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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try talking to him or just give it up? We haven't talked in weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Let me know if I am wrong here seriously. This guy I were friends with for many years. He had a girlfriend. She hated me cause we were friends. NOTHING happened!! This girl moved in. He swore to me he did not ask her-that she just brought her stuff and moved in! I'm not be... (305 words)

I DON'T want to be just another notch on his bedpost!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age - I have had a crush on this guy who works at his families hair dressers for over a year now. He is a single parent and his mother and sisters are sonice towards me. I have developed good friendships with them. One of the sisters was trying to kinda of indirectly set m... (277 words)

Bored out my skull after nearly 4 years in relationship - please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I've been in a relationship with my Gf for nearly 4 years now and well im starting to become really really fed up of things atm. When we first went out it was cool, we were going out doing the usual things, cinemas meals etc etc, random spontaneous things i... (476 words)

Trouble gaining closure...

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble gaining closure with my relationship as I still can't get to grips with the fact that my boyfriend severed contact with me with no explanation after nearly 2 1/2 years together. I don't want people to say 'what a jerk' and generally diss him (as some may... (688 words)

Losing control with teenagers!

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6 December 2009 (F)

age - A couple of days ago I asked for help with my teenage sons and mentioned that I removed the older from my home due to violence. i had a few good helpful responses. This evening I asked my 15 year to wash his hair. I gave him money for barbers many days ago and he still has... (262 words)

Do I confront my friend about her disrespectful ways?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Need some help with a fairly awkward situation with one of my best friends. This last weekend, I went away home to my parents house for the entire weekend. On the friday night, my other flatmates had a big party - which I was ok with, no biggie. One of my best mates we... (569 words)

He wants me to have his baby but I'm so not ready yet! How do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok! I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and hes soooooooooo ready for me to have his baby. I love him so much thats my baby but I'm not ready yet. I want to but not just yet. How do I tell him this??????... (46 words)

I haven't heard from my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I havent talked to my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks. I messaged him on facebook and asked him what's going on and he messaged me back last night and said "you told me to f*** off, so I did." I dont remember ever saying that to him, and it doesnt make sense because last time i t... (158 words)

Sooooo unhappy in my marriage...

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 20 years old, got married at 18 and feel that I made a huge mistake. Yea I know.. most are gonna think "umm yea of course you did". I knew my husband for a year before I got married and now I feel like I should have gotten to know him better before I married him. I ... (482 words)

Is it true that the girl that gets away is the one you always want?

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question I'd like to ask to most guys who have been through something like this but any advice would help. Is it true that the girl that gets away is the one you always want? I was in a relationship and I was in love with her and she told me she felt the same but she ... (163 words)

Are his feelings when he's drunk his true feelings for me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i dont know if this guy likes me or not. We are really close friends and when he is drunk he seriously tries it on with me... every time but sober he doesnt act the same way. he bearly talks to me sometimes. The only time we properly chat is on msn or through texting. ... (93 words)

He keeps saying we don't have a future after 2 years!

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6 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years. But whenever i want to talk to him about the future, he freaks out and we always end up having a huge argument and we both end up crying. In the end he always apologises and we make up but it keeps happening. He said ... (161 words)

I need help with harder erections with girlfriend!

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my gf wants to give me a handjob but i dont get super super hard while we makeout. she usually straddles me and we makeout while i caress her boobs and her bum and other places and the makeout is intense and i get semi hard but i never pull it out cuz its not really hard so it ... (114 words)

Can having diahorrea affect the pill?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I know this may be kinda gross but i still need to ask. My boyfriend of five years and I use the pill as our form of contraception, we have never used condoms as we dont enjoy using them. Anyway for the past few weeks i have had diahorrea on and off all day, and am getting ... (104 words)

I haven't been on my period for nearly 6 months now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and i havent been on my period for nearly 6 months now. My last period was near the end of july and it is now december. I had sex in september and tried a withdrawel after the condom splitting. I have been to a clinic and took a pregnancy test and it turned out ... (88 words)

I'm not sure how to go about getting him to see me as a girl, rather than a friend...

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Well ive just started a new job as a waitress, and ive met lots of new people. Theres a guy who works behind the bar, and im sorta interessted in him. But I dont think he would be interessted back for the following reasons: Im the youngest at work and im sorta 'the ba... (262 words)

If she's dating a guy, why does she need me to at all?

