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male
age
30-35,
*hazlin
writes:I just finished school this year and i have never had a girlfriend. I'm not popular and i don't play any sports. I'm not very chatty. I prefer to be alone and be depressed. Why can't i find someone that can love me? I'm desperate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): omg Women run from desperate guys.They want a hero to save them.
Even when you are not desperate some think you are.I would suggest working out in a gym.Get that body looking good.It will boost your self confidence.If you have money hire a dating coach to teach you.There is so much to learn about the basics.Most everything we learned about women was wrong.Please don't "just be yourself" as you are now.Transform yourself to be your ideal self.Get a vision for it.Then you will attract women.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): hey, don't worry
life is to enjoy, So enjoy nomatter what
you wil fine a good girl at the right time.
just be happy.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): hey, please don't be sad,
life is very short to be depressed.
Turst me, one day, at the right time, you will
find the love of your life. So don't waste your good life
over depressing life. Be your self and make people like
you for who you are.
Friend(:)
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): Q Why can't i find someone that can love me? I'm desperate.
A I prefer to be alone and be depressed.
You MUST change your behavior because it won't ever happen without you. You must prefer to be gregarious and optimistic, at least until you meet THAT girl you're looking for.
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reader, projectwatever  +, writes (9 December 2009):
i agree with the first person try dating sites i used to be like that and then i met more people out of my range that liked me and i liked them and before you know it u'll be off to a good start people on the internet even if it's not true to them, they tell you, you are attractive and you believe so do believe it and it will boost ur ego and try working out and thinking about talkents that you have tha tcould attract others or just somethijng that makes you happy in general don't be depressed because you can't get the time you wasted back but every second is a second chance to make it better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): A good way to get used to interacting and talking with women is on dating sites. YOu might want to consider that to sharpen your skills. You will be just fine!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): Try to find something that you can be passionate about like sports,hobbies anything that can increases your enthusiasm about life. Try working out, that helps to beat the depression and before you know it you will be feeling more confident and attracting some girls. Be yourself but broaden you horizons to become a more interesting man. I hope you do not settle for wanting to be alone. You are young and finding yourself. There are things you can do to feel better. There is no need to be desperate, there is someone in the world for everybody! Can you talk to your parents?
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female
reader, scrdofyou +, writes (9 December 2009):
 aw sweety its okay, we all go through this! find something that interests you! go to the park, mall, etc, somewhere you can meet people!!
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