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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My sex drive has died, could it be the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend this year, it was both our first time. I went on birth control Microgn 30 two months later to help improve my periods. On these i got quite ill and moody, but i did have a good sex life with him. After 3 months on the microgn i got ... (180 words)

I just found out my cousin was cheating with my boyfriend two years ago, and all my friends knew and didn't tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently found out that my cousion who im very close with, was cheating with my boyfriend around two years ago. me and my cousion have been close more or less since we were born as we're around the same age. we've always done everythin together, including both getting our ... (274 words)

I found a picture of an ex in one of his girlie mags!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I inadvertently stumbled across a picture of a girl that I thought my boy had stopped seeing in one of his girlie mags. (Not that I read these, but it happened.) Do you think it means anything? Should I dismiss it? She was clothed, but the picture is recent enough that it h... (106 words)

How do I come to terms with what they said about me behind my back?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you forgive somebody that has made fun of you in the past, someone that you like a lot and you weren't really surprised because they called you it to your face before. This time though they said it behind your back to like three friends and you're sure they laughed when ... (78 words)

I've been feeling, well, strange... could I be pregnant?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible im pregnant? Im in a on off relationship with this guy, and im a little worried.. I dont think I am.. but is it possible? I want to avoid having to get a pregnancy test at all costs cos the only place I could get one is the chemist where my auntie works... Anyway... (220 words)

Her parents getting divorced is ruining my chances at a relationship with her!

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm talking to this girl now that I've liked for awhile. She's beautiful, smart, funny, and just an amzing person. We both liekd each other didn't know it until recently. So after school today she found out her parents are getting a divorce, because her motehr found out her ... (170 words)

Any tips on rimming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a gay teen, was curious about rimming? any tips please, as I don't know much about oral to anal sex and would rather get advice first. thank you x... (30 words)

Should I get him a Christmas present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so, this guy and I haven't been going out very long, but I've never felt like this about anyone before. Since christmas is coming up, I wanted to get him something, but I don't know if that would be awkward for him? I am only 13 and he's almost 16, so I'm already worried ... (66 words)

They were on the verge of going out and suddenly he's screaming at her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how does one deal with a situation where your heart is telling you one thing about a boy and your mind is tellign you another my friend has this guy she likes and they were on the verge of going out but suddenly hes mad at her and they are having screaming conversa... (83 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age - Can anyone tell me what's similar and different between vaginal and anal sex? And what does giving a BJ fee llike? [Mod note: I think the age range given by the poster is likely to be inaccurate.]... (40 words)

I'm torn between my crush on a girl and my crush on my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hey aunts im confused about whether im gay, bi, or straight can someone help? ok im 15 have this mega crush on this girl in my year i like her alot but she wont go out with me ive tryed everything with her but none of it has worked i sometimes get "friendly" hugs of her on ... (109 words)

Why are guys so interested in breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why are guys so interested in breasts. I have to live with them and why are they so special. My boyfriend is always talking about them and he even gave them a nickname. I get a little uncomfortable sometimes and at others i love it. I always think about having sex and wonder ... (65 words)

What is causing my drug addiction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi! I'm a 23 years old, and very panicked at the moment. I'm addicted to drugs,mainly meth and crack. It started with smoking pot a lot when I was 13. I dropped out from school ,etc. My parents are nice people, they are not doing any drugs ,very sober folks. Don't even drink. ... (141 words)

She's breaking up with me, so it's hard to show her she is special and also to suggest there might be another way to handle this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, My girlfriend of 2 years and 6 months just broke up with me. Apparently the biggest part of it is that the relationship felt 'tainted' she loves me, i know this is true, and i love her more than anything in the world. But she says she doesn't want to be in a relationship ... (258 words)

My boyfriend's friends never let us be alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriends friends piss me off they are always there when we want to hang out my friends give me and him alone time he wont leave his friends i don't know wat to do because they don't let me be with him and i don't think he has the guts to talk to them i try to be wi... (170 words)

Who shall I ask to walk me down the aisle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im getting married in christmas eve (my birthday) and not many of my family will be attending my dad died when i was 14 and me and some of my family arent really on speaking terms, who shall i ask to walk me down the aisle and will it be a happy day if my family arent there too ... (106 words)

