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writes:I've falling in love with a guy I hardly know. He works for his families business and is a f/t teacher. I am getting really close to his sisters and his mum likes me a lot.When at the family businessI can tell he is always looking at me and me at him. I feelhis mum has oicked up on this.. I felt his sister was trying to set me up indirectly.i have made friends with his sister on facebook. He too is on their but I do not want to make the first move. I would like to get to know him better but do not want to appear as thoug I am throwing myself at him.He is a single parent like me. I have not heard his sister say anyting about a girlfriend of his.I cant think how to make the move or what to do to move things on.Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi There
Thanks for your response. This guy is a really great guy. He brought up his twins with the help of his family. He teaches and works voluntarily with young black boys in order to keep them on the straight and narrow.
I have been in a relationship with someone I have know 26 years and togheter for the past 9 and my youngest child is his but he appears to gone off me and I have not seen him for weeks. Once since our holiday in JA where he spent 1 1/2 days with us. that holiday was to try and sort out our relationship and all he did was have a go at me - obviously he had gone off me. I must admit I have been trying to move on my self by joing single clubs with social events but find it hard to meet people. the best way for me is via a place I go regular and through people just as music as I have done in the pass and obvilusly my hairdressers now.
I will be going there again next weekend so plan to move things on a bit. I can not bear xmas and it would be nic eto have someone to think about.
I will keep you updated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): If you are friends of his sisters then the next time you see them in person, ask about their brother and ask if he has a girlfriend, and then say oh really, I think he is really nice or cute or handsome, some complimentary adjective. You have to be a little bold if you want to let a guy know you are interested, and sisters being sisters will more than likely tell him you asked that question.
Then when you see him looking at you, what you are supposed to do is look at him and smile big and try to hold his gaze a little longer than a second, then the guy knows you are approachable.
Also, you are setting yourself up here for a lot of nerves by saying to yourself that you are falling in love with him, you said you don't know him, so you are not falling in love, but you are in lust and you are infatuated, so be careful of building him up to be the man you want him to be or you will miss any cues or red flags that he may not be such a great guy...and you are psyching yourself out of just being able to act normally and meet him.
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