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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I stupid for wanting to feel loved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - this may sound bad but i need help im 13 and i just broke up with this amazing guy now i kinda feel like a slut since him ive just been askin guys out and been turned down not because im ugly but cause they really dont know me now i kinda asked out this guy who is totally not ... (94 words)

Advice on how to squirt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - how do I squirt?... (4 words)

Can anyone explain my erection difficulties?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 20years old male, I have a serious issue which has started recently like 5months ago, The problem is that my penis stands up in the start such as in the foreplay but right after some time it goes down and then does not stand up. And I jerk off aswell like the sperm c... (175 words)

Does my husband just want his cake and eat it too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband thinks its alright to keep in contact with his ex's. this has been an issue for me because i found messages from 1 of them telling him how much she loves him and misses him. so when i confront him he gets angry with me and says that "am being insecured!" anyways ... (159 words)

Should I give this other girl a chance even though I love my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my ex. She says she loves me but everytime I think we are gonna have a chance she goes "on a date" with someone else. Of course that ends it for us but then she comes crawling back to me saying she wants only me, saying everything I want to hear. The problem is, I have ... (139 words)

Is fingering wrong when you plan to stay a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 months now. We dated earlier in the year for about 2 months and then we broke up and didn't talk for pretty much the entire summer, and then he asked me for a second chance so I agreed. He is not a virgin but he knows that I sti... (324 words)

I don't care what my ex thinks so how do I tell him that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well well what do i have to say other then i really like this guy but the EX is in the way with alot of things. he talks to me alot and always tells me what to do well im kinda nervous that the guy i just started to really like will think some thing is going on. so how should i ... (74 words)

She is already over me because she has starting dating but I still want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi My gf and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We were together for 2.5 yrs and we lived together for about 6 months. She started getting distant the last month, and as much as I tried to take her on dates and do romantic things with her, she didn't really come out of i... (383 words)

I have a question for the guys???

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im trying to keep my virginity so is there anything that i could do sexually that guys like to do without having intercoarse?... (24 words)

He should follow his dream but how do I get over the man I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He's moving to Germany in September and I have already began detaching myself from our relationship in order to give us a clean break. I love him and rightfully I cannot spend a day without missing him so much it hurts. I cannot go a year without him. Germany might aswell b... (96 words)

How do I get boys to like me in that way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, nearly 15 and I've never even came close to having a boyfriend. Nearly all of my friends have had lots of boyfriends or at least their first kiss. Am I as behind as I feel? How do I get guys to like me in that way? I feel so slow in this area :l... (56 words)

His temper is freaking me out more and more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My Common law husband and I are expecting a baby in June. Recently his temper has been freaking me out more and more, I guess because I'm pregnant and I'm afraid of my child experiencing it. He is especially insane when he drinks which is often, he gets a look in his eyes lik... (150 words)

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and torn between two lovers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am so confused. i have a boyfriend who i am not happy with. he lies,has hardly any ambition even if he works hard,he has nothing organized. i am so fed up. he has past issues with his family,is terribly ignorant and is a bit suicidal,when things get too tough. i am not a girl ... (278 words)

I'm only 17 and I don't think I'm ready for this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i am really freeking out i think i might be pregnant i last had sex 2 months ago and i havent had my period since my boobs are really sore i keep feeling sick in the morning i know it sounds like yeah i am but i am really scared to take a test and i really dont know how to ... (102 words)

What is the legal age to buy condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - how old u have 2 be 2 buy condoms my friend said 16 i said any age whats right?... (19 words)

I took the second morning after pill late, am I at high risk of pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I took a morning after pill that has two tablets. I was supposed to take the second pill 12 hrs later but I lost track of time and took it 48 minutes late. Am I still okay? Can I take another morning after pill? ... (46 words)

Do I trust the ex? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my ex boyfriend dated for like 5 months are so but after we broke up we still been extremely close and he still likes me and im unsure about how i feel about him and then i learned recently that he was cheating on me with his best friends girlfriend who i'm also ... (91 words)