Why does she act so weird around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, Pretty straightforward. There's a girl in one of my classes and I really like her. Problem is, I'm gay and she has a boyfriend. That suprised me, I was dead certain she was gay. The way she walks, talks, sits, dresses, speaks, her non-conformism, her hair, everything... (486 words)

I've kicked him out after years of emotional abuse, his sleeping all day and watching porn all night. Now he wants to come back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i were married for 5 years. he never got his ged or drivers lic. i was injured and out of work for 6 years. since then i've returned to work and began college. he sleeps all day and watches porn all night. i kicked him out after another fight where he cut me down ... (100 words)

One for the women! Would you ever sleep with your son's friend if he was of legal age?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age - If you were an attractive mother and your son had a friend who was 18, very cute, smart, funny and nice, would you sleep with him? Remember it's totally legal because your both 18 or over and he's very cute. Would you do it?... (45 words)

I am a virgin being tempted by a sex addict yet wanting to resist

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am an eighteen-year-old female virgin who does not intend to have sex until her wedding night. While I do not have a purity ring (I think I'm getting one for Christmas, though), I do have kind of a purity symbol--I write the word poned on the thumb side of my... (644 words)

We met online, never face to face, I want to ask him out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I met this guy on the internet, and we've talked pretty much every day for the last month. I've suggested that we meet up a couple of times, but we've actually never made concrete plans. He's a pretty busy guy, in quite a high pressure job, always comes back to my... (168 words)

My boyfriend masturbates and leaves the evidence in unusual places

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay soo my boyfriend of almost 3 years tends to look up porn online alot not everysday but when im not around....this really bothers mee...i know its normal but it makes me sick when he maturbates into out trash can in the bedroom or stuff like that...we have sex rgualry not ... (132 words)

Kissing Cousins of the Bi Sexual Variety!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, basically me and my cousin are really close but we are almost like opposites shes chav im emo bla bla bla but me and her are best mates we tell each other everything and i know all her secrets and she knows all mine but today she turned round and asked me if i was definatly ... (149 words)

We are living together but she doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and My Girlfriend have been dating for a little ova 2 months. Im 20 shes 18. Shes had a rough patch, and shes been used, cheated on, and used some more. Shes been living with me and my parents for about a month now (wed be on our own but I got into some trouble and all my ... (178 words)

Spermicides in the old days, back in the 70s

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age - My partner recently told me that in 1971 when her guy of the day saw that sexual intimacy was on the cards,he suggested the use of a spermicidal vaginal tablet for temporary use. She wasn't using anything at the time. STD's were not the issue they are today. I assume tha... (172 words)

How can I lose weight for my wedding in March?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello ! I was wondering if someone could get me a 11 days meal plan on calorie switching diet.I tried to go on the net ,but they just want to sell it. So I need to lose weight for my wedding in march. I appreciate any help. ... (49 words)

Why does doggy-style cause me to bleed and cause me pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend do it doggy style sometimes it really hurts me although other times it is quite pleasureable. when we tried it at the weekend it really hurt and there was blood in my cum. I have two questions, 1. Should I be worried about the blood? and 2. Is there ... (77 words)

How can I encourage him to admit how he feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like him and he 'secretly' likes me, but we're too shy to do talk openly about our feelings. How can i encourage him to admit how he feels? we don't talk alot as it is and often avoid talking to one another! he even asks my friends questions about me because he can't gather t... (125 words)

Why do my friends always get attention instead of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi aunts x, at dinner time me and my friends hang out but my friends lets call them lisa and fran always! get attention from all our male friends and it makes me feel really left out, i mean ill try to get noticed like taking my jumper off an stickin my chest out while doing ... (93 words)

Torn in two

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - After meeting my fiancé at our former place of work, I thought we were meant for each other and were going to be together forever. We had the chemistry, both on a emotional and physical level but it's slowly evaporated over time. Then our mutual friend came into the picture, ... (142 words)

Why does he keep on breaking up with me and coming back within weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have had the same boyfriend for a yr and half. he has broken up w/ four times!!! and returns w/ in weeks ....anyone can tell me why??? ... (31 words)

Why would my husband suddenly stop wanting sex?

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7 December 2009 (F) age - What are the reasons ,when a highly sexual husband suddenly stops wanting sex, and when he tries it he is losing his erections? I mean one day to the next... With no signs for any change. Just suddenly ,like bang. And its over. He went limp at the middle of intercourse, and it ... (111 words)

How do I change my opinion of women and relationships?

