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writes:Hey, I just thought I’d write in because I am in need of some help over a boy. I mean it’s pretty weird because I don’t normally stress about boys much but this time it’s different and I am a bit confused. I’m 16 and in my last year at high school the same as this boy (lee), and after recently moving we both live in the same village. I got talking to him at a party about 2 months ago where he took my number . Afterwards I told my friend (jess) I thought he was alright and she happens to be best friends with his best friend (Sam). She was round at Sam's house and lee was there and she dropped it in conversation i though he was fit! And he seemed shocked and kept questioning her about me, because he doesn’t really get much attention from girls. The weekend following he text me asking if I was with my friend jess and Sam, and lee came round to jess’s house and we watched a film and stuff, and did the same the following night. Jess said it was obvious he liked me, and we were talking lots. We have done this for the next 3 weekends and the lads are always the ones to organize it we do go along with I and just do the same watching films getting to know each other, but we’re never alone, and as soon as I leave the room lee always asks jess questions about me. I mean we always say hi to each other at school but don’t really bump into each other a lot. The last weekend it was the first time I wasn’t available and jess was at the pub with Sam and his mum and dad and her mum and dad. Lee turned up and Sam and him were asking where I was and what time I would be home, who I was with etc but I was at a presentation evening so could not make it. They got talking about me and I really don’t want to sound big headed. Lee and Sam said I was pretty and had a good body (because I am a horse rider and play lots of sports and performing arts etc) and described me as one of the Hottest girls in our year. It had become kind of common knowledge by now that we both liked each other. So jess asked him so would you ever get with her, and he said yes I would but she`s a bit weird, but I don’t know what he meant by this. Afterwards Sam told jess that lee said I am a bit too outspoken, which is true because I am confident and tell people what I think. However lee doesn’t text me and when he does its always like `are you at jess etc’ and he doesn’t chat on FB either. I really don’t know what to do because I think I like him but if he doesn’t like me that’s fine we can just be mates. I’m just worried my ex who I went out with seriously for 10 months, who I split with because he was been a **** is putting him off because lee always asks questions about him because they are mates and my ex still has told he is not over me but he knows I would never consider going back. I think maybe lee thinks it could be quite awkward because we all live in the same village and he has never really had a proper GF but I think it would be fine, but nothings moving forwards(: HELP WHAT DO I DO?, ANY SUGGESTIONS …(btw these are not their real names ha just in case they happen to read this and I will sound like a complete Geek.
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reader, Smile (: +, writes (8 December 2009):
Smile (: is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks (: Yes i suppose your right! and for him fancying my freind, i really dont think he does, but i understand how it may seem that way from what i have written. But he will only go round if im there and both lads waite until im at hers until they come,sounds harsh but true( except the other weekend in the pub) I mean he said i was wierd but never said how that was his freid, in which i dont know to believe as he may be benefiting himself by saying that if you know what i mean! hmm yes it just makes me wonder why he always wants to know things about me and my ex and tries to compare himself?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 December 2009):
I have a feeling that 'Lee' actually fancies your friend Jess, from what you've written. He seems to always be where she is, rather than where you are.
As for calling you weird, I guess that kind of sums up his maturity about women really. He might be a nice guy, but it sounds like his lack of experience has left him somewhat in the dark over what to do and say. And let's face it, Lee's not asking you questions, he's asking you ex questions, and no doubt your ex will be quick to point out the things that went wrong.
All I can say is if you want to try and go out with him, you need to ask him how he feels to his face. But to me, from what you've said, I don't think he's as interested as you'd like to think. So be brave and try to move on.
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