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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is meeting his family a milestone in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

- Hi, I would really like to know what you guys think of my situation because I am very confused and just don't know how to figure out what to think. I'm 27 and started dating this guy who's 23 back in October. After a couple of dates (a week later) he told me that he has to p... (796 words)

I'm pregnant by a married man. How do I cope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married with 2 children and recently had an affair with married man who also has two children. It did not last long but the emotional impact ran very deep. I stupidly let myself get pregnant and everything blew up from there. Our spouses both know and we are both ... (271 words)

Anti-Monogamy: why be faithful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What is so great about being true to your girl?I was in a situation where I had 2 girls within my grasp( both are awesome hot might add) and they live so seperately that they would never heve met.Perfect dual relationship conditions( i dnt call it cheating no more). I chose one ... (92 words)

I lashed out my fiance and now I regret it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this sounds stupid, selfish and I shouldn’t feel like this. But today I’ve lashed out on my fiancé for no reason to be honest. Today he has been at his brothers wedding all day, which I was invited to but last minute a couple of weeks ago his family decided that the... (424 words)

I'm 13 and had sex, is that bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i have sex is that bad for me?Please tell me if it is i want to quit.But i cant have kids i dont have a period yet. ... (30 words)

My boyfriend greets his friends first I think he should come to me first

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - in the morning i come to the place were my boyfriend stands but i get there before him so i talk to any of my friends that are there too. when he comes he goes to his friends first sometimes and then goes to me and my friend who is with me goes go talk to him but i feel like i ... (75 words)

Trying to fall pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, im 25 years old, have been on the Cilest pill for 2 and half years, approx. Before going on the pill, my periods, since the age of 13 have been completley irregular, could have a bout 3-4 a year and a couple of years ago I was tested for PCOS and showed signs of having ... (218 words)

I like him but he has a girl, but he still invites me to his gigs!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy,he's a year older than me and i really like him,he's the only boy i have shown an interest in and [as silly as it sounds] he's the only boy i see myself with.Problem is, he has a girlfriend,and he sometimes seems happy with her,yet he has invited me everytime ... (92 words)

My son has been deployed and I worry about what his girl will do while he is gone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age - My son just turned 20 yrs old and has joined the army, while he was in high school he dated a girl called Jess, They dated for 2 years and during their senior year she cheated on him and they broke up. My son was heart broken from the break up and we went through a very dark, ... (216 words)

I have some problems with a housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I did a favor to my cousin and helped a woman he knows when she was in the town where I live. Until she gets situated, or her so boyfriend that she is madley in love with returns from overseas. she is living in my Apt, paying symbolic fee. Whenever my frie... (233 words)

Should I bring it up again? I told him I liked him but no response.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - anyway about a month ago i told this guy in one of my classes i have a crush on him.he never answered me he just walked away. he still talks to me and all but i dont know if i should bring up what i said and if i do so how. should i live it alone and not bring it up and let him ... (68 words)

Unrequited teacher crush has spiralled me into depression!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with my teacher for the past 2 years. Please don't sigh and raise your eyebrows and think "Oh not another pupil-teacher crush, she'll get over it it" and then move on because I desperately need some advice. It did only start out as a pathetic crush b... (333 words)

How do I not let him suck me back in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I just dumped the guy ive been dating for 6 months and ive never been more in love with someone! It started out so good, but after about a month he felt so "cold" He explained that he is kinda cold, and i wouldnt be hearing kind words all the time "OK" i thought, bu... (316 words)

He emotionally hurt me so how do I get over that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - he said no guy will go for me. that I'm sensitive, that he never cared about. me and that he could live without me. he made my cry. it is impossible for me to get over him.i am sensitive. it was just a crush but i thought we were friends. i was so mad. i thought i was over him. ... (101 words)

How should I surprise him when he gets home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend now for 2 and half years, im sitting in alone tonite as hes gone out with all his lad mates, a lads night out... im totally ok with it, we often have our own night, him with the lads, and me with the girls, as well as out together, in together etc ... (223 words)

Christmas/Anniversary gift ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so Christmas is right around the corner and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend. Also two days after Christmas is our anniversary. I want to get him something that he will like but then something that is also romantic and cute. We have been going out for 10 months. He ... (100 words)