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and single, I keep thinking about having a girlfriend but always scared to ask a girl out. I thought it was fear of rejection but then I realise that its actually because of bad experiences and from what is happening to other people. Every girl i have dated/ been in ... (190 words)

I don't know how to date after being in a relationship for 3 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so iam 20 years old and just broke up with my girl friend we had been going out for about 3 years. the problem is i forgot how to do all the dating stuff, any advice?... (36 words)

I still hope one day he will come back to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age - Hello Aunts and uncles I am really hoping to get some help because I'm at my wits end. My husband left me three years ago for a younger woman. We had been together since I was 19 and he was 20 and have two children (now aged 24 and 21) and in total were together for 30 ... (773 words)

Just found out my boyfriend called my ugly and a dog to his friends after sleeping with me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started dating my best friend. We have been together a couple months, I know it was wrong of me but i went on his facebook and I found a conversation between him and someone. My best friend and I slept together a couple times a few years ago. The facebook message was ... (175 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend of 4 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I came back from deployment in Afghanistan 3 months ago and since I've realised that I don't have the same feelings for my boyfriend of 4 years. He loves me and breaking up would break his heart but I feel like he's just not what I'm looking for anymore. I've given it 3 months ... (126 words)

He came back to me but now I don't trust him at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having trust issues with my fiance. We first got engaged just over a year ago. In july of this year he ended it providing no reason at all. During our time apart we continued to see each other. He also began to sleep with other girls (3 that i know of). It hurt me so much ... (229 words)

Weird friend problem... how to get rid of her or help her stop being weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - has anyone else had a friend who follows you round everywhere! well i do she is really annoying i mean she is nice to me and everthing but she wont even let me talk to my other friend without thinking am talking about her and this might sound weird but she takes videos of my ... (116 words)

He's always trying to use me for sex... but could it be different this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for about 4 or so years...he has always been the guy to usually want some..he's had girlfriends and such in these years but whenever they would break up he would always come talking to me again..usually wanting to hook up or asking for pictures..well here ... (136 words)

Trouble breaking up... I want to text him back but shouldn't...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I hope someone can help me with this. Again its another break up question. Me and my bf have dated for about 4 years now off and on. We split up for a year and both had relationships however, soon after they both ended we got back together. However, things have not ... (264 words)

Which position is the best for the man's lasting longer but isn't boring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What sex position is the most longlasting for guys but isn't boring for neither of the sides? Doesn't have to be intimate just good :)... (26 words)

I have no trust in him, he's been flirting with girls on dating sites again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 yr a couple of months at the beginning i found out the was on dating sites flirting with girls on the net and i asked him about it he said he wouldn't do it again and now i found out hes been doing it again what should i do?... (57 words)

I'm going crazy not knowing what he thinks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i text the guy that i like last night.the day u txt me was the happiest day of my life, today i dnt knw. i jst wonder wht i did tht was so wrong to deserve ur silence and ur rejection it hurts so bad. never been rejected before.i guess theres always a first time. i wonder wht ... (259 words)

Is there any hope that she might come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex fiancee broke up after over four years. We were engaged for about three years and living together for two. We had some problems, but nothing we could not have fixed. To cut a long story short, somebody popped up on Facebook a few months ago, things went down... (254 words)

Any inventive sex suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Having fun and looking for new ideas. It is my turn to come up with something new. Last time we tried ice in the anus (recommended). We also use toys. Any inventive suggestions?... (37 words)

Why did he suddenly stop contact with me after being so polite and so nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been seeing a man I met through a dating site, we clicked right away because we have the same goals. He treated me with respect and always sent greetings to my parents. He was actually talking about marriage after 8 days of dating. He is 45 divorced when he was 23 ... (286 words)

Are there any men who have gone through this? Is he not in love with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I would have been celebrating our 5th year together in December but in October he tells me that he feels like something is wrong with him, he thinks its an early mid-life crisis (he's 33), something is missing in his life, he feels empty, etc. He didnt ask for the ... (605 words)

Should I be friends with my ex who continues to hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a 5 year relationship. We were happy for those years. Odd argument. He was very devoted to me. But I guess we wanted different things so in the end split up. He split up with me for the most part but it was a little amicable. Nevertheless it was painful. Couple we... (368 words)

Sex... doggy style!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my new bf wants to have sex doggy style and he keeps asking me. I haven't done it like that before (it just never appealed to me and my last bf preferred other positions) but my new bf seems to really want it. I told him i didnt like that positon (which was lying because ... (109 words)

