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*9queen
writes:i really like this boy, but the problem is that the other month i rejected him because i have some family issues and a boyfriend was the last of issues, but i let him down really badly. i want some tip on how to get talking to him again, so basically some flirting tips to get him running after me. thanks all xxxx
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (10 December 2009):
Sometimes we may get the wrong end of things like you say, because we're reading a posted questions that YOU wrote. So it's not everyone else, it's how you asked the question. If you were more detailed about your question instead of writing two sentences then we probably would have understood more. That would have saved you time by not having to re-ask your question with the details and you probably would have gotten better answers. Makes sense, right? I'm not trying to be rude here, but I just think it's rude to criticize when people take time to respond to your question and then you don't like it when it's really not our fault.
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reader, 19queen +, writes (10 December 2009):
19queen is verified as being by the original poster of the question i didnt actually mean it coz i wanted his attentoin again, and i did tell him why i rejected him, and we are now talking a little more. but i just wanted some general tips on what guys like and things, god you lot always get the wrong end of things.!
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (8 December 2009):
 I agree with Pinktopaz, don't play games. Little flirting games can be fun under some circumstances but in this case you already turned him down and dissapointed him. You are looking for a tactic to make it up not play games. Just tell him how you feel, I'm sure this tactic will be much appreciated by him. Good luck!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (8 December 2009):
Essentially, you hurt this guy and now you want to play games with him? That's still not very nice. Just be sure that you really are interested in him and not just wanting him to chase you around because he lost interest and now you want his attention again.
I agree with CaringGuy, and you should just talk to him. Tell him what happened and apologize for it; then go from there. It's better to be mature about things than resort to childish games.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Hiya. If someone let me down very badly, a few flirting tips wouldnt get me running around doing tricks for a biscuit! Think the best thing you can do is tell him what happened and make a heartfelt apology. That might work better than flirting with him, cos he may just think youre barmy, one minute letting him down and the next trying to flirt again. Men like honesty just as much as we do. They like to know where they stand, so tell him properly x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 December 2009):
He isn't going to run around after you, because you hurt him (I'm sure you didn't mean to), and he will think you're leading him on. If you want him, you now have to go to him. I think the best thing you can do is just be honest about the problems you were having (you don't need to go into detail), and that you're sorry you hurt him and would really like to start again and get to know him. but please don't make the mistake of getting him to run after you, because he might think you're just leading him on again and will hurt him. You have to go after him. Be brave, and all the best :)
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