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I became very close friends with a woman from school who told me that for the first part of our friendship, she had been trying to get me to leave my girlfriend for her, but she's not interested anymore because she doesn't want to be involved in a mess. I won't pretend I ... (351 words)

I can't live with you and I can't live without you...

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6 December 2009 (F)

age - What does it mean when someone says I do not know what I am going to do with you then says I cant live with you and I cant live without you. Then you ask if they do want to live without you and they say no. Please explain. I have been getting different responses.... (56 words)

Why will my girlfriend not tell me her secret?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who told me she has a secret that makes her cry every time she thinks about it. she wont tell me at all and we're going out. She's dropped a couple hints here and there but I'm confused about the whole thing.... I think she is being sexually abused by someone in ... (112 words)

Does anyone feel my husband can be trusted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for a year and I just had my first child with my husband. 2 months after my son was born I found out my husband was sending text messages to other women. He says he never cheated or even texted them back (which I know is a lie because I watched him text ... (187 words)

Could my boyfriend be a compulsive liar?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. He's incredibly nice, sweet, caring and good looking, and he always makes sure to treat me right. He calls me up to check if I'm okay, buys me things even though I told him not to, and keeps trying his best to make me feel ... (444 words)

Can he get away with leaving me nowhere to live and without my belongings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I know I'm feeling sorry for myself, I feel tricked and not sure what to do. After asking my husband for a divorce in the heat of the moment, I left for a few weeks to think about it. I came back to him and suggested we go for counselling, he refused as he felt we'd ... (327 words)

How can I get past this emotional baggage and not be so upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I've asked a couple of questions here before. I'm not really sure how to phrase this as a question, I just need some advice. Bear with me as it's a bit of a long story. There's this guy, "Chaz", who I met about three and a half years ago. We hit it off really well ... (428 words)

Do wonderful relationships just "happen" or do they take work

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just curious on what your take is on this, because I've heard two different camps. A lot of people on this site say relationships take work and you need to work at it to keep it in good order; then there are other people who say that when you're in love, everything, or most ... (79 words)

My five minutes of fame are bringing a lifetime of shame

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had real problems with self-esteem and subsequently booze for quite a few years. I have forced myself on a downward spiral and i seem to dwell on my problems more and more. It all began when i was 20 and booze enabled me to be 'popular' (at the time i didn't realise i was ... (558 words)

My mum wants my weekends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so my parents hav split up. Not legally but they dont live together and dont love each other anymore. I have a girlfriend which im really seriosu about and want to be with her as much as possible. The thing is that my mum wants to see me almost every weekend which leaves me ... (142 words)

She tells my sister she likes me but acts like she doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hellow as you can see im tigger and im a female ther is this girl that ii like and I told her that I like her see the thing is I never liked a girl befor but when I first seen this girl something about her jus pulled me to her I told her I liked her and every thin but she acts ... (134 words)

Why do girls stay with the bad guys?

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do girls always stay with guys that they either dont like or are mean to them? I liked this one girl a few years back and i wanted to be with her but she had a boyfriend, and she would tell me that she kinda liked me and could see something but didnt do anything because... (165 words)

Boyfriend is a bar star! What do I do?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a barstar and I need some advice Im not a fan of his behavious and dont know what to do. We have been dating for almost 4 months. He goes out almost every weekend to the bar and almost always gets drunk, passes out at home and wakes up with a hangover. He's 2... (190 words)

Loving a pregnant teacher

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I never thought that I was a lesbian until I saw this new teacher at school. She came in the second term and she was just perfect.I dont have any friends at school and so I am usually very friendly and nice with the teachers.She was so nice with me and we talked alot.She... (317 words)

I can't force myself to go on anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have broken up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago and we had been together almost 8 years. He went to study abroad and we therefore decided to split, but its very very hard and i cry everyday. The thing is im also suffering from panic attacks and anxiety and ... (125 words)

My life is boring and I get jealous of other peoples lives!