Help! I want to get married and he doesn't. He says that he doesn't believe in marriage!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the first time i've done anything like this and so here goes....... I am living with my partner in a house purchased together, who I absolutely love and adore and he feels the same, this i am confident about. We have been together for 3 years and lived together f... (1117 words)

Should I recommend her to divorce???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend suffered a lot cos her husband cheated on her and passed onto her a sexually transmitted disease. Now she's found somebody and they ocasionally have sex and she's thinking about divorce as her husband never apologised and doesn'r seem to care but about their 12 ... (58 words)

How could someone so polite and nice suddenly change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

I have mild feelings for people of the same sex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had mild feelings for people of the same sex over years, but maybe i'm taking it too seriously... a simple 'man crush' I think I'm having at the minute. How do I contrast a crush with full on feelings and is a crush harmful for our friendship or for my feelings/sexuality ... (55 words)

This married man is bad for me but I can't get him out of my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, well i have been dating this guy for more than a year now. after 6 months in the relationship i found out he was married to which he said 'he was not with the wife anymore, he goes home just for the kids', I left him, he came begging and i took him back after 2... (643 words)

When did she conceive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife was given a gestation period of 6 weeks on the 10th august, when was it likely that she concieved?... (21 words)

He says he loves me like a sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is just obvious and it sounds stupid but one of my best guy friends said to me he loves me like a sister. He's said in the past once when someone went and spread a load of lies that he loved me as a friend. But now he says he loves me as a sister. Is this ... (106 words)

We're not a family and I just need advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay wellll.......... when i was little, i lived with my nan bekoz my mum wasa single mum, my dad walked out, so my mum was tryna raise me. koz when i was living with her, she tried 3 suicidal attemps infront of my face. + i was too young to understand but growing u... (335 words)

How do I cope with losing my virginity to the wrong guy? Dumb dumb dumb!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - lost my virginity last night - still feel like a virgin. It hurt and it was completely with the wrong guy - i remember crying after nad just wanting a cuddle - he feel a sleep and i was left in the darkness thinking about what i had allowed. I was dumb and so stupid but i ... (250 words)

I need some tips about sex and erections!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - so my girlfriend and i are planning to have sex christmas time. i'm worried about it though cuz lately i havent been getting my usualy 5 and a half erections that are strong, i keep getting like just 5 semi hard. she gets me semi hard by dry humping me while straddling and we ... (172 words)

She won't let me do anything about this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This guy that dated my girlfriend once won't leave her alone and she wont let me take care of the situation as the boyfriend. When I try, she calls me annoying and tells me that it would only make things worse. All I ever wanted to do was maturely ask him to back off and that ... (73 words)

Sex really hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been in a relationship for about 7 months now and im sexually active, but i have a problem when i do have sex, everything is fine but if my bf puts his penis all the way in me it reallly hurts, makes me cry even, even if im really aroused/wet during sex. i dont no wats ... (60 words)

I left him because I thought I could walk back into his life, but he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i had dated this guy for 4years for no real reason-i was young,wanted to have fun(date other guys) but didnt want to b with him while at it.so i left him and thought i could walk back into his life becos he loved me so much...its 3yrs now and am still asking him to take me ... (148 words)

An unclosed book of love.... I need a lady's advice.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I finally worked the courtage to tell her I love her and then I never heard from her ever again. It's like this book has been opened and it won't close. I've let her go but she pops up in my mind every now and then. She's the one that got away, and as much a I want to call her, ... (179 words)

Could he change his mind and want to see me when he's home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - been with bf since august he wanted carry on relationship while he went in army. his pass out parade soon kept begging me go, we really close and always including me in future plans for next year, also said i really do make him happy then couldnt communicate while campin... (191 words)

If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!... (51 words)

Is there anyway to get him to want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i went out with this guy once when i was 14 and i have to admit he never left my mind sure, i dated other guys but never forgot about him. He was always there in the back of my mind. Now 17 me and him, having not seen eachother in a long time, recconcted. He told me he likes ... (147 words)

Is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy at the gym like everyday for nearly 2 months now. He's really cute and I went to middle school with him, but he didn't recongnize me (thank god!) and we never had classes together or talked in middle school. I started talking to him about a week ... (141 words)