The ex--best to build things up slowly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I split up with my long time BF a few months ago but we met up today and we arranged to meet up again next week but I feel as though it's very tenuous. Is it best to take it slowly and meet up once a week and rebuild a friendship/relationship rather than rush? I'm a bit ... (240 words)

Lengths to go for happiness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am currently living with my ex, we also have 4 children together. He has been abusive and has cheated on me in the past. It's difficult for me to forgive him, when I know he won't change. He has chosen that marriage is not for him, however I do want to be married again and ... (475 words)

I'm a very sexual person and feeling deprived!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my early 20s and my boyfriend of 3 years is in his mid 30s. We had a very healthy sex life up until about 6 months ago. He has started being somewhat distant when it comes to sex. I'm a very sexual person and I feel deprived. I've looked up tips and new moves to try on ... (210 words)

Would it be wrong to leave my husband in the state he's in now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman of 11 years with 2 boys and i have been having problems with my marriage from day one. Things have been rocky because my husband has trust issues with me for something i did before we gotten married.... he said he forgave me but obviously he hasn't. Being ... (219 words)

She wants to meet up with her ex, should I feel anything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm new to the site, I have a situation which is making me anxious. I met a girl in Feb of this year and we started dating. I was reluctant to at first as she was a lot younger than me, there's an age gap of 16 years, I'm 39. My friends convinced me if this girl liked me then ... (236 words)

Acne scars are so bad that they make my life a living hell!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is making my life a living hell, and I just can´t bear it anymore. My acne scars are so severe, that I look disfigured. I saw some photos today and the scars are so prominent that I look as if I´ve been attacked with a knife. I called my mom, crying, because I was so... (312 words)

B/f continues to text his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what should i do? my boyfriend continues to text his ex.. i have address this situations repeatly and he still continues to do it. he has changed her name to his sister's name in his cell phone to "throw" me off.. she asked in one of the text when they were gonna "hook up ... (100 words)

Before we married he wanted sex many times a day, after marriage not at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanted to ask, my husband since we got married stop wanting sex with me from the wedding night and even the honeymoon, in four years of marriage we had little sex, I was always crying for it, yes crying, I am not fat, I am young and I am Latin, he had no reason not to dessire ... (243 words)

Can you slow down a whirl wind romance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this girl I'm dating on one of the matching websites and from the very first date we were amazed at our compatibility and our attraction for each other. We've been dating almost 4 months now. However, in the 4 months we've dated it's gone from spending every evening with ... (258 words)

His text/phone friendship with his ex torments me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Right so a girl my boyfriend had an on/off thing with before me, is back in contact with my bf, phone/text wise. My bf and I have discussed this and he said he just wants her friendship, nothing else. Now, this is fine, but obviously it's always on my mind. What things can i do ... (71 words)

Please help...hes married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help... I really like this man that is married. And i can tell he likes me too. I have never told this man. Cause i know hes married. And im not the type of person to break up someones home... I think about him all the time. Please help. Do i keep this to myself and not ... (61 words)

How do I get rid of feelings for my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a Female and my best friend is a male. We are completely open with each other and teall each other everything! we have been living together as students for a year and a half and will do for the next two and a half years. I dont find myself physically attracted to him at ... (216 words)

What is the best solution for this problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

- I have two step-sons both in their early 20's, unmarried, going to college. They live on their own but they fight constantly. Usually younger one loans older one money, and then older one doesn't pay him back in full and that's when the drama begins and the younger son expect ... (237 words)

My kids got gyped at Christmas by my boyfriend's family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age - I have been with my bf for three years, we each have two teenagers from previous marriages. Every Holiday season, my kids and I are expected to join him and his extended family (his Mom, brother, sister in law and their kids) to celebrate Christmas. This is fine, but for the ... (355 words)

Fiance' fooled me into thinking the gift was his idea and I found out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Look what I found out.... My Fiance brought me a gift for my birthday last July. It was really cute. It was a Yellow Rose Plant with a Birthday Bear and a Perfume. I loved it. It was a little weird for me thought that he asked me earlier that day about this guy I used ... (260 words)

