story: I am 23 and last year I got to know to a girl (24) from my college whom I liked, but there was nothing between us, she just belonged to the same circle of friends as I, so we just hanged out together and stuff, sometimes went to have a coffee and we ta... (653 words)

How can I get him to leave me alone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Right. There's this guy who i met last year, and he is OBSESSED with me! I've tried to get him to stop texting me, as im with someone i love very much. He keeps saying he loves me, then when i say i dont feel the same he calls me horrible things. He's 18, and im 14. I dont kn... (79 words)

Opinions are needed. Does she like me as more than just a friend?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl for about 3 years and I really like her, but I don't know if she likes me. She always used to talk to me, and then the 2nd year I knew her We didn't talk that ofte, but now we talk pretty often again. She always sits at the lunch table with me, even though ... (156 words)

It has taken me two weeks to pluck up the courage to post on here, please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hello all i am so much in need of advice iv made a right mess of everythin u know when theres so much to explain but dont know where to start. i have been in a relatinship for 13 yrs he was not very nice to me and refused to commit, took all my confidence and i lost all my ... (355 words)

It's as if I don't exist, how can I get him to notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i'm 14 and there is a boy i reeally like, but he's in the year above me and he's never noticed me, it's as if i don't exist. we've spoken before, but after he's never paid any attention to me how do i get him to notice me? x... (52 words)

A maneater has my man in her sights!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - O.k. heres my situation. I am in love with my Fiance'. We have been through really rough times..Who hasn't. Well now lately he has really been stressing accusing me of talking to another Man. I haven't been. But we have this female friend of his that it's O.K. for him to talk ... (193 words)

He is all lovely dovey in text, but doesn't want anything solid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talkin to this guy for a while now and he always says how he likes me and that he wishes we could be togther. So me being tired of just texting and talking asked him where he thought this was going and got all defensive saying were just having a laugh at the moment ... (90 words)

I like him, how can I stand out from amongst the crowd?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I are friends, However I want to know if he likes me as more. We talk all the time, Have gone a few places in a group (ice skating) He will say hi, or wave when he sees me, and he always makes me laugh. He sometimes stares at me, and then looks away, or sometimes ... (149 words)

Does he like me, I wanna know, how can I tell if he likes me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he like me? I mean, he flirts with me, no doubt, I can tell that. The problem is that he broke up with his girlfriend who was cheating on him 2 months ago, and he also flirts with one other girl, my friend. He flirts with us about the same amount, but him and my friend ... (190 words)

I think I made a mistake...

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I 'think' I've made a mistake, i had just had a huge fight with my boyfriend and i went to a mates house, we chatted and watched movies. it got late and i stayed over i borrowed a nighty but it was a bit big and kept falling off. we shared the bed like we normally do, half way ... (173 words)

My boyfriend has erectile problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Some advice or reassurance! pweasee When me and my boyfriend have intercourse he can never come. He often loses his hardon aswell. He tells me it feels good but it obviously doesn't, he's fine during foreplay but sometimes can't get fully hard but can always come he tells me... (120 words)

My bf wants us to move in together....but I'm not ready =[

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Thanks to whoever reads this and can give me some advice. Well ive just started University and have been in the City for about 2 months. My boyfriend recently moved down also and has his own house share. Well he wants us to move in together next year but al... (208 words)

I was torn between two but I think I chose the wrong one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Big Problem. Okay, my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 years... known him for 6. We use to have major problems off and on. Loved him to death and really knew i wanted him. We lived far apart for the first 3 years of knowing each other. We'd visit one another but my boyfr... (625 words)

How can I show him he shouldn't be nervous around me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a big problem. I am in my first year of college and have fallen hard for this amazing guy. We are both crazy about each other. We started messing around but he only wants to please me... He does not ever want me to give him head or even a hand job. We tried having ... (116 words)

I need some tips... What can I do to show him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok here goes - occasionally we will hang out but not that often and when we do he doesnt talk much but when we do talk it's sooo fun and we get along really well. I'm also mates with his best friend and i get along with all his friends, but i like him so much i want to ask him ... (97 words)

Is he just flirting with me the way he does with other girls or does he REALLY have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heya :) When ever I write on here, i get answers that I don't understand.. So i have decided to tell you everything. There is this boy in the same year, same form. We have been so close for about 1 year and a half now. My very strong feelings for him started to develop about... (393 words)