What do I do about this online, long distance guy that just wants friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy so much that I'm jealous. :( I've known this guy for a a year and he's helped me through so much, he's like a best mate, the only problem is that he lives in Edinburgh which is 200 miles away from me, a few months ago we started meeting up and I fell in love ... (267 words)

How do I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy, he is from my college, I see him in the cafeteria but other than that I don't know anything about him. He is 100% a shy person and I am kind a shy too. I've been looking at him and I think he noticed me but I'm not sure. I don't think I can approach him, ... (116 words)

How can I help my family through a troubled time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so i know this might sound weird but,my family is not doing so great right now, and everybody knows the economy is bad, but i am trying to think of ways to earn some money to help my family out, but the problem is , Im only 14 and i cant get a job,and my parents wont let ... (147 words)

Would asking her if she has single friends be hurtful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - there is this girl who i got her number, we hung out alot, really hit it off but a couple weeks into hanging out all the time she told me she couldnt see me anymore, only as friends......because she has a boyfriend. She has told me plenty of times that she likes me and is ... (210 words)

My love for my best mate has gone to far!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hope you can help me out here, not only to get over this but also just give your opinion on why this has all happened and what he might feel. Im so depressed! I need help getting over one of my best mates, ive liked him for nearly 2 years however i actually truely fell in l... (1118 words)

Do girls like it when a guy gels his hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a odd question, In general do girls like it better if guys gel their hair,or if they just wear it naturally? guys who gel their hair it may look neater but at the same time im not sure if girls think its a turn off because a guy spends some time on his hair.... (59 words)

I love him but we want different things, please help?

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have recently broken up after 3 years of being together. we still love each other very much and are completely attracted to each other. the problem was that we didn't actually have what i consider a real relationship. when we got together at first we used to... (341 words)

How do I word my Christmas card to him? I want to ask him out on a date.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - "hi there, i somewhat attracted to my fitness instructor. everytime i take his class, he can't seem to take his eyes off me. i'm somewhat shy, but i do stare back at him. the problem is that he has no problem speaking to other women but when it comes to me he doesn't know what ... (210 words)

Do other people get punished during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend have sex, he likes to spank me hard with his belt and he has even stuck a few pins in my bum as we are doing it. Do other people get punished the same way?... (40 words)

I got myself into an awful mess with two guys!

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago me and my boyfriend of 2 and a half years split up. Lets call him Bradley. He is the sort of person who cares very much but doesnt really know how to show it. Because of this I didnt feel loved and I could feel that something missing. I knew I had felt cherishe... (341 words)

Is it normal to not want a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal not to want a bf? Or to even not be attracted to guys? I feel it not normal coz it does feel weird not to like guys... (30 words)

Any penis enlargements that work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Are there any affordable penis enlargement techniques that actually work? thanks... (14 words)

Why does he not want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) age 41-50 - i have been living with this man that i love very much but he works 7 days a week,this leaves him tired and not ever wanting to have sex,i want to ask if that makes a man not ever want to have sex or could it be something else... (49 words)

How do I beat this jealousy monster?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this big jealousy problem and I mea BIG. Its ruining my life. I guess admitting it is the first step to sorting it out but i really need some help and advice on where to go from here. Basically speaking i think jealousy and anxiety were the root cause of why my girlfr... (353 words)

Truly confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey whats up im 21 years old,and have been with my girlfriend who is 18 soon to be 19 for almost 2 years. She is amazing the most perfect, sweet and caring person in the world. We liked each other for years before we finally dated . We fight alot like too much, but we still ... (391 words)

What are some precautions before you have oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I might eat out my girlfriend for the first time. This would be frist time for me doing it and first time for it being done to her. We have already masterbated one another, so we know we want to do this. What would be some helpful hints/precautions?... (48 words)

Have I become her slave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age - Ladyfriend asks me to do favors for her. When we're at my house she wants me to provide cocktails, snacks, movies, clean bathroom, clean bed, etc. But the favors are growing in scope. Now she has me fixing her house,hanging cabinets, fixing electric and plubing systems, and ... (102 words)

