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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am obsessed with my wife's ex-relationship... how do I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age - I have been married for 19 years and my wife has been honest, loving and faithful. But, one of her (2) past relationships still haunts me. We were in college and she broke up with me to go out with him, then we got back together. Then she broke up with me again to start ... (192 words)

How do I accept my bf looking at naked pictures?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, need some help! I have low self esteem and I have just found out my boyfriend has been looking at half naked girls on the internet through his phone. I am totally annoyed at this n feel abit angry. Is this wrong? I don't want to say anything to him as I don't want to ... (102 words)

Why am I so untrustworthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - trust is a huge issue in this situation. I feel like people don't seem to trust me. Like my friends and family. At school every time i have really good friends, trust becomes a big problem. No one seems to belive me! and i'm sick of it. I'll pratically scream the truth out an... (765 words)

Can we be good together even though we are so different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've currently been seeing my g/f for nearly 2 months and for once shes always been into me more than i have her, which is completly different for me as normally its the other way round, she isnt my 'type' at all and i worry about the fact our intelligence levels are so diffe... (101 words)

I need advice on my first kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are planing on have our fist kiss and I'm terrified I don't no what to do! Help?!... (21 words)

Can I satisfy my partner with my small penis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my penis shape is right curvature,,can i satisfied my life partner?... (11 words)

How do I stop negative thinking and enjoy dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I first meet a guy I'm really confident. But if it goes to the next level, like going on a date, I start to get insecure! I always think that there is someone better out there for him and why is he wasting time with me? The guy I'm going out on a date with soon tells me ... (134 words)

Unsure of how to deal with my mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My parents have been divorced for about 15 years now and my relationship with my mother has always been rather rocky but I feel our problems have particularly escalated recently. It all started when I moved in with my boyfriend in Pennsylvania. Previously, I was about 30 min... (601 words)

I have OCD which is affecting my life, how do I get rid of this mental disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am 15 and I have OCD, (Obsessive- compulsive Disorder). I'm not a big fan of this but I have had it for about 6 Years. It's really starting to annoy me now, I am ALWAYS paranoid that my boyfriend is cheating, paranoid my parents will turn their back on ... (152 words)

How can I make my g/f trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i make my girlfriend trust me that i dont smoke anymore? I have lost her trust because my best friend's girlfriend lied to her that i still smoke and now i have lost her trust due to that.... (40 words)

Do girls like having sex as much as guys do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone; i am a male, 25.. and i am still a virgin... and i always wonder if girls like having sex as much as guys do...; talking of asian girls they are very shy and find it immoral to talk about sex..; it doesn't seem that they enjoy doing it. waiting for re... (60 words)

Am I overreacting about fiance and texting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I overreacting because I called this women and asked her why she was sending my fiance text messages inviting him to the movies and thinking of him while she is having christmas dinner. I called and asked her she said that he didn't tell her that he had a girlfriend. I ... (148 words)

What does a girl need to do when she's getting fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have come close many times to getting fingered. . .but I said no because I don't know what to do. Do I need to just sit there while he does it, or do I need to be kissing him?... (40 words)

Holding onto the ex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

28 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I could really use a bit of advice. I dated my first love almost two years, last year he broke it off out of the blue. For about a year we went back and forth, he couldn't seem to make up his mind as to what he wanted. To say I was hurt is an understa... (475 words)

He's a good man but I think about leaving my husband every day

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) age - I think about leaving my husband everyday. I hate myself for this. He is just does not make me feel good. Even so he is a good man. Sadly he is also impotent for no known reasons... Not medical. And this is not my primary reason I want to make this clear... But somethin... (158 words)

Sexually frustrated boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together about 5 months, he is sexually unhappy, but i just never seem to be in the mood.. i am fine without sex to be. what can i do to become more sexually active? to have the want for sex more?... (47 words)

22 and no experience with women, but want a g/f soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22, and dont have any expierence with women. I want to find a girlfriend soon. I get nervous when I see a women I like. A prime exaple is the lady at the gym. She comes in and looks good, so naturally I want to get to know her. I tell myself that I will introduce myself t... (102 words)