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and my life is so boring i don't get to go out much because i don't know anyone so i stay at home all the time. I have one friend but he's boring as a stick he's the type of good person i wanna go out with but he doesn't like to do anything i try to make him all the time ... (483 words)

Why has he suddenly gone all cold with me?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi All, I accidentally came across this site whilst trying to find ways of getting over someone. I really need some advice...my brain knows what I need to do..yet my heart isnt listening...what is the best thing to do? 3 months ago, there was a guy who provides a business ... (331 words)

How do I block porn sites on my computer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been trying to block porn websites from my computer and I followed it tells me to do : open Internet explorer tools Internet options click on security tab restricted site sites add the porn site which you want to block. I have done this but the... (108 words)

Does a calorie switiching diet work?

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6 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Does anybody has experience here,with calorie switching diet. I'm planning to lose weight safely,and I heard great results.. Do you have any tips,and if you liked it or not?And does it really work? ... (33 words)

How can I get attention off of my friends and on to me?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have drop dead gorgeous friends. Everytime I go out, they always get all the attention. The only type of attention I get is the buddy buddy status. No one looks at me like I could be a potential girlfriend or something, unless they get to know me and see how I am. But I never ... (74 words)

I feel stuck in my own personal rut and I don't know how to get out of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I split up today. We had our first arguement 2 months ago and things went downhill from there. His response to the arguement was to ignore me for half a week, my response was feeling very insecure and felt I was walking on eggshells, like I wasn't able to ... (269 words)

I want to stop feeling so depressed all the time - how can I change that and make myself more likable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and am in year 11 at school and I feel depressed all the time. I have 2 close friends but I'm not very good at making friends and they both have other friends that they can hang around with. I sometimes hang around with one group of people but now one of my old ... (273 words)

Unsure on how to proceed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have been going out with this guy for 5 months now, at first it was great we spent time together he baught me flowers a few times and we went out on walks, baught each other meals and things. I was introduced to all his friends, they were nice and we got on well. So ... (893 words)

Is it wrong for me to expect her to pay a little more attention when I talk about things I'd like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I always listen when my wife is talking about the items she'd like, then I can get her the perfect gifts for Christmas and her birthday, even if it's months away. All year I mention things I'd like, just as she does, and around Christmas she always gets flustered and says "I ... (148 words)

I don't want to ask or accuse him of cheating when I'm not sure but I don't want to be played!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm amanda, i'm 17 and so is my boyfriend, josh. we've been dating for 7 months. ive been really upset lately and i don't know what to do about it. i have a feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me. He's always around his ex girlfriend, jessica who is 18. they are friends ... (235 words)

I don't understand why the tables aren't turned, after all I've done for him he should be the one begging to be with me!

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I will give you some background information first: I've been with this guy for 6 years. We broke up last October due to his family problems and he freaked out and pushed me away. I am 21 and we started "dating" when I was 14--young I know, but our parents were friends and we m... (821 words)

I think I'm going to end up hating my first love!

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love this guy. He was my first love. He was the first relationship I ever had and it bothers that he had about relationships before that he keeps bringing up. The two that come up the most are the ones that dumped him. One girl dumn him and never spoke to him because ... (336 words)

Am I wrong for thinking that something has changed or something else is going on?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long distance relationship for the past year. At the beginning, when we couldn't see each other, things were great...we constantly told each other how much we wanted each other and found other ways to be intimate. Over the past 6 months a few things have ... (203 words)

Do I have any right to be upset at what he did?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like peoples opinions on this situation please^^ thank you in advance My boyfriend and I had a big fight around two months ago. I have let this go now and accepted what happened but still get upset when he brings it up. A girl I had been talking to told me she had ... (481 words)

Could I be pregnant again? And is the love I feel for my boyfriend real because he is my first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post. Question 1: I have been pregnant before, but had an abortion becasue my boyfriend and i werent mature enough or financially stable enough to have a child. This was when i was . . . 2/3 years ag... (276 words)

Been together 5 years and I don't want to have sex anymore.

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my and my boyfriend have been dating now for 5 years. im 21 and hes 23. I love him very much and see myself marring him someday. BUT, it seems like for the past 2 years our sex life has gone down the hill. Now there are some factors that play into this like: his dad had a ... (189 words)

Will he go back to his first ex or stay with me? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I looked up stuff about my boyfriend's first ex. theres plenty of stuff about him and her. and how much he loved her and how much she wants him back even though its been a year since their break up. and I've been scared ever since. what if he leaves me for her one day? we h... (341 words)

I've played it cool, but I am not sure what to do next....