Has she fallen OUT of love with me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A little backstory first. I've been dating this girl for 1 year and 4 months. Before we started dating we worked together and I was her boss. It began innocent enough, neither showing any interest in each other but over time I developed a huge crush on this girl. So much so ... (404 words)

He doesn't "fit" me properly!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have just started having sex with my boyfriend... three times and our parts don't fit together during sex. I cannot fill him during sex. I am totally baffled... maybe he is too small for me? Hence we both cannot climax. Are there ways to make this better... please I am ... (79 words)

What do I do about Lee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I just thought I’d write in because I am in need of some help over a boy. I mean it’s pretty weird because I don’t normally stress about boys much but this time it’s different and I am a bit confused. I’m 16 and in my last year at high school the same as this boy (lee), ... (660 words)

I love my fiancé, but I feel like I'm just getting what's left of him after his past marriages.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance has been married twice before. He's a great guy and I love him to pieces. But, I feel sometimes that I kinda am getting what ever is left of him and his relationships. Maybe thats not such a bad thing, but in somethings it is because he does not have the same ... (120 words)

Although we've made up now my boyfriend is having a party and the girl he cheated with might be there!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago - slept with someone else at a party. Completely unexpected and completely against my morals. More detail in previous q's of mine! But to the point of this one... Rightly, or probably wrongly, i gave him another chance. I was w... (561 words)

I don't know whether to be with him or move on after this happening... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of months ago my boyfriend slept with someone else out of the blue... complete surprise and never thought he would ever do anything like that. Have been trying to move on - with him - trying couples counselling. Feel some issues are resolved but what i'm finding... (353 words)

Was it his ex who called him? What is he hiding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I so hate my boyfriend right now. After we got into a fight on sunday evening because of his ex he told me sorry and i forgave him. The next day we both went to work and he didnt call me the whole day like he does on a regualar basis, after work i decided to call him but he ... (259 words)

My best friend confessed his feelings, but I'm married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for four months and I just found out the my best friend who is a guy have strong feelings for me. I once felt the same way the problem is once he told me that all my feelings started to come back. I feel lost cuz I love my husband very much. What should I ... (61 words)

Penis problem!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys i have a question. So im a 15 year old boy and i was wondering if you could help me. Under the head of my penis there are like tiny little bubbles that sometimes puss out white stuff. I was wondering if any of you know what it is? I'm concerned.. but i know it cant be ... (95 words)

How long does it take to become pregnant once the implant has been removed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How long can it take to get pregnant when the implant has been removed?... (14 words)

I need some flirting tips so I can get him running around after me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy, but the problem is that the other month i rejected him because i have some family issues and a boyfriend was the last of issues, but i let him down really badly. i want some tip on how to get talking to him again, so basically some flirting tips to get ... (63 words)

Should you live together before you get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is it good for fiance and finacee to be living together before they get married.... (15 words)

Does my girlfriend love or hate me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - umm .. i am a male aged 24 and i have just recently got my first girlfriend at age 23. my girlfriend lives in a forain country at this time. although i have not physically met her i still love her. i have many problams with anxiety and stress that are makeing me think the wors... (284 words)

Can anything be done for my boyfriend who doesn't last very long in bed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my guy for a few months. We've had sex 6 times, and each time he "finishes " after less than a minute. Until me he hadn't had sex for 4 years, and is 36 years old. How long is normal for this to happen after such a long period of inactivity? When should I ... (140 words)

Can anyone help me? I feel I am being mentally abused by my wife and I don't know where to turn

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm lost........... I am a 37yr old male who has been married for 5-1/2 years been with my wife for 8 years. We have a beautiful 2-1/2 year old daughter who is my life and soul. I am stuck in a spot where the only thing right now in life is what my daughter feels and thinks... (698 words)

I'm embarassed that I am still a virgin but personally I don't want to lose it yet!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help! i am 16, and i've not really had much relationship experience. I've liked guys a lot and almost everyone in my grade has lost their virginity. I definatly don't want to lose mine yet, but what about peer pressure? Also, the guys i like, well, just say they're ... (149 words)

Should I be angry because I was not invited to my friends party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello today a friend of mine was having a party and she invited everyone accept me.i felt hurt and my other friend who got invited said i dont deserve to go and also was saying some nasty things and untrue things about me to another mate of mine. i feel hurt that i was not invi... (75 words)