I'm pregnant and I think he's been lying to me the whole time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey im 36 weeks pregnant and i dont know what im going to do im in love with my babys father but i think that he has been lying to me the whole time me and him have been together and i think that the person he told me was his ex is not that they are still together i just dont ... (90 words)

I don't want to feel jealousy and have trust issues about my g/f!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for nearly two years, prior to that we were best friends for four years and i can honestly say i've never been so happy. She's perfect, but im just so jelous and paranoid and i dont know why. I find myself checking her texts messages ... (204 words)

I don't want husband around me or to even joke about sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - after having all kind of married problem an example(sex life,big deferent age 22 year's diferent,money,etc)our love turned in to a friends,un our days we don't hav sex for than 3 months, and to be honest i dont want him to touch me or even to joke about sex,i want to be ... (80 words)

Can I Lower my sex drive?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a young guy and I know that I should have a strong sex drive, but mine is overpowering. I have been wanting sex 5, 6, 7 or more times daily, which is obviously an unattainable feat. My sex drive is causing me to lose focus on other things, like my work. It has gotten to ... (110 words)

How can I stop focusing on my teacher and do my schoolwork?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Well i really need some advice i had a crush on my teacher (and before you thing i am in love with my teacher iam not just read what i have to say) when i was in Year 7/8 and im in Year 10 now. well at the time i thought i was inlove with him then one day i did someth... (275 words)

Do I sound like a prude for not wishing strange men crawling into my bed uninvited?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. Insight requested just to make sure I am not crazy. I am single and not in a terrible hurry to find anyone even though eventually I would love to. I have been hanging with a crowd of people for almost a year and everything was going great apart from this couple's ... (489 words)

Dating someone I've known for 2 years and know its going to be exclusive

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My situation is as follows. Ive known this girl for almost two years. She is 13 years older than me and we are great friends. She is currently going through a divorce and is in the middle of finishing it. After about 6 months of when we first met, we kissed because we knew ... (289 words)

What does it mean in HIS eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When a man introduces you to his childhood friends as HIS GIRL...even though we have not talked about a relationship together, but we're moving towards that; what does that mean in his eyes?... (33 words)

How can one define beauty and how did its pursuit get so destructive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - We largely agree that true beauty comes from within and superficial pulchritude fades with time...However, since young women are constantly being bombarded with images of gorgeous people who relentlessly seek to sell us the promise of looks, elegance, success, and ultimately ... (105 words)

What is his deal? I'm very confused about this situation. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems like nothing is ever simple for me when it comes to guys. Last year, this guy and I became acquaintances at school. We sat at the same lunch table and sometimes we would talk to each other. We said hi to each other in the hallways every now and then. That was all. ... (881 words)

Does masterbation cause health problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi there again, this time i want to ask that do masterbration effects health?? I mean i masturbrate 2-3 times daily and day by day i am feelling weaker! I asked a friend and he told me that masterbrating too much can also cause AIDs! So i want to ask that do masturbration ... (62 words)

What do I do...i can't change my age.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - She's 2 years older than me and told me she likes me I mean I like her but what should I do now? She wishes I was 2 yrs older and we get close holding hands leaning on each other but... She told me in a txt but wHat should I do now I'm sure she has a prob with the age gap what ... (68 words)

Why has he not responded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had a thing for this guy for about 6-7 years and a few weeks ago he finally had me over to his place. After having 2 beers he finally told me how he felt about me and I was like wow. He felt the same way i did. He is now being weird and still his shy self. I get more ... (154 words)

Which protection is safer?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now. I've decided i want to loose my virginity to him. when we started talking about what protection we would use we had an issue. for my first time i want a guy to cum inside me, but of course i would get on the pill, but he... (98 words)