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a non committed relationship for nearly 7 years. We are long distance and meet up every now and then for a bit of fun and company. I know that he has slept with others and so have I during our off periods. He does his own thing, we holiday separate... (167 words)

Help with my erections....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the one post Question 1: what can my girlfriend do to help me get an erection? we usually straddle(shes on top of me like sex position) and we makeout and i start caressing her boobs and her bum and mass... (151 words)

How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it didn't do any good and with the ... (106 words)

My wife told me she was a virgin, but she was no where near it.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been reading this forum for a while now. My wife and I were High School Sweathearts. We courted for a couple of years, she became pregnant and we were married soon after our first child was born. I was in my third year of college (very tough well-known unive... (381 words)

I really dislike porn! How can I get over this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may sound really bad etc But I really dislike porn. I don't know why etc but I just do. Thing is, i've asked my boyfriend not to watch it, because it upsets me and I get jealous. In case he finds the girls in it more attractive than me, if he thinks about them whi... (150 words)

My close friend likes my teacher too, it makes me so jealous when she spends time with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably the most stupid jealousy question you've heard! But anyway, student-teacher-whatever-you-want-to-call them. I'm in one. One of my teachers is just the nicest guy etc. etc. We get on quite well, and we can have a laugh pretty easily. Before everyone has a g... (194 words)

Do you think he is just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this gyy he says he really likes me, we've been to the cinema once, and he only really texts me when he wants to meet up with me, and all he really does is pick me up, have sex with me then drop me home again. When i ask him to meet up he either says hes got work or has ... (78 words)

Did he just want sex from me?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - he drove for an hour to see me.. we went for a ride on thursday night. i asked what he wants cos he started kissing me( cos i dont just want sex.. i want more than that) he said he doesn't know.. he wants to get to know me then decide. i haven't heard from him since las... (152 words)

How do I resolve this major fight I had with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, long story (fight between friends, needs help straightening out) Well it all starts with a fan site for a band. Me and my friend are both members. What it is, is a chance for fans from all over the world to chat with each other. You can either talk one on one with people ... (803 words)

Do you think I did the right thing letting him know that I recognize my mistake and giving him a timescale to come back?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend dumped me a few days ago because 'he didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend anymore'. Obviously I was devastated, but agreed with the break up and wished him the best, I didn't beg or plead. Just this morning, I e-mailed him just telling him I understan... (387 words)

Getting pregnant by a married man: How did things work out for you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There have been some questions for advice from women who were pregnant from married men. How did things work out for you?... (22 words)

How do I honestly Communicate to my boyfriend that he does not make me a high enough priority?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP!!! How do I honestly communicate to my boyfriend that he does not make me a high enough priority? He really does adore me and always tries to do everything possible to make me happy. Lately he has been caught up with his new band. He loves music and I know that being pa... (160 words)

How can I read between the lines?

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when a girl says bye for now? or we should have dinner?.... Does she want to break up with me or just keep me there in case she can't find anyone better?... (37 words)

Don't know if I still want the relationship or love him much any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been dating a man for about 9 months now and we have had a lot of problems since the beginning. We both have issues with drink and we have been agressive violent with each other on a few occasions when drunk. He has threatned me on a few occasions but never hit ... (305 words)

How can I start a relationship with Jay? He's so hot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bestie Kiara used to talk to this boy Boo and he introduced me to his friend Jay so I wouldn't be the 3rd wheel. I ended up having a one night stand with him, later on down the line I kinda K.I.T. with them for a few then hanging out with Kiara and her Boo, again he ... (186 words)

I feel he's growing distant...

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately it seems like my boyfriend and I are growing distant, we're talking less and it doesn't seem to bother him like it did before. I haven't said anything until I realized it myself I should be saying something about it, to see where his feelings are. But just when I was ... (159 words)

Is he letting me down softly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where to start but here it goes... A year ago I was going through a separation with my husband. I began seeing a fellow co-worker as a casual fling. He pursued hard and we eventually began dating. We broke up on and off over the course of 11 months. However ... (300 words)

Fallen for a gay guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confused. ive fallen for a really nice guy the only problem is that hes gay what the hell do i do? ... (29 words)