If a guy says he's been really busy, has he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy from a dating site. We talked a lot over the span of two weeks. Then I went to go stay with him for the weekend. I even met his friends and family and he bought every meal for me over the weekend. He even told me, before I left, to let him know the next time I'd be ... (230 words)

I'm so broken, hurt, and confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex have been together for two years on and off were just friends nows but he acts like he wants to be with me the only promblem is that he got a 15year old girl pregant im 18 and he is 20. Its been so hard to deal with because he been lieing to both me and her. he ... (216 words)

I miss my father and scared to confide in my mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I,m a 13 year old girl and my father is in the army, so he is always very busy and he is never around to help me. I am scared of sharing things with my mom. My problem is that we have just shifted to anew place and I hate this place. I don't even have many friends here and now ... (108 words)

Husband got laid off, became lazy, after 3 years of this, I want out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - i realy dont know how to start i been married to my husband for 6 years we have 3 children together the frist 3 years he was working hard and i was stay home mam then he got layd off then since i had better experince at work i star going back to my job that was it my husban ... (266 words)

Need help dealing with this break up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Its been three months since my girlfriend of over 2 years split up with me. Things were very very tough at first but did get easier. We live in the same samll town so very difficult to avoid each ohter. However things have just got much harder for me. I'm... (214 words)

Can you give me tips for being on-top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a woman. I want to please my boyfriend. can you give me tips for being on-top? thanks... (22 words)

My girfriend cheated on me and I have feelings of hatred, but still love her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf had oral sex with her friend in a cinema theatre and gave him a *******....she said it happened because she was too desperate and was out of her mind at that time...she feels terribly guilty now and regrets it and has cut all communication with that guy ....she loves me a ... (193 words)

Our friend is trying to ruin our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Need answer quick. My boyfriend and I have a former friend in common, a female, who I believe wanted to date him. She is jealous of our relationship and before I got involved with him, she was highly upset to learn that I wanted to date him. So much so that she told me that ... (533 words)

If I'm pregant, I want an abortion without being judged!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am really worried that i am pregnant. I have a feeling that i am and i think im starting to look as though i am. i am scared to go to the doctors because I am afraid of being judged and i know it sounds stupid but if i am i want to abort and i dont want to be judg... (135 words)

My b/f expects me to pay 50% of his mortgage with no guanantees for me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just new to living with my boyfriend in a house that he owns. Recently while discussing contributions towards household expenses he told me that he expects me to pay half his mortgage and that he is not interested in putting me on the title. He says that only after we have ... (167 words)

Since she fell pregnant, my girlfriend has lost her allure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Hi My girlfiend is 6 months pregnant and i dont feel attracted to her anymore. Before she got pregnant, we hardly ever had sex and on the one occasion we did she got pregnant (she said she was on the pill) When we first started dating she was on the carrer ladder look... (222 words)

Is love just reciprocated obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How can you know if what you're feeling is love.... or something else, such as obsession? When you compare the two states, the only real difference seems to be perspective. Is love really just reciprocated obsession?... (38 words)

Boyfriend's habit of taking care of "business' himself is creating problems in our sex life

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Good morning, I am having difficulties in my relationship with my boyfriend that I live with. One problem that seems to be getting bigger is our sex life. Lately, he has been masturbating before work in the shower and I know this is going on. Masturbation does not bother me but ... (180 words)

My younger brother is caught up in an online relationship with an older woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother is a really shy guy who doesn't like to go out much. He is a cutie pie and I wish he could be around more girls cause he has the looks. He is just too shy for his own good. Well, lately he has been talking to a woman online who I am afraid he is becoming very ob... (518 words)

Should I end it now and wait until he is 18?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going out with a guy that is a few years younger than me (underage). I really care about him and every day I get emotionally closer to him. I’ve never felt this comfortable with a guy before. We have the confidence to open up to each other and talk about anything. What I ... (252 words)

I love him but something doesn't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - well my boyfriend is 15yrs older than me.our relationship has been good for the most part but something is telling me that he is hiding something i.e. i never met his family or kids he has met mine i have never been to his house he claims he is in between places and is in an ... (211 words)

