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writes:if a guy breaks up with his girlfriend of 4 months cos hes busy with the army, but still really likes her and wants to be with her sometime in the future when he has more freedom, but stayin mates for nowwell they were really close so will he miss her when she doesnt contact him at all and seems happy without him? and when he comes home for 3 weeks at xmas could he want to see her again?its happened to me but i cant imagine us not meeting up when hes home for that long, it wouldnt feel righttheres no girls in his barracks or anywhere near him n hes not the type to cheat thank you xx
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reader, goodgirlgonebad254 +, writes (9 December 2009):
goodgirlgonebad254 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your answers i understand what ur saying but im going through the phase where i want to try and get him back because he still likes me but im not actually going to contact him. but after xmas when hes gone back to army then i will be able to move on easier
thanks for ur help xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 December 2009):
Hiya, I answered this yesterday.
Just to add this from my husband who did 12 years in the army.
"Every military training base has girls near it who hang out in night clubs in order to shag squaddies. He will want to be "friends" with you every time he comes home but he'll want to be single when he goes back."
Please take my advice and don't get hurt. Talk to him when he's home for Xmas but end it there and then. He'll have already changed a lot when you see him again.
The army KILLS relationships. It gave us no end of problems and we are both a lot more secure in our relationship than you. We both wanted eachother and no one else. At his age he's not going to want to settle and commit.
Good Luck!! xx
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