What should I do to have her when she won't break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok we have known each other for almost 2 years but we are not that close to each other. She has a bf of 5 years but she wants to end the relationship. Her bf just wouldn't allow for a brake up. They broke and patch back many times. She started to have feelings for me recently... (195 words)

Should I recreate a scene from the "Twilight" book?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - When I was in the 6th grade, a school right next to mine was closed down, and some of the students there came to our school. One of these students was Lisa (fake-name). A friend of mine had a crush on Lisa's friend, so a group evolved. We saw each other in school every day, we ... (384 words)

What should I do about by ex and my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please take the tme to help. Well my ex boyfriend posted this about me : 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a result of this, she split up my ... (602 words)

Is this a good start to a relationship?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I haven't been with my boyfriend that long.. and we've only known eachother for about 2 months but I'd do this with other boys I've known and been with longer aswell.. Basically I don't mind If he watches porn or kinda silly flirts with other girls or looks at them.. S... (141 words)

How can I get a first date?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im almost 14 and i have never been on a date with a guy. ever! i dont talk 2 many guys at school but i would like to. if i flirt with i guy i always want him to come over and make the first move, but they never do. how do i get talkin with boys and finaly go on my first date... (66 words)

He has a baby and I tried to keep in touch with him, but now he wants to be friends

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started talking to this guy in June 09 and he kept wanting to take it further. when he i didnt want to until july i agreed to and we spent time together. he always called me when he could since he got his phone stolen on july 4th. we spent time on july 8 and we decided to be ... (688 words)

I think my girl is going through a phase and I hope she gets over it soon!

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this is really long to read but it was the only way to get you to know what is exactly going on and exactly how I feel. Thank you so much for your time. I am 21 years old I have had many short term girlfriends and relationships with girls. But it wasn’t till I meet and... (948 words)

I am dating the local newspaper!

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i've recently got my first ever girlfriend of my life and i am damn happy 'bout it. but the thing is, whatever we talk about, romantic or private, just ANYTHINNG.... she goes on and shares it with her roommates. its not that they spread gossip or something..... in fact... (113 words)

Discovered my husband strutting in my stilletoes on camera!

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - while searching files on my husbands computer.I found a small pornographic video. This however is not particuarily out of the ordinary as we've filmed ourselves several times. I've not yet experienced any unusual sexualilty with him to this date. But the video I found was of ... (92 words)

How can I get my wish to come true?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a wish that reallllllly needs to come true. I try everything and wish every day. Does someone know anything to help my wish come true? Please help.... (31 words)

I am stressing because I might be pregnant

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was not supposed to start my period until December 2nd. I had unprotected sex on November 22nd and the very next day I started my period. It was a little different, (I dont really know, I rarely pay attention to it, I just know the dates) but Im not too sure. My periods are ... (268 words)

Can anyone help me with my Ipod?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got a new Ipod nano today, the new 5th generation and I dont like how it plays the music out loud, can somone please tell me how to like, turn it off?... (34 words)

I'm a quiet shy type, and gay, and I worry about things

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - sorry fr the length, need help. I think ihave s****** things up a bit. Im a quiet, no gay scene non drinking, shy gay female and have hardly any freinds, only a few straight freinds, only one knows im gay. Im a shift worker so its very very hard for me to committ ... (559 words)

I don't want him to think I am in love with him just because we had sex

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 3 mo.We see each other once a wk - Mainly me initiating it.Recently we had plans and he 4got to call(he told me b4 hand that he had to help a friend but wasnt sure what day of the wk/wknd it'd be.Well It was that day/night supposedly.I got pissed ... (305 words)

My friend threw a tantrum and I am still reeling from it!

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6 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Tonight I went out with my friends, "Jane" and "Mary." I live the farthest and was coming in to pick them up. Originally, I told Mary I would pick her up first and then we would get Jane. While driving, I realized I would be going back and forth, so I ended up picking Jane up ... (216 words)

Why is she being so cold even after me changing and being there for her?