I have spots but want to look good for my girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people just a little advice, Basically its about the classic teen problem....spots. My girlfriend is gorgeous, she thinks im cute but to be honest i dont like the fact i have spots. I know its not a huge deal but id like help with them. Last year, my spots were rea... (143 words)

I'm too shy to approach women I find attractive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been hanging out with this girl that I really like. However, when I'm with her I just don't feel "it". She's really awesome and I actually do have feelings for her. It's just that it seems like she is a better friend then a girlfriend. But there really isn't anything ... (253 words)

Professor giving us dating and courtship suggestions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello,Guys~~ one of my professors is always telling us not to touch g girl even though she probably is you girl friend to protect her and make sure she is clean. Telling this, he also aften do some disgusting actions... The problem is that I have kissed my gf and touched... (103 words)

Do girls go on top or on bottom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question, during sex is the female normally on top? i no its more of a choice thing but generally are girls expected to go ontop??... (28 words)

I still like to hang out with my ex, and I have feelings for him, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so recently I have hung out with my ex boyfriend. In the past (about 7 months ago) we only dated for a few months but i felt like i never got closure because it ended before it started. We were both stubborn and broke up for a stupid reason. The problem i had with him was that ... (343 words)

My friends tell me to be myself, but then they tell me I'm boring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have always been a "worry-wart" and very cautious person- I'm introverted and am a homebody. My friends on the other hand are all outgoing, extroverts who like to socialize with everyone and party. Two of my friends have said that I was "boring." Now I know we just may be ... (170 words)

I am obsessed with a girl who has an on off boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and am in my second year of college. Within a few months of my first year I met someone I felt I was completely compatible with. We had similar interests, had the same group of friends, and she's beautiful. I started hinting at the fact that I liked her "secretly" and ... (204 words)

Have your period after sex and be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok,so me and my Boyfriend had sex bout 2 and a half weeks ago,I was on my period then and i still had it after about 2 or 3 days after, I Don't have Any signs i Just Need to know if its possible to have your Period after you have sex and still be pregnant i know you can't be... (88 words)

Sometimes I can, sometimes I can't, what's up with my libido/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, So I went through a depression a little over a year ago, and went without sex or sexual desires for about 1.5 years (I went through a phase where I thought I was asexual, but this definition didn’t fit, especially because I did occasionally masturbate). I lost total ... (543 words)

When I try to involve him in the plans for our wedding he gets mad and says whatever you want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 27 i have been with my fiancee for almost 9 yrs. we are engaged to be married in april of 2010. i am a stay at home mom he works. but i just cant get him really interested In our wedding plans. i am doing it alone and its to much on me i have our three sons so i know he cant ... (97 words)

His actions don't match his words!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 20 year old girl - and I'm the only person out of everyone I know that's never been in a relationship. The guy i've liked since the summer finally decides to msg me after months pass of not seeing each other to hang out....and it goes well we hang a few times, I throw a... (211 words)

He is my first boyfriend but he doesn't make my heart race

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've met this guy, and he is my offical first boyfriend. I want to make myself believe that I love him, but whenever I'm with him, my heart just doesn't seem to race. I guess he is just too perfect, I want more drama into my love life. He always tells me he loves me, he ... (141 words)

I have a new g/f but keep thinking about the ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here the deal me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago and I'm really doing fine without her. It was rough for the first month or so but it's all good now, I've started dating another girl and she really seems to like me, apretiates me for who I am and she's much more ... (153 words)

Engaged! Finally! and now he is cooling off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Engaged after five years and now he is treating me like a room mate. Here it is... It's his way or no way! It feels like he doesnt want to get married. He is saying that i dont do enough around the house when it seems that is all i do. Im not good enough i guess. Im not ... (273 words)

I met him on a dating site, now he has deleted his a/c I am worried about him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few years ago I joined a dating site for fun. One day, bored out of my mind, I had a look at my matches. One guy (an older guy) in particular seemed pretty interesting so I sent him a message. We had a great chat and soon we were on MSN winding each other up. I liked the idea ... (249 words)