My girlfriend wants sex more than I do..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - It's been a year My girlfriend wants sex more than i do, the majority of the time i cannot climate before she does we're only young and have sex A LOT how do i regain plessure?... (39 words)

Is it really over this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help.. me and my boyfriend were together for 11 months. he jumped right out of a bad 2 year relationship with his ex (in which they had broken up several times..got back together..twards the end she wouldnt really let the break up happen..kept talking to him..basicall... (821 words)

How can I find the right person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well, I am 21, i so much want to be in a relationship, a serious one.i dont like to feel loneliness. I really want someone nice in my life. Can someone tell me where i can find the right person?... (40 words)

Anyone have any ideas on how me and my boyfriend can improve my self esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no self esteem, because of past relationships, and I just found out I like to dominate, but there's only one problem. It doesn't feel normal to me to dominate during sex because I'm female. I know it's because my self esteem is pretty much gone. Anyone have any ideas on ... (63 words)

How long should I give my ex a "pass"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex girlfriend broke up with me this past August, but till continued to hang out like a couple until about Halloween. Some things in out relationship caused me to go psycho on her. I became controlling, continually asked her what she was doing, constantly asked her if she's ... (674 words)

I think my husband is gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i m married for seven years my husband never paid attention to me always fight with because of his best friend we have a lot of problems bec of that guy and now i think he might be a gay what should i do , but i m not sure about it ... (52 words)

I could have sex twice a day, is this weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is is bad to want sex more than twice a week? I could easily go it at least twice a day however my boyfriend thinks that is ridiculous. I am a reasonable guy and understand we're different and by no means expect us to ever have sex two or more times a day. Compromise thoug... (256 words)

I feel so down all the time, life doesn't seem fair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - iam so sad wateva i do i feel like is againt me. i try hard to do my uni reports and i always get grades i dont deserve, however my best who dnt try hard she always get better marks then me cuz i feel like she gets my idea. especially when i help. im not jealous wen she gets ... (149 words)

I'm attracted to his personality but not neccessarily looks, can this work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've met a guy who is very far from my usual type, which I'm aware might be a good thing, and would like advice if you think it's something worth working at. I don't have a great relationship history. Without wanting to come across as arrogant, I am what some people woul... (303 words)

He's not interested in our wedding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started to talk to my fiance yesterday about the wedding and telling him how I was organizing things to make sure the final details were in place. But he just doesn't seem to care or be excited about anything. It just makes me wonder if he cares or is excited about this or ... (223 words)

I've fallen madly in love with two girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, a serious question. You see, I've never had luck with love in the past. I've liked people but never had that certain special feeling for them, which has made me think that I'd never find someone. Well all of that has changed now. I've fallen in love with two girls, and i... (496 words)

Is there anyone out there that went through a divorce and regretted it and got back together and re married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age - Happy Holidays to all!! I have a question for everyone out there. Is there anyone out there that went through a divorce and regretted it and got back together and re married? Did it work? Is it possible to put all of the burned bridges behind you? I am very excited to hear ... (63 words)

He cheated and got someone else pregnant! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 5 years got someone else pregnant and we have a 2 year old should I stay or go?... (21 words)

How do I help him recover from his rape

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently deployed in Afghanistan and I spoke to my boyfriend yesterday and I could tell there was something seriously wrong so I asked him and he told me he'd been beaten and raped by 3 guys last Saturday. He's been to hospital and reported it to the police but he's in ... (206 words)

Help for my sex addiction...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

8 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I may have a problem in that I think I'm a sex addict. I want to stop and I'm ashamed to get help for it. I find it hard to end it with these men that I am fb with. I dont want to hurt anyone. What can I do? ... (52 words)

Masturbating in her sleep???

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible that my girlfriend just masturbates in her sleep? A few times now I have woken up to the my girlfriend moving her hand quickly under the covers over her vagina. She doesnt sleep fully naked. I have asked her if she was masturabting a few times and she... (140 words)

How can I reassure her how I feel?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! We are classmates at high school, and after we came to college my gf confessed her love to me and I accepted. I's been about five months since we became bf and gf, but now we are apart since we are in different colleges. We can meet each other only on holidays ... (109 words)

After 24 years of marriage he now tells me he wished he'd had sex with more women! This is making me very insecure

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8 December 2009 (F)

age - After nearly 24 years of marriage my husband, aged 51, announced to me that 'the biggest regret of his life was that he hadn't had sex with more women'. I also found out at the same time that he had lied to me about being a virgin when we met and that he had in fact had sex ... (103 words)

