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*iccanWonder
writes:Right.There's this guy who i met last year, and he is OBSESSED with me! I've tried to get him to stop texting me, as im with someone i love very much. He keeps saying he loves me, then when i say i dont feel the same he calls me horrible things.He's 18, and im 14. I dont know what to do!How can i get him to leave me alone??Please help! :(
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (12 December 2009):
WiccanWonder is verified as being by the original poster of the question it's been going since like... march. I dont know how to block his number. i dont have all the texts anymore... Next time he texts me i'll say my dad saw the texts. thanks guys x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): You can block his number on your phone- it's not that difficult !
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 December 2009):
You tell him that if you EVER hear from him again you will go to the police.
18 year old men are not allowed to stalk anyone... LET ALONE an underage girl.
If you get any more texts or anything after that then please talk to a teacher or parent or someone else's mum.
This is serious and you can't feel awkward when you could be in danger. This guy sounds like a psycho and if he was doing it to me I would get the police onto him. Don't be afraid of standing up for yourself.
Good Luck! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Tell him you dont want to talk to him anymore, at all. Or change your number as said by Degrassi.
Love,
Lilly
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Well hun I would say this...
1. block his number
2. change your number
3. tell him that your dad saw the text as said by Angzw
4. tell him in a text 'stop texting me'
5. dont text him back at all
You could do one, some, or all of these? Its completly up to you.
Good luck!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (8 December 2009):
Send him the following text: "my father went thru my phone and has seen your text messages and he has said he wants to report you to the police because I am underage. Its out of my hands and I don't think I can stop him". You will never hear from him again.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (8 December 2009):
 If you really do not wish for this person to make further contact with you, block his number from your phone. If you don't know how to do that, call your phone-provider for instructions. If he persists in phoning you then the bill-payer can contact British Telecom, or whoever the phone company is to ask for help. They can block numbers and issue a written warning to the person if it is a serious matter as it is illegal to persistently communicate with a person against their wishes. Tell your parents about this man. He is 18 years of age with an interest in a 14 year old girl. If he is looking for a sexual relationship with you then he is a dangerous individual who needs to be known to the authorities. He sounds as if he is psychologically inadequate - he persists with you despite rejection, he lacks interest in older women nearer his own age. It is very important that you don't lead him on, and do not answer his messages at all. Even negative attention is 'good' for people with obsessive personality traits. Please tell your family - maybe you have an older brother or father who can 'have a word'.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Tell your parents.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 December 2009):
If he's saying horrible things, then that's abuse. And since you're not 16 (the legal age of consent) and he's 18, I'm sure if you keep all the texts you can take them to the police for harassment if he doesn't stop. You're not a horrible girl, but he is a pretty dangerous guy if he's acting like this. So make sure you keep all his texts as proof. Other than that, totally ignore him. Don't respond to him in any way, or he will continue. Also make your parents aware of what is happening to you, so they can help.
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