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writes:during band camp she said i didnt see her enough . the problem in this is im sax section so i dont hav much time . she has plenty of time to see me while im working but she says i should go to her. plz give me advice on what to tell her Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 December 2009):
Well you both need to compromise. She could come to see you sometimes, you need to go see her sometimes. And I would go to her, because she is warning you she is feeling neglected and wants some of your attention, time and bother, even though she hasn't said that. I'll tell you that though your bad is important, you do need to make some time for her, or you'll lose her. She's asking you to come to her, because she wants you to prove she's worth the bother. So prove it and go see her. Then tell her that though you understand she wants you to see her, it would be lovely if she could join you sometimes too. that way both of you are putting in effort. But do go see her, she's feeling a bit like second best.
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