Why does my condom slip off when I practice?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - well before i put a condom on to practice im flaccid, not even semi hard and i put heat lube on but im still flaccid. and then i get kinda hard but not fully hard and i put the condom off but when i start masterbating it slips off. i didnt buy large condoms i bought normal ... (107 words)

How can me and my girlfriend can get closer?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - well last night my gf and i were texting and i asked her if she thinks that me and her are close and if we have a good relationship and she said "yeah i think were close, but we could be closer" and yeah i think we have a good relationship too". what can we do to get closer? ... (135 words)

Boredom? Midlife crisis or just plain immature?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been in this relationship for almost 6 year. We live together and get along perfectly fine. Until last week when he announced he wants to break up because he feels "tied down". He says he stills loves me but he misses the "sparks" of the new relationship, ... (142 words)

Is it normal for guys to switch from being hot to cold?

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8 December 2009 (F)

- Is it normal for guys to switch from being hot to cold? My bf and I who are both in our mid 20s, have been together for almost a year. Throughout our whole relationship I have felt like I am walking on egg shells. If I show him affection and tell him I love him etc, and... (301 words)

Its not fair on my boyfriend to still be in love with my ex, how do I get over him?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. I'm currently with a guy who treats me far better and loves me far more than my ex. I can't seem to get over my ex, no matter what I do about it. 1.) is there anything I can do to try to get over him? 2.) I feel like I'm not being fair ... (91 words)

Why do I start to feel like this 3 months into my relationships?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my ex for 2 years on and off, we only lasted up to 5 months each time tho because after 3-4 months id start to feel as if i no longer had feelings for him but as soon as another girl was on the scene i cudnt handle it and all a sudden my feeling for him were back ... (128 words)

Monster in law

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i deal with a monster mother in law ?... (12 words)

What could be the reason behind this drop in my sex drive and sexual performance?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hiya I have a bit of a growing concern I am starting to find it harder and harder to maintain an erection, I can usually last for a good number of sessions in one night, but recently i havent been performing as well as i can. i feel the little "fella" struggling to st... (133 words)

Do girls demand money from you when you are dating? And can you fall for someone you have never met?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Question 1: I need a relationship wit a girl... I can have one... Because i dont have... So is it true you cant get a girlfriend if dont have money... Am afraid they might demand money from me or as... (119 words)

Its like we’re in a long distance relationship but we live in the same house!

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m engaged to a man and we live together. We are planning to get married but I always delay things because I am not 100% sure. I think I love him but we live together and I am noticing habits that I am not sure I can live with. He is already married to his job for starters! He ... (205 words)

I'm struggling to be honest during relationship counselling because I don't want to hurt her feelings!

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in relationship counselling with my girlfriend. We've been to one session. The counsellor is using the Imago method. My girlfriend has very low self-esteem and I think it's partly because I have problems communicating and I often say the wrong thing when I'm frustra... (314 words)

How do you become an Alpha male?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alpha males of the great ape species beat up the other males. This is how they become the alpha males. After they've won, they don't worry about getting females. They can chill out and have whatever female they want. There are guys who are confident and can get almost whate... (94 words)

My new girlfriend has fallen in love with me, but my ex wont stop begging for me back! What should I do?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex of a year broke up with me abut 4 months ago, saying it was because i couldnt tell her i would be there for her. I begged for her back, like an jackass, and she wanted none of it. I waited for about a month and started talking to another woman, who i have been seeing now ... (112 words)

I want my man to be a man and have a mind of his own, but I feel it cant happen whilst he still lives with his parents!

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have to start my question with my story...i'm dating a guy who is 27 and im 26.i'm currently workin and recently moved out of a siblings place to get a place of my own.My boyfriend is in search of a job as he just completed his masters programme.he is d best tin dat has ... (386 words)

He broke up with me due to the army. Does he still love me?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if a guy breaks up with his girlfriend of 4 months cos hes busy with the army, but still really likes her and wants to be with her sometime in the future when he has more freedom, but stayin mates for now well they were really close so will he miss her when she doesnt cont... (142 words)

He says he hit me out of self defense. Should I still even be with him?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 21. 2 days ago we went to a christmas party. i got very very drunk and apparantly made a fool out of him by the way i was dancing ect..we stayed at my parents and when we got in we were arguing. I went into my room and went to bed. An hour later he ... (377 words)

My girlfriend seems to be mocking me with the thought of a threesome. What do I do about it?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my partner for close to a year now, she is more sexually experienced that me and knew was bisexual before we got together, which has never bothered me and I've always accepted. She's actually had relationships with other women, not just slept with them (if ... (283 words)

How do I stop or get over my family's ridicule?

