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writes:I didn't meet my first love until I was 23. Now, after 3 years, loss of parents, unemployment, failed pregnancies, and the life that can happen in three years, it's over. I don't know how to deal with this pain. I never knew how much it could hurt. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Male20  +, writes (8 December 2009):
first of all you need to know your not alone when feeling this pain, i split up with my first love and i was in pieces.
Now i imainge you are starting to think of all the good times etc to make yourself feel worse.
I understand you two will have been through alot together and it sounds like you had a very close relationship.
However you should firstly try calm yourself down, your brain is probably all over the place and you are struggling to come to terms with what has happened.
You must cry and get it all out of your system otherwise it will only rise later on.
The relationship wil have ended for a reason.
Use this time to concentrate on yourself once you have got the upset out of your system.
Its a horrible time and can be difficult to understand what im saying but this time should be about you now.
Concentrate on yourself and making yourself an even better person than you already are.
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