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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, so i've always been really good friends with this boy. But recently were starting to think that we have something more and always send sexual texts and joke around with eachother about how we have a crush on each other... it's extremly immature and its weird but the other night he threw me off and said something that i wasn't expecting. He said "Do you like me or do you wanna just keep doing what we've been doing".. i wrote back and said "woah.. that was random what do you mean do i like you" ...trying to play it off.. But then he asked again, and i made him tell me why and he said "cause if i took this girl on a date would you be upset".. i dont no if hes playing hard to get or what his deal is... then he said im his "best friend and he doesnt wanna stop talking to me".. i was really confused cause the night before he was telling me how he wanted to get with me and stuff and we ALWAYS send flirty texts..I alwasy thought he was gay before this because he is still a virgin and he never did anythign sexual witha girl before (or at least no one knows about it)I just don't get what he is trying to say.. One second he says he has a crush on me, and the next second he askes if i would get mad if he took a girl on a date... then he told me i was being weird and asked why i was upset when i wasnt.... my responce was"Your the one being weird, if you consider us best friends then why would i care if you went on a date"..We both won't ever say what we really feel but i just dont understand what he is trying to say...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): He's trying to let you know that he likes you, but he won't wait around for someone who is only interested in playing games because he wants more than that.
To be honest I thought your reaction was overly evasive, which probably further convinced him that you're just messing around.
Just be straight with him. If he's really your best friend, then you should feel okay talking to him about this.
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