Girls - do you think this means she's falling for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I really need some sensible answers from the ladies out there as I have to be very careful how I handle this if I may be reading things correctly. My best friend is female, two years younger than me. I have always had close female friends since school, everyone knows t... (402 words)

I think it's time to stop lying and fess up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To get to the point he's 26, I'm 16. We've been [secretly] dating for over a year and out of paranoia(if that makes sense), I've never told my parents. He's my mother's best friend's son and helps my father out a lot. So there's a lot of trust going on here. My parents are a... (96 words)

How do I get her to realize that I'm the right guy who can treat her the right way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so here it is... I work with this girl... I've really begun to like her... she and I tend to work one double a week... And on lunch break I take her out to eat every time... We talk on lunch break about ourself and things of that nature... But we also talk about her dick ... (178 words)

How can I tell if the guy I like is bi, or gay, or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm a tad confused - i know I'm bi - but at our school people will pretend to be gay, bi, straight for jokes but i cannot tell whether the guy i like is gay or bi or straight. Today i asked him if he was a friend of Dorothy's and he said that he didn't know anyone by that ... (99 words)

Can you fall back into love?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im starting to wonder if i am "in love" with my boyfriend anymore. We have been together for over a year and a half. In the beginning it started out really intense, my heart would beat really fast everytime i saw him and i would want to spend every waking minute with him... (178 words)

Internet dating advice?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, Apparently all the cool kids are dating online now, and I thought I might give it a try. There are a few guys who I would like to contact (my account is private, so no one can contact me without me contacting them first). However, I don't really know what the pr... (139 words)

What is the average age people get their first kiss?

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - what is the average age people get there first kiss i think theres this social status there such as "go for it perverts?age 12-13'' ''mr. popular age 12,13. ''not losers but not popular 13,14 ''losers 'nerds' 15,16. tell me if im wrong im probably average but what age and ... (68 words)

Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys? It seems as if guys get bored with me or something. I've never been asked out on a date nor been in a committed relationship. I've heard the key to success is not to sleep with the guy on the first night, and I've done that and ... (160 words)

Sometimes when we have sex, I do not feel anything, pleasure-wise.

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex I do not feel anything, pleasure wise. But there are times when it does feel really good. I love him, and i am very attracted to him, so what does this mean?... (41 words)

I cannot masturbate without watching porn. Help please.

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old male. I've never had a girl in life. I've released my sexual satisfaction by masturbating watching porn. I believe watching porn is bad but I'm addicted to it. I cannot masturbate without watching porn. Help please ... (43 words)

Is this a good plan?

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello all again, I'm the same one from http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-recreate-a-scene-from-the-twilight.html . I slept over it, and after indirectly-asking a friend of hers, I came up with what I can do, so that she will have the most possibilities to withdraw... (254 words)

Two men, one me...

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship has been rocky lately, so I met this guy whoms currently in a relationship, we talk on the phone alot, and we have met out alot, we even text each other through out the day, I love the attention that he shows me because my man use to do those things, but he ... (129 words)

She's too close to her ex for comfort! I really like her though, what should I do?

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about three months now but she has a little baggage. She has a son with her ex-boyfriend of five years and she and her ex are always hanging out. They're pretty much best friends even though they broke up over a year ago. She claims ... (211 words)

Do I have a problem? My sex drive is through the roof!

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a active healthy, woman, I work, go to school, eat and exercise, and as of lately, my sex drive has gone through the roof, I masturbate at least 2-5 times a day, I don't want to call anyone over because the two men I got gets tired, do you think I have a problem?... (55 words)

Is he just telling me that or does he just not love me and is with me for the sex??

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7 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Everytime I tell my boyfriend I love him or I miss him he seemed to get unconfortable, so I asked him why and he said he feels its too soon. We went out for a year lat year and when we were going out last year we told each other we love each other pretty much every day. We were ... (476 words)

We've barely had sex for 3 months, is he cheating?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in my relationship for 5 years, and we had sex at least 6 times a month, but within the last year, we barely have sex within 3 months at all, what should I do ? Do you think he's cheating? And before anyone say sex toys, high heels, being naked, lingerie, porn I ... (61 words)

He's a Momma's boy. And Momma does NOT like me!

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend to death. No one can doubt that. We've been through a lot, he's even saved me from wanting to take my own life. But theres one thing that bugs me about him. He's a Momma's Boy. And his Momma does NOT like me. I'm his first kiss and his longest relationship. ... (84 words)

I don't know what's wrong with me! But I don't want to feel smothered and married!

