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writes:You know when a guy really likes you but seems too shy to do anything or awkard about it for some reason, is it normal for him to just not treat you the same and sort of of treat you like his other friends like... not ingoring but he sort of distances himself from you or he talks to all them first before you?Also i would like to know whatever your answer to the first question is. What signs do these types of guys give? whats a give away that they really like you but daren't tell you or there's something stopping them. Especially if its gone on for some time?
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reader, Kalyov  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 My boyfriend was the shy guy! He was so adorable trying to woo me.
Here are some signs my boyfriend game me before we dated...he was so shy, it took him 2 months to ask me out!
I am extremely glad I waited for him...hes the sweetest guy ever!
He...
-Poked me
-Nudge
-Give me high-fives
-talked to me in class all the time and then on facebook too
-asked if he can steal one of my fries off my plate
-sometimes I caught him looking at me
-picked on me
Here are some examples of some things he did later on....
One day
-we spent about 4 hours together yesterday (I saw him so we talked for a bit then he was like “guess ill follow you” so we staid together and sat together watching the game)
-it was really cold so I huddled close to him and he didn’t object (when we were separated once because someone stepped between us, he returned to the closeness we had before afterwards – though no arms around eachother so it wasn’t like cuddling)
-one time we were walking around and he was doing something that embarrassed me so I was like "I disown you!" he goes "you owned me? I didnt know this! were not committed."
-one of my 'friends' (she had 3 bfs at one time and then likes/flirts with 7 of the guys in class) tried flirting with him..I was giving her the death look lol but he ignored her …my friend went up to him later on and said "you know she was flirting with you right?" he goes "yeah I know...I was trying to ignore her."
-and he obeyed me lol….if he did something I didnt like all I had to do was look at him and he would stop XD (or he does things like this…when I was trying to record something I told him to ‘sush im recording!” he starts going “blah blah blah” for a bit fooling around )
He would sing to me
Touch me as much as possible (hand on my shoulder if I was sitting in front of him in the football stands)
He started out doing all of those slight things, and over time I could see him become more confident in himself and that was when he started showing it more.
Just be patient and flirt as much as possible! Hopefully it will work out! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): If he's shy, he may look your way a lot. If he's not interacting with you, what else can he do? Lol
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reader, HollyHeartbreak +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Hey there,
Maybe hes just the type of guy who puts his mates first before girls he likes or maybe he doesn't want to treat you differently because he's scared it might scare you off or scared of rejection.
One of the tell tale signs he may like you is he speaks to you atleast once a day without fail whether its on text, msn, facebook etc and if he doesn't speak to you that day he'll give a reason another sign is he'll compliment how you look.
The only way you'll really know he likes you if he tells you though :)
Good luck though.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (8 December 2009):
 When a shy guy is with his friends, if he tells a joke, he'll immediately look at you and your reaction; that's a good sign he likes you. Also, if he's with his friends and you're off to the side or something, if he's talking and suddenly all his friends start looking at you, that's a good sign as well, as he's telling his pals about you.
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