How do deal with a friend who's changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the last couple of weeks i think either me or my friend has changed. I just can't be around her for a long time and and she acts immature and mean. I can't say it too her face because everytime I try she say's hasn't. I don't know what to do or how to be her friend anymore ... (106 words)

I like my best friend but don't know if he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. My problem is that I like one of my best guy friends named Larry. I don't know what to do or if he likes me.I mean, me and him talk a lot. and EVERY time we see each other we hug at least once. And sometimes, when I forget to give him a hug, he holds out his arm and ... (126 words)

I could be hurting my friend trying to get over my ex... Please HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, im a gay girl, just out of a year long on off relationship with my best friend. we're hardly talking now and im still in love with her and have to see her everyday in school is killing me. she cheated on me a month ago at a party, and was going out with this guy (shes bi) ... (225 words)

What's the nicest way to reject an Aspergers guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently found out that a fella from my school is in love with me , and he thinks that i have feelings for him back, due to a misunderstanding ( me stairing into the distance; the distance being in the same direction as him). I haven't talked to him very much. But from ... (132 words)

Am I falling out of love with the only guy I've ever loved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I have been crazy in love with for the past 7 months is slowly drifting out of my mind. He is everything that I have ever wanted but for some reason my feelings are getting all screwed up. When me and him first started dating I was the one that was madly in love and... (115 words)

Should I just go ahead and kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a bestfriend, yes shes a girl too. ive known her for many years now. when we were younger we did stuff ( fingered eachother). we're way older now and dont even mention it. back then i wasnt attracted to her but now i am. im bi but no body knows but me and i plan on ... (195 words)

How am I supposed to kiss? I don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and have NEVER had a real kiss. the guy i like is finally single and if he asks me out im going to say yes, the problem is his ex was very experienced and im not. i dont know how to kiss and im so shy. i dont know what to do but i want him to love me and i dont want him ... (94 words)

He's always starting arguments but says its me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Everytime I say something,anything,or make a comment,he always has something to say.He try to start an argument but always saying it's me.It's like he trying to tell me something and push me away...What is it?... (35 words)

He has two completley different personalities!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started dating this guy, I really like him, execpt he seems to have two completley different personalities! When I'm with him in person, he's shy and doesnt like to talk about our relashionship or love. He gets really awkward when I tell him I love him, he just kin... (152 words)

He can't maintain an erection and we've never been able to have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there , i have been seeing a new guy for a couple of months now and he is great but he cant seem to maintain an erection for any length of time , this is upsetting as we have never been able to have intercourse because of this . please help !... (54 words)

B/f says I'm always negative and always nag!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend says I am negative and I always "nag". He gives me everything but no respect(calls me names). We always talk about making it better but it doesn't seem to work.It's just words.I feel like he's cheating and lien but there is no proof.I just want our relationship to ... (66 words)

I'm always in a sexual mood!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright so im a guy and im 15. And i'm always in a sexual mood now a days.And i always find myself horny, or aroused,sometime for no reason at all. Is it normal to be horny all the time? I mean i guess i would say im a sexual person, siunce im feeling thsi way. But ive never ... (194 words)

I broke up with him knowing it was for the best, but I really hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive done it ive broken up with the man i love and am totally n love with i know its 4 the best but i am so hurt inside. how do i keep moving forward is this pain ever gonna stop i just keep thinking bout it and crying what am i gonna do now????please give me some advice... (59 words)

He wouldn't want to be with me if he knew about my debt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - theres a guy i really like but i have a major problem i know he likes me and theres the possibility we might start dating but im very scared because my previous ex left me in serious financial trouble and although im sorting it i would be mortified if this new guy ever knew. im... (99 words)

He calls me his best mate but we sleep together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, Im still sleeping with my ex bf, we been split up a year october just gone and since may we have been sleeping together, we have to do it in the cars so no one will see us, And it seems o be happening more and more recently, But whats begining to get to my mind... (156 words)

He's been married for 8 months, why is he dredging up our past now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex emailed me to tell me he had got married-there had been a lot of friction due to the split so i was happy to clear the air with him-he said he wanted to stay friends the only thing was i was emailing him andhe wasnt replying til 2 in the morning and was really weird in... (227 words)

Nice restaurants, drugs and wild sex..not a great way to start!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been seeing this guy I met in a bar for a couple of months. Our relationship had been about excess, nice restaurants, drugs and wild sex (we slept together on the first night.) At first he pursued me but then it seemed like he slightly made less effort. He was still up ... (195 words)

My ex is dating my friend and it makes me jealous!