His ex had a baby and now everything is all messed up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i met my bf 3 mnths ago,and we were so in love and talked about a future together,everythin was fine ,then he found out his ex has had a baby 3 mnths ago and ius saying it is his,he says he needs time to sort his head out till after the dna test,but still wants to be with me ... (72 words)

Secret shopper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I was wondering if any of you have heard of a job called secret shopper ?. Is it a genuine job ?. It sounds very interesting but I want to make sure that it's genuine. Has anyone here ever done that kind of work, or known anyone who has done it ?. Thanks.... (53 words)

Boyfriend is texting multiple women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so i know it was wrong but i went through my boyfriend's phone and i found that he has been texting multiple women, before he used to call me when he was at work but he stopped, that is what got me suspicious( he works at night) one call he talks to every night and even texts ... (262 words)

Affair with college tutor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres my question, I've been having a year long affair with my college tutor. It was great at the beginning all the excitement and stuff that came with it. Yes he is married and she is another tutor at college. And yea they both teach me. It really was fun at the begining... (238 words)

Family isn't nice to the guy because of his looks

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My parents are normally pretty open minded and supportive of what I do, I am 23 yrs old and have been dating Matt(25) for almost 4 months now. He is the leader singer in a band, has over come an addition as a teenager and has been clean ever since. He also works part time as an ... (188 words)

I think I'm right not meeting him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi 6 months ago i broke up with a lady she went back to her ex boyfriend, they have since split up , she had been seeing him behind my back, i was with her only a couple of months , i had dated her before 3 years ago for 5 months and she did the same then, dumped me and went ... (729 words)

I think I have a split personality

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I think there is something wrong with me. I have split personality's. It sound's strange but true. One day I can be the most happiest person alive. I talk a lot sing loads, I buY lot's of nice expensive things for myself and I become very self confident and believe ... (212 words)

Best friend has alienated me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was at school i felt like i had friend, but now i have left because i needed a job, my once best friend has alienated me, and now i feel like i have no-one in my life, i feel so lonely, i have no idea what i have done to her, what can i do?... (57 words)

Fiance got appears to be suspicious email from girl. Should I call her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this is the situation. On Christmas my fiance went to the bathroom upstairs and his phone beeped because he got a text message. I picked it up and saw that it was from some women but didnt think anything of it. But curiosity got me and I opened it up it said. "I'm ... (279 words)

Height increase

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter is 16 years old and she is 4.8 feet height. I know this is very under height. Can anybody help her to increase height? I will be very much grateful if anybody helps and it does works out.... (41 words)

Are the things he says to me normal? Do other women accept this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Aside from all of the false accusations of infidelity (that seem to be habitual for him...and kill me inside), he uses depression and unemployment as excuses for his harsh words about me, my character, my soul and my mind. ... (515 words)

I'm 20, girlfriend worried she's pregnant and I'm not ready to have a kid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend once 'cuz I ran out of condone that day, but I took it out when I came. I was in a worry since after that time. Now, my girlfriend said that she hasn't have her period yet, and it is already time for her period. To be precise, today is a ... (198 words)

2 periods in October and none since, am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a 16 year old girl and i am always feeling sick all through out the day an through the night to and really tired all the time just always feel like sleeping i had 2 periods in october but since then i havent had one am i pregnant?? please help... (52 words)

Do I tell her that I know she's lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, the names Darren, 16 years old. I really need your help! Please! Well me and my former partner broke up a few months ago, over trust issues between one another after a year and a half of being a couple - and there was other people in the spaces in my attempt to move ... (264 words)

Why won't he answer me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - The other day I asked my boyfriend what would he do with me if he could have me for one whole night and he said he didnt know and the next day when I asked him if he a different answer he said no and that he hadnt thought about it!i want to know why he wont think about my ... (61 words)

I am producing a lot more discharge, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and i had sex for the first time last week. The condom split and i am scared that i might be pregnant. The only symptom i have had so far is that i am producing a lot more discharge. Does this mean i am definitely pregnant? What can i do?... (55 words)