Oh No! I hope I'm not pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright I guess this question is more for girls that have been pregnant or maybe people that know about pregnancies.. ok, about five nights ago my guy friend and I had a good bit to drink and needless to say things led into the bedroom.. Well I was with a guy before that ... (258 words)

I don't see why girls like me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand why girls like me. I see myself as a terrible person to date and the more they like me the worst I feel. I feel immature and I feel like Im just no worth it, I feel like a kid inside because I cannot take care of them, obviously I don't let it show and all ... (442 words)

My ex wife wont allow me to do anything with my kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help. My ex wife wont talk to me about my kids and disagrees with everything I want to do. I cant get my 7 year olds ears pierced, take our 5 year old skating, go to my nieces grad party, aunts funeral got shut down. I need to know why she hates me so much? She ... (114 words)

I need to talk to my Mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i have a question so i had had my period fot 2 yearsz now i am 15 years old and i get frustruated with using pads so i have been thinking about using tampons. my question is how can i get my mom to approve or buy me some?... (50 words)

How do I attract a guy that doesn't want me for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so all my friends have boyfriends and have already lost there virginity. they dont pick on me for still being a virgin but they dont really talk about anything else beside haveing sex. i am really focused on school and haveing a job. im almost 17 and i have had the oppertunity ... (157 words)

I am not sure if I am getting the brush off or if he is waiting for me to text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My boyfriend is in a band, and last week had two shows in our town and then left out of state for a week. He always takes me along to the shows they play but this time I had to ask to come along, he acted weird and was drunk (I had to pay to get in which I usually don't)... (286 words)

She has been swapping nude pics with her ex, should I forgive or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over six months. She is my age and has a son that is almost two. I knew she had a son and there for would be around her ex more then any of my other girlfriends but, was willing to try and help her raise him since the ... (269 words)

My ex is coming back around Christmas, and I am not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my ex and i havent talked in like 3 months and he's comming back around not to long before christmas. the second time we dated i realized that i had fallen in love with him. when he finally called it total quiets i was heart broken and i wanted to hate his guts. after a ... (233 words)

Two breakups in one year, I KNOW I deserve better!

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. I've been through two horrible break-ups this year. The first was a two-year relationship, my first love, the first guy I ever slept with. The second lasted about 7 months. I wanted it to work so badly. I was in love with him. Both times, I was lied to an... (396 words)

Will I know when I am in love, and do they have to love you back?

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17 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you know you love someone? Do they have to love you back? When you do love them, and it's not reciprocated, is it better to have them out of your life?... (35 words)

We are FWB until we are drunk, then we love each other madly!

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for quite a while now and have been friends with benefits with no emotional attatchments involved...but why is it that when either he or i are drunk we spill out our real emotions? Meaning that we both like each other a lot...we just don't do it sober ... (56 words)

I broke contact with my best friend, and now I want to know how to get what I had with her, with my girlfriend!

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17 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke off contact with my best friend because she and I were getting way too close. I used to really enjoy the catch-up emails we would send to each other filled with witty banter to one another. There was much to say since we didn't see each other very often. My ... (139 words)

I asked her on a date, but she said no, now I feel hurt

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17 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and a senior in high school. I have never gone out with anyone, and this doesnt help my confidence any. But my friends convinced me that I should ask out a girl that i talk to a lot and am very good friends with. She is in some of my classes and out of school activities. ... (207 words)

I thought my crush liked me but he didnt so now I feel uncomfortable around him!

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seventeen. For the past two years, this guy "Conner" has been smiling at me in the halls. Initially, I thought it was because he liked me, but he just wanted to be friendly. Last June, I found out through, believe it or not, a Facebook chat, that he liked another girl fro... (170 words)

Sometimes I don't understand him, and it makes me sad

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling down tonight. It had been a few days since I had talked to my boyfriend and I missed him greatly. I was finally able to talk to him again tonight, and everything was pretty good. But then I mentioned how I was working on a Christmas gift for him, and that's when ... (248 words)

I feel like I'm caught in the middle!!!

