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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i've been with my boyfriend for a long time now, and i seriously think he's the one. But since things have started to get serious i don't find myself as sexually attracted to him anymore, and we rarely have sex.We both work together and for a while now i've been really attracted to one of my managers. The other night when i was working with this manager, he came onto me and said that my boyfriend would never have to know if we slept together. i told him no but i really wanted to say yes.i'm only 20 and part of me feels like i should play the field before i think about settling down, especially in a relationship where i have no sex drive. but i also don't want to throw away an amazing relationship with someone who i really think could be the one. what should i do?
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reader, Frenzotic +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Both you and your boyfriend NEED to MAKE TIME to reconnect that level of intimacy with each other. Find ways to get that spark back. Both of you do new things, take a weekend trip somewhere, find new hobbies/leisurely activities together etc
The fact you refused your manager despite your desire means the relationship you have with your boyfriend is seriously important and worthwhile. Don't throw it away.
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