She has no clue that I love her so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, a little description about myself. I am just a regular 19 year old guy who is basically still studying in an university with practically no work at all. I am deeply in love with a girl, my university mate for only about 1 and a half month. I know it sounds pathetic but ... (447 words)

He likes me but he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's this boy named Nathan I like very very much. I used to go to school with him, but i transfered. It's about 4 years later. We've been talking and hanging out, a lot. It's been at least 10 times. It's not just for an hour or two, it's all day. I love being around him. ... (241 words)

Husband having an affair I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age - I posted before but have added some more information. I'm not sure where to begin as I'm totally lost but to cut a long story short my husband and me have been having some problems over most of our marriage (we've been together for 22 years and got two children aged 17 and 19). ... (646 words)

What does a laugh mean in response to a display of affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. I'm in need of some female opinion. Will take male opinion too if you wish. Ok long story short. I have a girl for a best friend who I am very much in love with. She knows all about this and though she says she doesn't want the same she let's me be ... (283 words)

I think I'm gay so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 year old male. when i masterbate i think of boys and i enjoy use anal toys and thinking there penis, i do think about woman but they dont turn me on as much. i think im gay so what should i do??... (44 words)

I'm feeling very guilty about my boyfriend and work and feel so alone, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all, ive let my problems pile up over the years and now ive got to sort them, i want to completely change my life because everything in it is wrong ive been in an on off relationship with my daughters dad for 12 yrs and im tired now he was always controlling and its been ... (195 words)

Getting your ex back through friendship - did it work for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, has anyone out there ever tried to win their ex-boyfriend by playing the friend card? Staying in life as a friend and hoping things take their natural course to reconciliation? thanks... (36 words)

Do girls flirt by actions rather than words?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl in my church. She started coming to our church about 2 years ago. I see her 2-3 times a week at church, but we don't talk much apart from that. I kinda like her but haven't told her that yet. I'm 21 and a bit shy and quiet, she's 20 and more of an outgoing natu... (199 words)

My sister is embarassed by our mother, can you help our mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am asking this question on behalf of my Mum because she cannot use a computer. My sister is 32 years old and has disowned my Mum because she is "embarrassing because she is poor". My mum works so hard to make ends meet, bought her first house last year and goes without ... (232 words)

Raped and having difficulty coping with the what ifs...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - On December 2nd 2009 I was grabbed on my way home and raped by a man I'd never seen before. I went to A and E and got given PEP. They said that if he was positive the chance that I will get it considering I'm taking PEP is less than 5%. I remote reported him to police but I'm ... (127 words)

Is my wife trying to break my attachment to her by being unemotional?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone whats all this about can you help me, im going mad. Over the last 12 months my marriage has broken up, we were together for 7 years. Myself and my wife have had affairs, She moved out some months ago. Two weeks ago we both admitted the affairs to each other, i... (152 words)

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. All was fine with my parents at ... (655 words)

How bad is it to kiss just a friend?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like him, and he likes me, but we're not dating. Will our friendship be affected by it? If damage has already been done, any advice on what to do?... (30 words)

He's making me feel guilty because he pays for me on dates!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for over a year now. in the beginning of the relationship, things were fine. i was in high school and he was in college. neither of us were quite financially sound (hey, we're students), so it wasn't an issue. present day:... (334 words)

Should I wait for her to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. there is this girl whom i fell in love with. We've been together these past months. Still she wont make a commitment. She told me that she was scared of being hurt. I told her that i wouldnt hurt her cuz i reaaly love her. She's still 16 years old and im 17. I said to her ... (367 words)

He just doesn't seem that interested...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there ok i have been coming here for awhile now and my bf has just been making me so depresset. he is to into his video games i have been trying to set up a day where i can see him and i asked him if he would wanna stay the night tomorrow and wake up together on our anny... (287 words)

I can't find a girlfriend, the issue is bringing me down, any help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am good looking guy 27 yo , i have been told many times from different people that i am very good looking and i have friendly and down to earth personality , but the point is that no one interested on me anymore ,, i don't know why i feel myself so empty , all my... (252 words)