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me about a month ago. He said he didn't want a girlfriend anymore, I was so sad and cried myself to sleep for about 2 weeks. Then I met this incredible guy! We started talking and I fell hard for him! We are now dating and its going ... (112 words)

He keeps me hanging on, surely this means he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all i need a male perspective pls, i have been friends with a bloke for bout 6 years i always thawt he was amazing but he is in a relationship, so i never let on, about 2 years ago i found him looking at me alot and doing things that were sweet he was being very good to ... (203 words)

The girl I like is already taken, where can I find another like her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello this is my first time here =) Well i am a cool guy, have friends(popular in school), good looking, and kinda profound, but Ive never had a girlfriend or had sex, last girl i tried to get, well she was 1 year older,i talked to her and all was nice, we even have fun pl... (329 words)

Sex before marriage, is it so wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20-year-old virgin and I'm starting to think that I might just possibly be ready for sex...I'm not sure, but I'm also very nervous. I'm not Christian, but I grew-up in a mainly Christian household and when it comes to premarital sex-"the fear of God" has been embedded ... (60 words)

He never has time for ME!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im fed up with him i honesly in my mind dont wanna go thru the drama anymore but my heart wont let me end it i dont know know how 2 just leave him alone please someone help me n my dilemma.he doesnt abuse me in any kind of way he just doesnt have any time everything else is ... (126 words)

My step daughter is flirting with me, making me all hot and bothered

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) age - I am 47 years old and after being divorced for almost ten years I remarried a women who has a 18 year old daughter. She is college now but when she comes home she flirts with me. My sex life with my wife has become almost non exsistant and she rarely even acknowledges that I am ... (207 words)

Should I knock on his door or just leave well enough alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, hi everyone, im kinda really wanting to do this but not sure if its going 2 work or not, I was kinda seeing this guy and we stoped talking, he didnt reply 2 any of my text messeges or answer tho phone to me, But my problam is i cant stop thinking about him, and ... (211 words)

Is there something wrong or am I being OTT?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and recently have been a bit worried about myself, and my personality I suppose. I've always had traces of low-confidence, and I've not had an easy life - I've had plenty of ups and downs and my life is far from perfect but I feel gradually, thinks are getting wors... (1619 words)

B/f's parents are WAY TOO overprotective! How do we deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, here's the deal. My boyfriend's parents are way too overprotective. So much it drives me and him crazy. He's going to turn 19 in a couple of months, and yet they don't let him stay out longer than 12 am. We went to a party once and everyone, I mean everyone, was st... (409 words)

Won't see him for over a week, hope the feelings don't change

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - it is now the christmas holidays and i wont see my boyfriend for over a week,, we can keep in contact by texting but i hope things wont have changed after not seeing eachother for this lentgh of time. what can i do to stop this from happening? x... (54 words)

2 guys interested, I only want one of them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - *Names have been changed. A friend of mine had a party last weekend. My best friend and I went together and she knew this guy who would be going, so we found him sat with a band that would be playing later on in the night. Because she was friends with him we choose to pretty... (537 words)

I'm not a control freak ....... am I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok its me again lol sorry about this!! its boy issues yet again!! homestly i havent got a clue when it comes to men! ok so heres my problem, i met my bf through friend who i were really close to and he was close to them to but i was mainly better friend with the girls and th... (206 words)

I'm lost and scared about my own feelings

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I tried searching for answers or useful information online, couldn't really find it, and so I came here. It's a long distance relationship, and we're going to meet in a week! After 4 months apart. Now at this point I feel that I should in all reality be as happy as ever. B... (383 words)

Am I being too judgemental about his past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over one year and he loves and adores me and is very loyal. He has had many girlfriends before me, mostly lasting only 3 months. I feel comfortable with this except the one he had before he met me, which only lasted 3 months before s... (254 words)

