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Is he just flirting with me the way he does with other girls or does he REALLY have feelings for me?

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Question - (8 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Heya :)

When ever I write on here, i get answers that I don't understand.. So i have decided to tell you everything.

There is this boy in the same year, same form. We have been so close for about 1 year and a half now. My very strong feelings for him started to develop about 1 year ago when we just became close and closer every day. We went on a school trip and we held hands all morning while walking around the theme park. Earlier this year.. we had a fall out that lasted about a month because I said he changed..

The truth is I liked him all along but i guess I was just jealous of other girls he flirted with. Recently, there is this girl who he says he is friends with but she wants all the boys. She seems really nice but she is always talking to him. I told him I liked him yesterday and he seemed pleased but this morning when i walked in to school he was talking to her and holding hands a little. By 3rd period, i thought it was really awkward between us and slipped him a note which read 'what i told you shouldnt make our friendship awkward' but at lunch I offered to help him with his homework in the computer room. It was just me and him working with other people in lower years around us. We seemed like a proper couple.. talking about our life stories and having a joke around. We even teased each other while we had a go at a game someone else was playing and I said i wanted him to lose so i could brag about it. And he won :) By form time we were talking even more. And last period, we were touching each others legs underneath the table and laughing. Got told off as well by the teacher.

He even said 'I love you' but always says it to me.. i don't know if he sees me as just a friend. He hasn't mentioned what i told him yesterday at all. But this afternoon we have had a lot of fun. Does he like me? Or is he just flirting like he does with the other girl? Please help me, im so confused.x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

i think that u just need to see how things go just keep doing wat ur doing and c where it goes i go thru tht all the time

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2009):

If he's holding the other girls hand but touching you, then he;s just flirting. He's a young guy, still trying to find out who he is, not probably not mature enough to understand fully what he's getting into. I think he's a friend, but I don't think anything else at this time if he is behaving like this with other girls.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

Act cool - then you will get your answer!! lots of luck and love. Natx

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