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just in a 2 year relationship and felt smothered by him cause he was so inlove with me and up my butt it drove me crazy. so i cheated on him with this boy named sean and and eventually we got abck together i loved partying and playing with my friends and doing fun things ... (272 words)

What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change?

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change? I am in a long term gay relationship. After a few years of being frustrated and rejected I broke it off as I couldn't take it any more. My sex drive is extreme while my boyfrie... (226 words)

How to deal with stupid boys

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, i am not a typical relationship kind of girl. i never liked having a boyfriend or being tied down by commitment. i would much prefer to be single and go out and do whatever i want whenever i want with all of my friends. ive always been proud of my independenc and how ive ... (1037 words)

Should I marry him?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I made a rash decision to have a baby girl with a man whom I dont love, but he loves me very much. He is 10 years older than me, and at a point in life where he wants to start a family. I don't love him, but I want my daughter to have a family. I realize there are so many thi... (113 words)

Too young to have sex?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod note: two questions from same user combined here.] Q1: i have alwasy had a gut feeling to wait for the perfect guy. and to not have sex until marriage or to wait till i am older to have sex. ive had boyyrfirneds in the past but im in love with my boyfriend and he is in l... (202 words)

He's been a flirt recently, and we just cuddled on a long bus ride....what does this mean?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am a freshman in high school, and he is senior... he has has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. well, i thought it was just him being like that. but he sat next to me on a 3 1/2 hour bus ride. and i would out my head on his ... (110 words)

How will I know if I'm 'in love' with him?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i'm really confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year in a half. Weve broken up about 3 times and have gotten back together. We broke up because we werent sure if we wanted to have a long distance relationship because we were both going to seperate coll... (278 words)

My boyfriend's divorce isn't going through because she shreds the papers and mails them back.

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I recently started dating a man who I have cared for deeply for a very long time. When my exboyfriend left me, he was really good to me and let me know that I was worth something, even if my ex didn't think so. We've been friends for about a year, and started dati... (154 words)

We've been talking for a while and stuff and we're going to have sex. Only I'm scared.

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I met this really great guy we've been talking for a while now and stuff and he wants to have sex. I do too but I'm really scared of how much it is going to hurt. So could u all help me understand how much it is going to hurt it would be great. Cause I'm really scared.. ... (59 words)

I need to go from small to bigger.

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok,so me and my BF was pose to have sex but i was to small(my hole).do yall no how i can get bigger and does this mean ill never have real sex?... (32 words)

I have two friends who generally are not very respectful.

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have 2 friends who generally are not very respectful. they both think their amazing and a lot of people don't. but anyway we were having a conversation and one of them told me that she treats the upperclassmen in the drama department like she treats her friends and kn... (191 words)

Why do I feel so guilty?

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7 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I usually always blame myself for things, even if it has nothing to do with me or I can't do anything to have helped the situation. I don't know if this is a self-esteem issue or what, but I've always been this way, even while growing up. My dad was an alcoholic and I would ... (226 words)

I'm not sure if he jsut likes me as a friend, or more than that.

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. i like this guy.He is five years younger than me, i'm 26 next may, and he is 21 in february. I'm not sure if he jsut likes me as a friend, or more than that.He asks to meet up with me alot. He once made a comment that he thinks i suit short hair. He texts me a lot too and ... (395 words)

I don't feel like 'oh my god I did it' or anything like that... is something wrong with me?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 27 and the other week had sex for the first time. I’m not religious so I wasn’t waiting for marriage, I just didn’t find the right guy to sleep with while I was dating…and in the past guys left me because I wouldn’t give in to sex early on in the relationship. The guy I... (226 words)

Do you think he wants to be more than just friends?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshman in high school, and this boy has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. Well, I thought it was just him but we had a 3 1/2 hour bus drive and he sat next to me and well we talked and I had my head on his shoulder - his ... (90 words)

How do I nurture my needy girlfriend and show her that I love her more?

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been goin out for 8 months, things have been great, but now all of a sudden she says "i dont nurture her". I wait on her hand and foot when we are together, always giving her compliments as well. her ex boyfriend was extremely clingy, and she is ... (149 words)

I am worried about being embarrassed during anal sex!