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8 December 2009 (?) age 51-59 - hi, i live in a village which has a massive family who alos live here, they consisit of aunts, uncles, cousins, grandma, grandad etc all scattered around it. my brother had a baby with one of these family memebers a few months back. me and his partner dont get on because she is ... (411 words)

The sweet and caring guy? Or the attractive smooth guy?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, there was a guy that i was seeing and things were great but because he is attractive and we never discussed about commitments and loyalty. i had some doubts and before we could talk about it, i broke it off! i started to see another guy for a month and he is sweet and cut... (110 words)

She has lied to me and she is a bit of a sex freak. How do I accept this?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I've had enough. OK. Been dating her three months. Everything seemed great at first. But now everything has come around. She lied to me about her neighbor guy friend coming over because she didn't want to admit she was smoking weed with any one. She almost has a double ... (227 words)

Why do I not like having sex? Relationships have fallen apart because of it.

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, I dont know if this is weird but i am 22 year old female and i do no like to have sex. I have been in several serious relationships before and i pretty much broke it off with the guys because i felt bad that im hardly up to have sex with them. currently i am dating an ... (125 words)

I'm with the guy I cheated with, only to have sex with my husband. Is that cheating?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I cheated on ny husband two years ago and now we're separeted.Im now with the guy I cheated on my husband with but this guy doesn't pay attention to me the way my husband did.Six months ago I had sex with my husband and I confessed this to the guy I'm seeing. He got mad at me ... (93 words)

Is the reason why I cheat on my boyfriend because I don't love him?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So heres the deal. im not writing this to have people criticise my situation or anything, I already know its wrong what I'm doing. I'm just looking for someone who may have gone through the same sort of deal. Ive been with my boyfriend 4 years, weve been living together ... (339 words)

Should I tell him that I don't fogive him after his apology?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so, an ex-boyfriend from about 5 years ago sent me an apology note recently, saying he had treated me wrong and I really hadn't deserved the way he treated me, etc. and I was taken a little aback. I had responded with a sort of nice email back, oh I appreciate what you're ... (314 words)

All of a sudden he isn't replying. What happened?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy that msged me daily or almost daily seems to have disappeared.We've been on a cpl dates but have mostly talked/txted.All was well - the contact was still steady as ever.I baked him cookies(he asked for em) but have yet to drop em off - it's been hard to pin him down ... (251 words)

How can I accept my sexual past?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel terrible about the number of people I've slept with. I don't feel the need to post the number here because, really, all it is is a moral judgment and I know people will see it differently. I have friends who've slept with more, whatever... the point is, I'm not okay with ... (224 words)

Help me deal with this pain...

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I didn't meet my first love until I was 23. Now, after 3 years, loss of parents, unemployment, failed pregnancies, and the life that can happen in three years, it's over. I don't know how to deal with this pain. I never knew how much it could hurt. Please help! ... (50 words)

Why can't I keep an erection at this age?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone Im 31yrs old and for da last 3 weeks I've been under a lot of stress and been having trouble getting and keeping an erection and my girlfriend of 1 month is freakin pissed cuz it's happened 3 times already and wants to stay away till I resolve my problems so I ... (66 words)

What can I do about his gaming addiction?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is seriously addicted to online gaming. I have no problem with gaming. But he will miss work, leave early, go to work late, not eat or sleep for days. And, of course gets angry when someone tries to confront him with his problem. His family has also tried to help ... (109 words)

He embarassed me in front of my friends and family. Should I give him a second chance?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I meet this guy who was really sweet, we have lots in common and everything our first date went really well we had lots to talk about. But the next day he made a really innappropriate comment about naked pictures involving himself very publicly and my family and friends ... (89 words)

I want her back, but my ex-fiance is seeing other men. What should I do?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Actually i ve broke up with my fiancee for 5 months and i came back to see her after this 5 months and she is being honest with me that she is seeing another guy now and this guy seems like a very nice guy but the problem here is she still loves me but with this guy she feel... (153 words)