What's the safest way to cum inside my girlfriend without getting her pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend really wants me to cum inside her, while yes this sounds very hot, Im at the same time very apprehensive to do it because i'm not ready for a kid, she said she is going to get on the pill so we'll wait 7 days before we have sex, but my question is, what's the ... (126 words)

Any insight into these frightening dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi--help? I keep having the strangest of dreams and premonitions. My ex, whom I love very much, dies. It's usually in a skiing accident or a nonspecific vision of him in the hospital. This has been coming and going for some 9 months, and part of that time, we were together. ... (121 words)

Young male, pretty overweight - how should I dress to hide this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a young male, but I'm pretty overweight. Not morbidly obese, but pudgy. How should I dress/appear so that I am more attractive to women?... (27 words)

Is sexting considered cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ugh. Okay, im in a really difficult (for me) situation. I feel I have cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months. Im one of those people who are insanely against cheating and is 100% for honesty so the possibility of this sort of thing happening never crossed my mind. My boyfriend ... (175 words)

My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me...

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see himself back with me as long ... (600 words)

I'm nervous about meeting my online friend, should I meet up or hold off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy online for a couple of days and we text and stuff and we've seen each others pictures and I've seen him on webcam and I like him and he says he likes me and wants to meet up but Im kind of nervous about meeting up with him because I've never met ... (96 words)

My boyfriend can't keep up with my high libido, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and have a high libido. My boyfriend of one year has a hard time keeping up with me. So much so that we fight about it more than I think is healthy. It really has caused some emotional problems with me. When he withholds it makes me worry that he doesn't feel for me as ... (73 words)

I never had any problems making friends at college. What's wrong now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) age 41-50 - INTRO: I live with my parents because of chronic unemployment. They spent Christmas Eve and Christmas at a distanced city with our extended family and I refused to go as usual. I'm the only Christian in the family, and I'm in my thirties and still single, so I feel kind of ... (430 words)

I've been sleeping with a younger man who has a boyfriend, I don't know what to do!

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28 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I'm a older woman I haven't been in a relationship for two years but I have been sleeping with this younger man off and on for six years he has a girlfriend and sometimes when he calls I don't answer I think I'm starting to really like him I don't call him I just wait for him ... (88 words)

I can't just get over the situation? Any advice?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, sorry to blab on but i am having some difficulties getting over this situation.. So i was on and off with this guy for about three years, our families are very close well our mothers are very good friends so he is someone that has been around for a while. I always had bo... (302 words)

I like her sober, but I don't like the clingy, crazy girl she becomes when drunk...

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I have slept with my friend a few times now... She is cool when she is sober and I like her but when she gets really drunk she gets really crazy and clingy. I dont do clingy! I met her at the pub the other day and she was completely off her head and just followed me ... (241 words)

I still love my baby's daddy, do I have to let him go?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have 1 son with my baby daddy and I am pregnant with another baby boy with him but he left me when I was 3 months. We were arguing a lot because he was the only one working and I was going to school.after I finish school I found out I was pregnant with are second baby. He ... (133 words)

No more romance

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey folks Maybe somone here can help... I have now been married for 16 years and with the same wonderful woman for 18. Have 2 older boys with her and we are still very much in love with one another we rarely argue and in 18 years i can count on one hand the "major fights" w... (463 words)

How can we become more intimate without having sex?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. Earlier in the year we had dated for about 2 1/2 months, also. Recently he has been indicating that he wants to have sex, although I have made it pretty clear that I don't really want to do that at this time. How can we ... (67 words)

I don't feel anything when I kiss or hug her

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im confused about something ...this girl is very close to me and i have broken off with her twice because of my confusion telling her that i need some time and im kind of committment phobic(which is true perhaps because im confused)....still she has forgiven me because we share ... (448 words)

Did he mean to call me his girlfriend?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused about a guy I've been seeing for a few months. Our relationship is very casual, more like friends with benefits than dating, as it's based mostly on sex. I like him more than I can admit to him, because he is very distant and often flaky about getting together. ... (263 words)