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I am new on this site and I really need advice, ok so I have been seeing a girl for a year right now, I love her so much with every second of my day I have her in my mind, when we met we had so much love for each other, she was the most amazing girl. The love we had ... (516 words)

We have both moved on but I still get a little jealous of his new girl

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short: The ex and I broke up about a year ago after a two-year relationship. We then went on to hook up randomly throughout the last year even while dating other people. Also including once recently while I've been dating another guy. I told my new boyfriend about it ... (299 words)

How can I please my g/friend

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so here is the situation. me and my girlfriend are now getting a sexualy intimate. I have lately been fingering her. It seems like she enjoys it very much. But getting her to orgasm seems difficult. She will not take off her pants. so i undo her belt and unzip her pants. ... (224 words)

We have broken up but she doesn't want to stay connected with me

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, me and my gf who i really cared about broke up a couple months ago we dated for a year in were actually in love.things when bad like most tyoung relationships do(im 19, she is 17). Our relationship was still good though and im not getting over it as fast as i liked but im ... (186 words)

We are sleeping together but he wants to keep his options open

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I recently started seeing this guy and he's been really sweet but I'm afraid I'm reading into things far too much. I'm pretty sure he cares about me to some extent since he's been there for me through some tough ordeals, and his attitude hasn't changed much eve... (297 words)

A girl I like says she has a big secret, and I think I know what it is!

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - listen to me... i have recently been talking to this amazing girl. we were talking today and she was telling me about how she was crying all the time and how one person does it to her and all this. she said it was her one secret she never told anybody and she couldn't tell me. ... (128 words)

Boyfriend problems... should I break up with him or what?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and last week I had sex, my boyfriend and i have known each other for 5 years. And have been together for 3 years. It was wonderful, he and i reached "you know what" at the almost the exact same time. He loved it, and so did i. although, when we finished we went to sleep ... (328 words)

Should I dress to impress or to suit myself?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - who do you dress your self or others? I know this question may sound silly but is been in my mind for a while now. I don't have a lot of clothes and I like to look nice. But when you don't have much to wear people tend to notice what you wear since is pretty much the same ... (168 words)

She wants me to shave her legs

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend wants me to shave her legs. I've never done this before, never even heard of it since her meantioning (to be completely honest) I just want to know other's opinions, experiences etc just so there is some kind of clarification. Thanks... (44 words)

My girlfriend is 15, I am three years older, we are considering sex

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18, and my new girlfriend is 15. I have don't plan to have sex any time soon, but you never know. I am wondering about the legalities if I were to have sex now; is it still statutory rape because i am 18 and shes 15, if for what ever reason the authorities did ... (92 words)

A pregnancy question

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to kno if you can get pregnant even though the penis is not all the way inside you but the head goes in but not far while you are on top and he has precum?... (37 words)

I am tempted to give hubby for his b/day the same as he gave me

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6 December 2009 (F)

age - Hubby ignored my birthday again this year. It was Thurs. It's almost like he does it deliberately. He knows I don't want expensive gifts, he just knows I want some recognition. Well, he didn't completely ignore my birthday, he did get me a box of chocolate covered cherries ... (196 words)

I want to know how to approach guys

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I go out, I often see very good looking guys; however, I do not know how to approach them randomly. Also, I think it is weird to do so. But, at the end of the night, I want to at least have them notice me. What is the best way to open communication without being weird? ... (57 words)

I want to ask a co worker on a date, but have been told its a bad idea

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - For the last 2 years I have had this crush on this girl from my job and she has had a crush on me as well. Recently she ended her relationship with her long time boyfriend due to some ongoing problems. I really want to date her but I am being told that it is a bad idea because ... (118 words)

When she is out of sight she is always on my mind

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a problem whenever I don't see my GF for a few days I get the feeling she is cheating. I have told her I don't trust her and she was very hurt by it (I said this in anger) but still I told her I will stay on my toes! she has assured me every time that I have nothing ... (144 words)

I broke up with Sam, and I kissed John who told me Sam still loves me

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently on a night out, I began talking to my friend John. We had kissed once but he has been going out with his current girlfriend for over a year. This doesnt bother me, but as i was the designated driver that night i remember everything he said to me. I went out with his ... (292 words)

We have been together for 4 weeks and I am too lazy to have sex

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy friend any I have only been together 4 weeks and have a great relationship and I'm very happy but every time it comes down to having sex I just can't be bothered to have sex. I enjoy having sex and especially with him but I have always been the same! we have tried ... (88 words)