He suddenly wants to move in together. Why the sudden change in attitude?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 years suggested I move in with him. This surprised me because I was convinced we were dating this long because we were not living together - we often stated to each other and to others that we have it made because of this arrangement. Fear and elation... I ... (111 words)

Why was I rejected by her?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - okk...i saw this girl in my class, shes fine and different from other girls. she has lots of friends and very quiet in school but not outside the school..shes fine and very pretty and i am kinda ripped (20 inches shoulder span) and am not that good looking but i have appeal on ... (146 words)

Do you think it's the right time for me to have a baby?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 16, and out of school.. And I want a baby, I have for a few years now.. I have a steady relationship that I have been in for a little over a year.. I make alot of money, I have a steady job, and I am my own boss, and I also make ALOT of money from barrel racing.. When ... (161 words)

How do I deal with a beautiful woman hitting on my husband 1000 miles away?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be rational but the emotional side is winning. I need help! I'm trying to keep a long story short, so please be patient. My husband took a temporary job for 8 weeks that is 1,100 miles from our home. The owner of the business had surgery and ... (625 words)

Should I win him back in spite of what my parents think of him?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been sort of on and off for months with this guy. We actually got together in January. This is my longest relationship. Even though we've had our ups and downs, I really do love him. It took me this long to really realize that I want to be with him. I mean, I've always l... (414 words)

She wants me to make all the effort. What should I tell her?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - during band camp she said i didnt see her enough . the problem in this is im sax section so i dont hav much time . she has plenty of time to see me while im working but she says i should go to her. plz give me advice on what to tell her... (56 words)

Should I be confident in my chest size? Or try to hide it?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a nice body and I've heard many times I have a really nice ass but since I'm so small my boobs are an a cup....when I have sex should I keep my bra on or just try to be confident cause it is what it is?... (48 words)

I dreamed of a boy I no longer have a crush on. What does it mean?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What does this dream mean? It starts out Dylan(the guy I used to crush on who's a year older than me) was in my house and I was in the backyard walking to school. I see him and decide sinse my parents aren't home I will just skip school and hang out with him though I'm afra... (205 words)

Should I tell the guy I like I think his friend is a creep?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy and he likes me but its like forbidden love declared by our parents. anyways him and his friend stayed at my house after i had a party and hes been creepin on me ever since and i dont want to hurt the guy i likes feelings should i tell him his best friend is a ... (62 words)

We got back together, but now my wife is acting the same way she did when we broke up

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello to everyone. I am thinking I will get the best answer from a woman, but will take advice from anyone. My situation is... About ten months ago my wife told me that she was completely unhappy and didn't want to be married anymore. I am completely dedicated to her. She ... (424 words)

How can I re-ignite this relationship?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for three years now, and have known her for 7. We got together pretty young (we've liked each other since the age of twelve), and she feels like the spark in our relationship has started to fade. She misses the "exciting" feeling that we had when ... (135 words)

16 Years later our feelings for each other hasn't changed - but he's married

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just to let you all know, this is pretty long. And it's not one of those questions where the answer is right there in front of me. So I need some outside sources. There might be some people who have had a similar situation as I am having now. So here it goes. When I wa... (795 words)

He's 17 and I'm 14. Should I ask him out?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is kinda kiddish but I'm a freshmen in highschool and im 14. there is this guy in my health class who I really like and he is a junior and 17.. All year I never made an effort to talk to him but he always talked to me. He flirts a lot and I do back but he has never asked ... (112 words)

She assumed my help was a barter for sex and I'm a bit insulted. Should I explain or let it go?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a strong swimmer. The other day our sports club went snorkelling at a nearby reef. One of the new club members, a girl, was struggling and I stuck around to help her get the hang of snorkelling and to make sure she didn't end up in danger. She ended up having a good but ... (287 words)

If a guy is shy but really likes you, does he treat you differently from everyone else?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - You know when a guy really likes you but seems too shy to do anything or awkard about it for some reason, is it normal for him to just not treat you the same and sort of of treat you like his other friends like... not ingoring but he sort of distances himself from you or he ... (115 words)

Help!!! What do these dreams mean?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok waht could these dreams mean? Its weird i keep having dreams about me and one of my guy friends going out together. Thing is stuff happens at the start like we kinda ty and hold hands but one of us pulls away and stuff, basically it starts with us being really awkward round ... (273 words)

16 and possibly pregnant... any advice?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - FREAKING OUT!!!!! I'm 16 years old and I have been pregnant before when I was 15, I had a surgical miscarriage. I regret it every bit, but I know for a fact that i was not ready for a baby. I'm still not ready, I think I'm pregnant again, I'm showing all the signs and have mis... (141 words)

My labia seems to be getting bigger... any ideas why?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having sex for 2 years now... my vagina isn't bigger at all in the inside, but the "labia" or "lips" as some people call it seem to be getting bigger... is it because of the way my body is changing or is it really because of sex?? ... (50 words)

I am soooooo sexually frustrated!