My friends wont take my advice and its starting to make me angry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. I've spent the last 3 years helping my friends when they have a problem, reasuring them and making them smile. I try my best. And when I'm upset I hope for someone to be there for me aswell. Lately all my friends are going through a hard time, including me. And it's all a ... (418 words)

He says he isnt interested in me so how come he keeps hugging me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so there is a guys that i just met at the beginning of the school year and i thought he was really weird but then after i broke up with my boyfriend of the time the guy started to get a little closer to me and i started to like him, after a while i confessed and he just ... (245 words)

I want to know how to find another guy who will take things slowly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i just broke up. He was the guy i lost my virginity to, and I only had sex with him because he made me feel comfortable and didnt pressure me to do it. This was a while ago when i was younger, now i'm in college where the only thing guys think about is sex and ... (121 words)

I am pregnant to my step brother and don't know where to turn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was looking for advice and found this site. Ill try and make this short. I had a bf for 8 months he was ok at first and we started having sex mostly because didnt want him to cheat after awhile it seemed like thats all he wanted me around for eventually i found out he was ... (589 words)

She's not ready for a relationship yet. Should I keep the door open or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey there, Met this girl at work and we started seeing each other socially. I made clear to her after our second official date that I wasn't interested in being her friend and that instead, I was interested in her romantically. We kept seeing each other for lunches/co... (832 words)

Which do girls prefer - virbrator or penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, well im 16 and ive been scared recently because my girlfriend got a vibrator, and im afraid it will replace foreplay, and my actual penis. im about average size (maybe smaller) and im still a virgin and leading towards sex. But im worried that since my girlfriend is using ... (96 words)

Should I take a chance and pursue the high school jock?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

19 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay junior in high school and i have a huge crush on this senior guy in one of my classes. anyways... i started liking this guy when i noticed him more in my class. he is soo cool and sooo nice :) ive only talked to him about twice but it wasnt like a conversatio... (262 words)

Is it normal not to have friends?

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19 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to not have friends I think im a normal decent person but i guess not because kno one likes me I have no friends i tell people that i have no friends and they dont believe me but its true i never go to parties or hang out i dont kno any one. everyone is alwa... (318 words)

I think my boyfriend is hinting about having sex, but I don't think I'm ready

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I hung out with my boyfriend and we got on to the topic of sex. We weren't even talking about anything like that before, but he randomly started the topic. He said that like everyone has done it from his school. I think that he was hinting that we should have sex. I do ... (95 words)

I love my cousin but she hates me

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19 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - HI My problem is Im inlove with my cousin. shes smart and beutiful and every since the first time i saw her ive been in love with her. im three yrs older i saw her for the first time when she was about 7 and as she grew she got so beautiful. Shes my cousin so i know we cant h... (311 words)

Did I go too far in sending the second email?

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19 December 2009 (F)

age - I'm going to ask your indulgence in posting this question since I had spoken of it a while back. I visit London twice a year to see family and friends. I go to a local Church of England service when there. In October I noticed a man (also English) who I think had started ... (727 words)

How do I get her to not hate me anymore?

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19 December 2009 (M)

age - theres this girl whose 12 and i am 13, well me and here use to get along real well like talked all night for days we even ran of thing to talk about(this was in the summer). we had a few fights and a wierd situation after i sayed i liked her, she said she would dump her ... (235 words)

What do guys look for in potential girlfriends?

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and a freshman in high school. I have a lot of guy and girl friends but no boyfriend and lately I have been questioning myself. Three of my closest friends recently got boyfriends and they are always talking about them. I feel so left out, lonely, ugly, and worthless. I ... (154 words)

Am I destined to be a loser forever?

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - sorry its long I am a quieter gay female in my mid-late 30s, have a very small circle of straight friends who i see occasioanally, my closest friend is the only one who knows im gay, which is fine, shes 150% straight but Ok with me being not. i see her quite a bit and... (506 words)

Why am I bleeding from sex?

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why am I bleeding from my clit? I had sex about 4-5 days ago and today it started burning and hurting really bad down there so whaen I went to the bathroom to check I saw I was bleeding from the clit, it was a lil bit of blood but it was still very painful....... (55 words)

Am I just being paranoid or could he like me?

