A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing my partner for close to a year now, she is more sexually experienced that me and knew was bisexual before we got together, which has never bothered me and I've always accepted. She's actually had relationships with other women, not just slept with them (if you see what i mean)In the early part of our relationship she often suggested a threesome, for one reason or another it never happened, further down the line she's bought it up in conversation, (i never do for fear of sounding pushy) but then always says that i'm too scared to do it and that i'd "burst if i actually saw it" and laughs, almost mockingly, which makes me feel almost stupid or not as inexperienced as her or something!! Worst still she'll even say it to her friends when i'm in the room!!! I'm not sure how to explain it, but i really don't know where she's got this idea from and why she constantly says it when we discuss the idea, because now it just put's me completely off the thought, so i stop discussing it and drop the subject, yet she seems to be oblivious to what she's doing or saying, then gets upset herself!!!!Argh! I really don't want to hate the idea of one of my own personal fantasies!! I just don't know how to deal with her acting that way, she never acts that way about trying other new stuff or even just talking about our regular sexual activities, which she does tell everyone quick enough how much she enjoys!!!! I DONT GET IT!!!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 December 2009):
I agree with HoneyGirl. This woman has no respect for your feelings at all. You can find a far better woman who will
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Hun, I think the writing is on the wall, you need to get out of this relationship.
So being in a 3-some is a fantasty, and you obviously know the line between reality and fantasy, she on the otherhand seems to enjoy humiliating you because of your fantasty...
I think that she enjoys beating you emotionally and sorry to say, but I dont see that as part of a healthy relationship.
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