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a 17 year old gay male and am ready for receiving anal sex. I have fingered myself on many occasion and found this quite enjoyable. However, I am worried about being embarrassed during anal sex, due to my anus smelling or tasting bad. I am also worried that small amounts ... (199 words)

My husband and best friend text daily M-F, should I be worried?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my husband and my best friend have been communicating via text message pretty much everyday Mon. - Fri.. I knew they texted a lot and I am O.K. with that. Sometimes he'll come home and tell me what they texted about that day, sometimes not. Sometimes ... (211 words)

I like sex far m ore often than he does and this is causing problems!

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a long term gay relationship. Things between us are mostly good and we love each other a lot but when it comes to sex I would like a whole lot more than my partner. After a few years of struggling with this I broke up with him. I couldn't take it any more. We did hav... (214 words)

Is this normal? Am I reflecting psychological issues about my absent father onto him?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A few months ago i started seeing a ob-gyn, cause i have problems conceiving etc. this is a man that is old enough to be my father and i'm almost 30. I feel a strong weird connection with this man, on one of my visits i was bummed out when i saw that my chances of getti... (223 words)

Is it too soon to tell him I love him? How do I do it?

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7 December 2009 (F)

- I have a few questions about my situation with my bf and love. Should I tell my bf I love him for the first time and if so, how do I go about doing it? How do I know if he truly does love me? Why hasnt he said he loves me yet? My bf who is 25 and myself 21, have been t... (242 words)

How can I be there for him?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a bit of a messy situation, and I do not know how to handle it. I am in love with a very close male friend. At the moment he is going through some pretty horrible emotional problems at home, with his family, and being the lovely, caring and reliable man he is, every... (238 words)

How can I be less reliant on guys?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have currently met a new guy after a month after splitting with an old one.. however I feel already like were drifting apart. I felt the exact same with my ex as we rushed into it, without no good outcome. This time round I have waited over 2 months to kiss him as I thought... (188 words)

I'd like opinions on this gift!

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7 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, My girlfriend has been saying that she wants a watch for a while and has said that she would treat herself to one when she gets a better job. She has an interview for a very nice job this friday and i thought if she gets it i can treat her or if not commiserate her with... (151 words)

Why does he listen to his mates so much?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fella for 2 years now, and love him more than anything! it started off great, we were the perfect couple, everyone was jealous... as we saw eachother everyday for a whole year, n still missed eachother when we werent together, my firends loved him and i got ... (361 words)

His mother introduces me as his 'acquaintance' (after 2 year together!) and speaks Albanian around me! Should I end it?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years and last thanksgiving (11/26/09) my boyfriend's mom introduced me to her friends (who btw already knew me from previous meetings) as Ervin's aquaintence from school. 1) I'm his girlfriend, for over! 2 freaking years ... (214 words)

I broke his heart. Help me help him!

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, need a bit of help. 5 months ago my ex left me and i was devasted, we had been together for a year and a half, and i found it hard to become stable as i couldnt do anything without being reminded of him and bursting into tears. Well, since then ive had about... (270 words)

I want to date my dad's girlfriend's son, gosh, he's wow!

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my dad is dating a new girl and we went out for my birthday and i met her son who is the same age as me. i really like him and he likes me but our parents said if we were to like each other they would split witch i don't want to happen but gosh hes wow and he wants to date ... (74 words)

How can I make him see that she is trying to break us up

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is my boyfriends female friend who has tried everything possible to break us up. The first time I went out with them she got ontop of my boyfriend and tried to kiss him. The second time I went out with them she pecked him on the lips about 10 times in a row. ... (198 words)

Could missing that pill possibly cause me to get pregnant?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know how crazy this sounds,but im gunna be 19 in february. I got pregnant around this tyme last year but had an abortion because i wasnt sure if having a baby was what i wanted and i was also starting college in the fall. Now i want a baby more then anything. i am taking bc ... (136 words)

After a drunken night of hot tub sex, I find out he's got a girlfriend!

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm 17 and I went to my friends house last night to drink with him, his brother and his brothers girlfriend. We are all friends here. So the night progresses on and me and this guy , lets call him George, start to get closer. George and I are in the same biology ... (147 words)

Was this too soon to have sex after a termination?

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7 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help!!! i had sex 10 days after i had a termination will i be ok??? they told me to wait until 14 days surely 4 days wont hurt or do you think i should see a doctor?... (40 words)