I don't like keeping things a secret, is this cheating?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, im 18 and bi. i have recently been fooling around with another guy that i met at college. both of us are still in the closet and no one knows about it. My problem is that im starting to date this girl at college also. me and the guy have still kept on fooling around even ... (146 words)

I can't have her I want her and yet I've never met her

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont know how to approch this and i dont expect an answer but here goes... So names Edi(alias) and i met a girl on the internet. well, met on an online game. at first it was just commradery, then friendship. we talked a lot, about life, friends, daily going ons, for about 3... (667 words)

How do I make him see I'm worth risking our friendship?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a seventeen year old girl. I'm a junior in High School and I've never been in an serious relationship, and honestly I've never been that intrested in anyone. Until a month ago. We've always been in similar circles, but we weren't friends. He's one of those geeky guys that ... (196 words)

Why does my husband think showing me his flaccid penis is a turn on?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Married 6 years and very happy. My husband is 15 years older than me but eveyone who knows would say I am the mature party in our relationship. We have a toddler and our sex life is gearing back up now that nights are less interrupted and back to my prebaby fitness. In this ... (155 words)

How do I overcome all my problems?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I figure it was time for me to write all of my thoughts down as it has been a long ride so far. When I was growing up I did not have a great social life. Actually I did not have one at all. From preschool to 8th grade I went to a small private catholic school where my ... (1583 words)

I scared him and now he thinks I'm clingy! How do I fix this?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive slept with my friend a few times now and things were progressing until I got drunk at a pub and scared him... I know he likes me... Is there anyway I can fix this? Ever since we have had sex, the friendship has changed... which I knew it would, but it seems the foundation ... (193 words)

Could a four or five-way relationship even work?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a really difficult situation at the moment. There is currently 3 women in my life. At this point you might be thinking right what a ba***rd an ye maybe i am. I have been engaged for 3 and a half years to a very money driven career woman. Shes a nice person who is de... (569 words)

Taking a chance with a coworker?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks for your help in advance. My boyfriend lives with me (6m) we are happy. Now at work before I dated him I had this connection w a coworker(female). I really like her- I am very attracted to her. However she has never been straight forward with me, like as example she m... (164 words)

I want my boyfriend to do something bad so I hurt. How can I fix this?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months, i love him to death and he is so good to me, he treats me like a princess, but I want him to fight with me, i want him to do something so bad i hurt. Now in my past relationship they have been, well not the best. we ... (128 words)

Could she be avoiding me?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some help. There's this girl who i really like. She told me that she has a crush on me and i took advantage of it. She is still not my girlfriend. We have been fine these past months but i can't help to think that she's avoding me. She never replies to my text message ... (112 words)

I took sperm off his condom and inserted it into my vagina. Could I be pregnant?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 and i want to get pregnant so bad, my boyfriend came in me but it wasnt my ovalating date, a week after he knew it was my ovalating day an he didnt come in me, but a drop of sprem hit my vagina, after that he put on a condom when he was done thru it in the bin, 5 mins ... (93 words)

Why is my girlfriend giving the impression she is available to other guys?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - heyy just found out my girlfriend, who has previously cheated, has told two different guys that shes hung out with (one of them was the guy that she cheated with and second a new guy shes been hanging with alot) that she is single and me and her arent really working out. so ... (107 words)

Why does my girlfriend talk to her friends but not me?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is my girlfriend not telling me things? She won't even tell me what is wrong. But she tells all of her friends. What do I do?... (27 words)

Should I save my virginity for someone I will love the rest of my life?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Male, 18: I'll get strait to the point, should I save my virginity for someone I will love for the rest of my life? I'm scared that I wont find someone to love and marry in my life-time because I'll be joining The Air Force after school gets over with. I'm very shy when I ... (121 words)

