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reader, truelover  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Well, different guys find things sexy in women.
Personally, I love a pretty face (specifically large lovely eyes, luscious lips, beautiful nose, medium to long hair...)
I also love breasts (not too large & they must be natural... there's something abt surgically enhanced breasts that's a big turn-off... first-off they r NOT the same thing either visually or functionally & secondly, it tells me a lot abt the inner strength/personality of the woman that she felt insecure enough abt her natural form to go for a surgery)I don't know why many women go for boob jobs...it's thr prerogative, of course,... but if they r doing it to become appear more attractive to men, trust me, there are many men who love u just the way u r & I love small breasts too as long at it's not a case of being absolutely flat-chested
A good figure, without a lot of excess fat (no flabbiness) also is hot. Long shapely legs r hot but not must haves.
Indeed, contrary to the idea of the stereotyped beauty projected in popular culture, I personally find a wide variety of women attractive.
But in addition to this, I also find that the way a girl values herself, her sense of purity, her confidence, her honesty, her compassion, her ability to hold an intelligent conversation & sense of humor to be very attractive. I'm not saying this just to be nice, I'm literally attracted (or turned ON) by such qualities in a girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Hold eye contact with him a little longer than usual. Look down and away first, but then look back after a few seconds/minutes. Keep doing this
Get physically close so you are touching
Invite him to go and talk alone somewhere
He'll have to get the message, unless you jump him
I like saddlebags on girls' thighs. It's not fat you want to get rid of.
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reader, jim0007 +, writes (8 December 2009):
Hi
This is easy as a guy! We re all differant too! Some things are Breast, leggs, eyes, teasing, smell, touch, your voice, hair, feeling safe with you! Trusting you! Your outward beauty is 1st thing we see, but the way you make us feel is very important!
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reader, Illithid +, writes (8 December 2009):
 What was the biggest turn on for me was knowing that my girl wanted me and wasn't just LETTING me have her. If you don't want to come on too strong, you could just wear something sexy (anything from no bra and loose low-cut shirt, to full blown lingerie) and sit closer to him than usual, lean up against him, maybe just go ahead and sit on his lap facing him. If you can, guide the conversation towards sex... but the biggest turn on is knowing that YOU want HIM, so if you make him chase you too much... if you make him bring it up... if you just hint and wait, he may be either afraid of being too forward, or may think that you only let him because he wanted it.
A very non-subtle way my ex got the hint across was to leave the room (allegedly to go to the bathroom) only to come back without bra or underwear even though she's still in the same shirt and pants. I wouldn't always notice immediately (because I didn't spend every minute of the day groping her) but when I did, and said as much, she's just turn to me and smile a wide grin. You can imagine that it didn't take me long to get THAT hint.
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