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19 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I think I like my close friend romantically... he's a male, I hasten to add. We attended the same college last year and spend a lot of time together when we didn't have lessons; he was little reclusive and although he associated with the popular crowd, he didn't like them. I ... (1521 words)

What to do about our break up?

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what do i do me and my boyfriend broke up we were supposed to get engaged this christmas. he though i was pregnant but i am not. i though i was but i was wrong so now i know i am not i am going on the pill he is mad because he wants a baby.but he has o job or money . i told him ... (87 words)

I broke it off but am now having second thoughts!

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hola... About a week-and-a-half ago, I gave my boyfriend a letter telling him that I think we should break up. The problem is, though, the more I think about it, I don't really think that I want to...I just kinda wanted to get some things off my chest about some prollems we... (124 words)

I'm falling in love with my husband's brother

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my husbands brother moved in with us after his divorce. he had no where to stay so i agreed to let him stay with us. i spent some time with him, while my husband was at work. I got to know him better, and acually got close with him, i find myself falling for him. he is ... (82 words)

I broke up with him, but still see us being married some time in the future

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago just to cool things off in our senior year and to give each of us a chance to focus on colleges and spend time with friends (we go to different schools and have different friends) and to maybe start seeing other people before finishing ... (155 words)

Married a few months only and husband puts me down

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i just got married a few months back and my husband was very kind to me then. but know we just had our first son and he know 5 months of age. my husband makes me feel real bad. he makes bad remarks about my weight. i gained fifty pounds with the pregnancy. all my husband can ... (136 words)

I wonder how people "know" when they meet the person they'll marry for the first time

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - You hear so many people say, when you meet the one "you just know" and "I knew I would marry him". How many people feel this strongly on a first meeting? Did you know this would be the man you would marry when you first met him? ... (57 words)

I feel pathetic coming to the internet for advice but here is my story!

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19 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - hi... i feel really retarded and pathetic for coming to the internet for help but i honestly dont know what else to do. i guess i should start by saying im 19 and ive been "in love" with my best (guy) friend since my sophomore year of high school. we met freshman year an... (477 words)

I told a guy I liked him, but he only said "okay"

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked a guy at my school since this summer (he is smart and nerdy and funny and perverted and weird and philosophical). I had a budding friendship with him and suddenly found myself ridiculously attracted to him. We spent the whole first term talking and hanging out at ... (344 words)

My teacher is such a special guy, I am in love with him!

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my teacher. I know this sounds cliche, ridiculous, like a "crush" if you will, but from the bottom of my heart, I feel this. He's tall, charming, witty and hilarious. He's such a happy person and brightens everyone's day. I can't make eye contact with him ... (268 words)

He is over it, but I want more reaction from him

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! My ex and I broke up in September because I was immature. Lately though, I've been missing the conversations we used to have, and I miss talking to him. We haven't really talked since we broke up, and when I asked for forgiveness, he said that there was nothing to f... (129 words)

How much time do husbands and fathers spend with their families on average?

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19 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to know the average time a husband/live in boyfriend (other than those who work away from home)spends with his family. Like on a daily basis, how many hours does he spend at home and really "being there" and not doing something else (i.e., on the computer/phone, ... (64 words)

Are my work colleagues judging me?

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19 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Shyness has always been a big problem for me and recently I've noticed a lot of girls staring at me. There is a girl who sits over the other side of the office who Im sure fancies me, staring alot. A while back she started walking past and she said hello a couple of times when ... (279 words)

My love for him grew steadily, but sometimes I miss the feeling of wild mad passion

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19 December 2009 (F)

- I love my boyfriend but I feel that I am not in love with him. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were teenagers although we did lose touch for a few years, I am now 28 and he is 27. I was absolutely head over heels in love with my ex boyfriend around 3 and a h... (299 words)

My relationship is losing it's Spark!

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19 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the last 6 months now and up until 3 weeks ago everything has been great. But lately i have not been getting turned on as much and during sex i often fantasize about something other than him. I am not cheating on him and i dont ... (125 words)