I havent heard from him for two weeks, and am thinking he has forgotten me

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My male friend, I have deep feelings for is enlisted in the USAF and one month ago he told me he was getting deployed and couldn't reveal the location. He told me to contacted him on Facebook and his email account. We have been Long Distance since we met 3 years ago and have ... (189 words)

He wanted to get engaged but when it came to the crunch he cooled off

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now, we moved in together after just two months of knowing each other, which is quick but I didn't have anywhere else to go at the time. He has been pretty open about the fact that he wants kids and wants to marry me. ... (285 words)

My girlfriends family keep trashing me

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok down to the question like always im dating my 18 year old girlfriend i love her and all but her family is always getting in the way i mean her dad talks trash about me as well as her grandmother and grandfather... and it annoys me and just recently her mother started yelling ... (85 words)

My boyfriend went out with the guys, now I can't contact him

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6 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My boyriend told me he was going to a casino with two of his guyfriends tonight and that they were gonna sleep at a hotel. I called him a couple times tonight and he didn't answer. I sent him a text and he didn't answer, and now i after a couple hours i tried calling again and ... (90 words)

My girlfriend is put off by my orgasm

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Some time ago my girlfriend (of a couple years) and I were making out on the couch. For the first time she put her hands down my pants and started giving me a hand job. I must say that it felt really good. In fact, perhaps too good because I ended up ejaculating. Anyways, ... (160 words)

What does sperm taste like?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm thinking of giving a blowjob to my boyfriend and since it'l be my first time then ofcourse I'm abit fridged about it. I've read nearly all the answers on tecniques but I'd like to know: What does sperm taste of and whats it feel like? Like is it liquid or jellyish ... (120 words)

My boyfriend's behaviour has changed!

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a commited relationship and have just completed 5 months. we both are really in true luv, but nowadays my boyfriend has seemingly changed.. he lives 545km away from my house.. now every 6 of month we used 2 wish each other 4 the completion of months.. this time with the ... (158 words)

My boyfriend admits to being a massive flirt and says I just have to deal with it

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf says he is a massive flirt and I have to just deal with that? Should I have to? He's my BF!!... (26 words)

I think my husband only wants me for sex

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I'm a 29 year old female, married, and have a 2 year old. I feel like all my husband wants from me is sex and when I don't want to he pouts. Being a new mother I'm tired all the time and he always wants to when I'm ready for bed. I've told him that we need to find better ... (248 words)

Sweet 16 and in love with Dad's 61 yo boss

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey wat up, well i'm 16 and i'm in love with my dad boss. we lived close by so we knew each other well i mean very well he would tell me about his life. We started talking more deeper and deeper and only time he told me he doesn't love his wife and they don't sleep toge... (231 words)

I want to seduce my 16 yo son's friend

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6 December 2009 (F)

age - I am a 45 year old with 2 kids a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. My son has a friend who is always at our house. He's very cute. Whenever my son isn't around we flirt with each other. Yesterday I bent down to put a pan in the cabinet and my butt was out and I saw him ... (135 words)

He has had another girlfriend, but through it all still seemed to like me!

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey jsut a curious question here because its happened to me. This guy really seemed to like me well used to and kind of still does. Is it possible for yoy to really like someone, maybe know that it can never happen(things got made difficult for us even to be friends) and the... (220 words)

I know I love her but does she deserve it!

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with this woman for a year and a half now. I found out about 4 months ago that she had slept with another man after we got into a fight and she stayed at a friends house. I broke things off immediately and tried to move on. Within about 3 or 4 ... (631 words)

We broke up due to cheating, but now she is cheating with me!

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a result of this, she split up my whole group of friends, as they felt they couldn't get near me without evoking ... (458 words)

Can I be pregnant if the guy cums on my inner thigh and I had jeeans on?

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I be pregnant if the guy cums on my inner thigh and I had jeeans on?... (17 words)

I was planning on asking her out one day, now I have found her number online and want to call her

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6 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a real pickle here. There was a girl from work i really liked. I vowed that the day i would leave this job I would ask her out. And since she worked there for several years, I always assumed I would be the first one to leave. Problem is that she recently and unexepce... (168 words)

He seems to have lost interest in me, but not football

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6 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years now. He is the best man i've ever met. Although for the past year i've felt a little neglected. We live together and we hardly spend time together he is always watchin football. I feel discusting and unwanted, i try to talk to ... (101 words)