We flirt so why hasn't he called?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy from work almost a year. From the begining he has flirted with me, and I have flirt back. One night people from work went for drinks to celebrate someones retirement. We talked the whole time. Exchanged phone numbers and even said that we should go out to ... (152 words)

How do I confront him without it turning into a major fight?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my current bf for just a little over 2 years. He has just gone back for two weeks during the holidays to visit family and he assures me that he is not going to meet any female. We have had problems in the past about meeting up singly with him meeting ... (250 words)

Are these signs he has feelings for me?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I really like this guy and he is my best friend. I really wanna know how I can tell if he likes me or not. So he told me last year that he liked me two years ago when we first met. So lately he's been flirting with me and treating me like I am a princess, he buys me gifts ... (127 words)

Do I shave it all off or leave some?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Right, i am 16,, female and i am with a 20 year old. We are ready for sex but i keep putting it off because of my down below.. i have been shaving it off for so long, and i dont know weather or not he will like it, and i want it to be perfect, and shaving alw... (148 words)

Should I wait and see if my feelings come back for her?

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28 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm studying overseas where I've met a Swedish girl (also not studying in her native country). We've known eachother for about three months. She's had a boyfriend the entire time, but he told her two months ago it was OK if we kissed because she was feeling lonely and then a ... (189 words)

How do I strip for him when I'm so shy about my body?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months, nearly a year! And for a while now, he's been wanting me to strip for him, I've alway been rather... Shy of my body, and I know he loves me, yet through past experinces, I had an ex, who actually saw my body, an... (153 words)

Unsure about bringing another man into the marriage?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am confused as I said before I am married , and my husband has asked me several times about bringing another man into our bed. We even have named my dildo, at this point I am fine with the dildo in my mouth, or pussy while my husbands penis is in the other, But Iam not sure... (92 words)

Does he deserve a second chance?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day I ran into the guy I was seeing over the summer. He ended it with me because he still had feelings for his ex. Well he went back to his ex and ended it agaaain with her. He has been chasing me ever since Aug. He said it was a big mistake and he messed up in the ... (238 words)

Am I being used and should I move on?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I’m a 43 yo female living with my boyfriend going on 3 years. I want to be married and have told him this. He told me he wants to marry as well but wants to make sure first. I wonder if he wants to marry at all now because I came upon some missing items in his shop. Well I was ... (250 words)

Our affair was exposed and my reputation is at stake!

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair with a married man. About a year ago we started hanging out and a kiss led to touching, and touching led to sex. We had sex 3 different times and hung out from time to time after that. I have not seen him in about 9 months and then just the other day his wife ... (109 words)

If porn is no big deal, it shouldn't be hard for him to choose, right?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there something wrong with me? At the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend of years) i told him i hate porn. If he watched it, he's gone. End of story. Reasons being, the girls are someones duaghters, yet they allow themselves to have no morals or standard... (190 words)

Could I love him too much? I'm terrified he will leave me...

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 7 weeks ago I got back together with my ex boyfriend whom I am very much in love with..He has said he loves me but only whilst he is drunk never whilst sober. I really do love him but I dont want to be the first to say it. He has not mentioned the fact he said it whilst ... (141 words)

Why did he break up with me after a month? How do I get over that?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! You seem like you give good advice, and I'm in need of some! Please, help me! My name is Jodie, I'm fifteen years old. Well there is a boy called Tom in my life, he is a former boyfriend, and I'm madly, in love with him, so much he's mostly all I can focus on, b... (296 words)

Why does sex seem to kill my relationships?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really enjoy sex but not promiscuously... only with someone I really care about.. problem is that when I am with someone I care about and that side of me comes out.. things seem to take a turn for the worse in my relationships.. kinda like they lose respect or most recently ... (62 words)

Finding it hard to forgive and forget my partner's cheating..advice?

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28 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out one month ago that my partner of 2 years has been cheating on me, by talking to girls online, on cam, swapping rude pics, flirting etc. I couldnt believe it... but I forgave him, for a few reasons. The first is that i love him. Secondly, we just moved in together ... (393 words)