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. He's 20 and I am almost 19. In the beginning of our relationship, we got physical quickly and I loved it. After a couple months it died down, due on his part, and nothing ever happened except maybe once every couple ... (441 words)

Should I bring it up again and try to bring closure?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I hope my question format is easy to understand. History: My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost two years. We have had our ups and downs, but nothing that was extreme in any manner. I love her very much, and she says she loves me the same. What ... (369 words)

Is there such a thing as a "drunk dick"?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had sex with this guy and he was drunk... I did things with him sexually before and he could always "finish" even when I gave him a handjob ... but he couldnt when we had sex and it brought down my ego... he said it was beacuse he was really drunk and he had drunk ... (71 words)

I don't understand what he's trying to say...

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i've always been really good friends with this boy. But recently were starting to think that we have something more and always send sexual texts and joke around with eachother about how we have a crush on each other... it's extremly immature and its weird but the other ... (333 words)

How do I tell my mom that I want to stay at my bf's place?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I come from a strict European background and up until recently I haven't dated much. I'm 23 and still live at home (I support my parents financially). I don't talk to my mom about guys or anything like that...she's never talked to me about it either. She's a great person over ... (211 words)

He's divorced and so am I...how long before we should marry?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorce to a navy military member and now i have a army bf but he is in the same base in our area. we are planning to get married, how long it takes or the process, if am divorce and he is divorce too?? is that possible we married soon?... (52 words)

Is birth control really necessary?

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8 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is birth control really necessary??? I mean hell i dont want to be a babies daddy just yet but i have condoms and we have been together for more than 2 years. I feel like she is just avoiding having sex.. no we havent had sex yet either... (51 words)

I am scared that I might be pregnant! Help!

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 16 about 4 days ago I had sex with my boyfriend. He used a condom but I'm so worried I might be pregnant I don't think the condom "broke" or anything, I would've felt it or heard it,right? I didn't notice a tear or anything in the condom and I trust my boyfriend so ... (186 words)

I like him so why is he ignoring me?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, okay, so recently, this guy I really like has lost a friend and been ignoring me. His friend died and he's acting fine with everyone else. He's acting like his same goofy self...except with me. Like a few days ago I said "hi" to him and he just kept walking. What does this ... (60 words)

Just what do guys find sexy in females?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are good ways to tell someone you want to have sex with them without coming on too strong? And what is sexy to guys..... (25 words)

How do I prevent these sounds?

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for 2 years and we just recently broke up, i had sex with this other guy and we did it doggy-style (my favorite).. everything was great during it but afterwards i queef.. and its really embarissing.. i dont queef durig it. is there something that i should do ... (63 words)

My bf got drunk and threatened me with a knife and I wound up sleeping with his best friend!

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me, my boyfriend (who we'll call Andrew), his best friend (who we'll call Nick), and another friend of ours went out to a bar the other night together and all of us were kind of drinking a lot. Andrew got absolutely smashed all of the sudden and started fighting with me for no ... (471 words)

What can I do for cramps besides pain meds and heating pads?

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8 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What do I do for cramps besides taking pain medications and using a heat pad? My period comes tomorrow and I can already tell the cramps will be bad. Also I dont have time in between classes to change my tampon and most of my teachers dont let us go to the bathroom in cla... (86 words)

Part of me feels I should play the field, especially since I'm not as sexually attracted to him.

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for a long time now, and i seriously think he's the one. But since things have started to get serious i don't find myself as sexually attracted to him anymore, and we rarely have sex. We both work together and for a while now i've been really attr... (158 words)

Sometimes I can't stand my boyfriend!

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8 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really do love my boyfriend I just can't stand him sometimes. Sometimes I think about breaking up with him but after talking to him I change my mind. I don't know what's up with me. He's 17, a senior, and Im his first official girlfriend. I don't know I guess Im just as... (65 words)