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm a seventeen-year-old senior in high school. M y question is about peer pressure and judgmental people. Warning: it's a long story. One of my friends "Skye" I have known since freshmen year. We get along and all, but over the past few months, most of the other girls in ... (430 words)

I need to be honest but I'm afraid of destroying our friendship...

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17 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, here goes, brutal honesty even though I know you're all going to shoot me down! A few months ago I went on this thing called playstation home on my ps3. its like a socialising platform. you create your avatar (character) and you can chat to other people online in a virtual ... (196 words)

I don't feel like I should...

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for over a year. I loved him but we were very different and I knew he wasn't right for me so I broke up with him. Pretty soon afterward I met a new guy. He has all the qualities I want in a guy and we have a lot in common. The problem is, I still think about my ... (131 words)

What did he mean when I asked him about trust and love?

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my boyfriend this question (If u closed your eyes and never opened them again could u trust the man/woman u love to lead u?) He replied: Could I? I'm confused please help me understand what he ment. ... (41 words)

I have strong feelings for my best friend...but now hes dating someone else...

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what would be the best thing to do if i have strong feelings for my best friend but hes started dating someone else and its killing me to stay friends with him help what should i do ??... (38 words)

I really fancy this boy but I don't know if he likes me back! And what about my coworker?

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i've just started a new job not long ago, and met this guy whos really really nice and i fancy him however my friend and work colleague told me she likes him today, i havent told her i like him, but im quite upset, because shes alot prettier than me so i think he would ... (144 words)

The needle trick - does it really work?

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I dont have any children and i have never been married yet. I am a 22 year old female. The other day my mother had told me about the needle trick that her grandmother taught her.. U take a needle tie it to thread and put it on ur palm. If it goes in circles its a... (135 words)

Stay with him in an open relationship until I meet other men, or stay single and just enjoy being a mom?

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a little scenario that I'm wondering if I should move one for good but I feel like I dont want to have to start all over and get to know the person. I've been with this guy for over 4 long years hes been abusive in the past so far he hasn't been but I have a huge issue ... (218 words)

I'm really shy and need some advice on how to make the next move!

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey wondered if you could give me afew tips. Ive liked this guy for ages he a great friend to me, always thought he liked me. However things got difficult, other people got in the way and hes not the most confident person in the world. Which is exactlly why im asking this ... (178 words)

How do I get over this raging jealousy?

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sooo jealous! I cannot help it or stop it. Whenever my boyfriend hangs out with one of his girl friends, or when he says he is at a girls house, or whatever the situation is, this jealous green monster comes out. He does act different around girls than he does me, I've seen ... (56 words)

Is there any way to speed up a period?

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just got my period today and its wednesday.. i want to gone by saturday.. is their anything i can do to speed up the process?... (26 words)

Are these gifts a little strange?

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17 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If I get turned on when my wife wears leggings, and I get her a couple pair of leggings from Victoria's Secret, along with a sleep shirt to wear with each, do you think she might find this kind of strange? Our sex life is not so great, needs something to spice things up, and ... (77 words)

How can I get him back? I'm miserable.

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 months just broke up with me and im so heartbroken because we are also colleagues! It hurts me so much to see him. He always treated me like his princess.. But i guess i was too demanding and always angry at him. He had enough of me and after disappearing on ... (282 words)

Dad caught me masturbating

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17 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 14 years old and i dont know wat to do because my dad caught me masterbaiting. My dad isnt the best understanding person. what should i do? Also i want to ask a girl out but i have acne i dont want to get turned down and im not that good at talking to girls that r pretty. ... (63 words)

He wants to give up his dream for me

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancee and I have been together for four years. I love him very much, and I would never want to be the reason he turned down a dream. However, I've spent the past few years training in a field that is highly specialized to where we live now. It just doesn't exist an... (214 words)

He's suddenly treating me like dirt. What should I do about him?

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17 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known aidan for around 3 months now, and untly things have been going great, i am really attracted to him, not just on his looks but on his personality. I used to go to his, and we have exchanged passionate kisses and i have developed feelings for him. However it s... (126 words)