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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend and my friend are fighting. Neither will tell me why...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half, we see each other as much as possible but it's a LD relationship at the moment. He did get drunk and cheated once before therefore I'm always worried. Well while online I told a mutual friend of ours that we ... (237 words)

My girlfriend likes rough sex. How do I go about discussing this with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, im Actually 16, i put the wrong age (duh) lol anyhoo. ive ben with my girlfriend since i was 9, it was actually more like friends who became closer overtime, anyhoo im 16 now, and shes 22, im not sure if id call this a problem or not, its more like restrain. anyhoo i lost ... (281 words)

What should I do about not having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I've been going out with a girl about a year. I love her. alot. We started having sex after 8 months, it was the first time for both of us. But we havent had sex in the last two months, and while at first I was ok with this, I think subconsciously I'm starting to feel ... (80 words)

He lied, I wasn't his first. Should that matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my fiance have been together for 10 years, I was 14 when we started him 18. Well when we first started he had told me he wasn't a virgin and had sex with his girlfriend before me, but then after we had sex he said he was lying. Off an on for years he's hinted that ... (261 words)

I like him. Do what others think about his looks matter?

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I kind of like this boy and some of my friends are telling me that he is ugly but others think he is goodlooking. I am really confused what do you think? http://s934.photobucket.com/albums/ad181/moulson26/?action=view and current=okkkkkk.jpg... (42 words)

Am I reading into things about my teacher liking me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yeah, it's another one of those 'does my teacher like me' questions, but I'd like some genuine, sincere answers please. Please don't tell me whether you think it's wrong and that nothing can happen, I'm already aware of this and I'm not trying to make anything happen. I would ... (766 words)

One day he talks to me and the next he ignores me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One day he smiles and talks to me, the next day he ignores me. What could it be? About a year ago I noticed this guy in the street, he noticed me too and we smiled at each other. This went on for a while. Then I bumped into him in a coffee shop a while later and we mad... (319 words)

Another teacher crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all, this may sound insane i have a huge huge crush over a teacher. my math teacher from 1st year secondary. Im a girl first of all she is aswell. My sexuality isnt defined yet. Im 14 yrs shes 26yrs. I dont kno what i can do im in love with her over 1 yr now shes drivi... (260 words)

Any ideas on how to spice up a stale sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a bit of a stale sex life at present, we're going to try experimenting this weekend but could do with some ideas as what to do? Anything interesting you've tried? anything fun? We're pretty open, but have limited access to certain things as he's in uni ... (76 words)

How do I supress my feelings towards the same sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the past few months i've forgotten slightly about my sexual orientation. I've been making plenty of friends, both male and female. However, despite my good friendship with one guy, it just hit me today that I might have some attachment to him. I have decided, as a result, ... (162 words)

16, and I want to have sex! Who should I do it with, random guy or close friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16, and i feel like im ready to have sex. i dont want to do it with some random guy, but would it be better if i did it with a close friend who is also ready??? (: thanks in advance x... (46 words)

Does anyone else feel down for being a virgin? I'm 23.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel down that I haven't had a girlfriend or intimacy in a while. I've made out with a few girls, but haven't gone all the way with one. I remember a few years back people teased me about this, and I just went nuts on them. I'm still a 23 yr old virgin. I get down ... (79 words)

He shouldn't be in my heart so how do I get him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need to know how to get someone out of my heart that should not be there. I have been married for 18 years. My husband is wonderful and I never imagined I would find myself feeling the way I do about another. As I have tried to analyze this I have figured it to be boredom... (497 words)

I need to move on even though I love him. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I just cannot move on....Got dumped 4 months ago but he still calls me nearly daily and we see each other so its like it always was but without the sex! Then I get confusing signals like he still cares and if pushed he reminds me we're just friends and I should move on and he's ... (153 words)

He is engaged, but wants to be with me. My friend saw him looking at engagement rings, and now he says he has something to tell me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Gaaaaaaaaah! I'm going quite mad here, so someone PLEAASE help before I go do a Britney! Right then, the basics; I'm twenty six (ignore the age bracket, I clicked the wrong thing when I signed up, how clever am I??) and I'm an archaeologist, which finds me travelling all o... (685 words)

How do I stop seeing my ex when my feelings for him won't die?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex boyfriend because he was a cheater and my family did not approve of him because of what he was doing. So I jumped into a relationship to get over him but I was never over him. I have been with my current boyfriend going on 5years and we have two beautiful ... (276 words)

I keep getting sex texts from someone I don't know! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am recieving texts from someone i dont know, telling me to meet them at the bus stop and other things. They are mostly really explicit things involving sex, but i am not sure what to do. Help?... (40 words)

Forced to leave him but could he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My mother dont like me talking 2 boys, but 1yr back i had a bf but in 2months my family came 2 know abt it, so i was emotionally forced by my mom 2 leave him. I told him my prob nd broke up now its been 1yr 6months nd i stil lik him, few months back we talked he said he stil ... (99 words)

How do I transform into a girl boys love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, Im 13 and in High school. I feel that anything I do, it doesn't make me popular and i want to be popular with boys aswell. After 2 years at HS, i feel it is too late. I wouldnt say Im ugly and I wouldnt say Im big headed... I just speak my mind. What could I do, shall i ... (87 words)

I want to forgive my ex, but my online guy says he's a total jerk. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with my bf Ryan since we were like 5 yrs old. He asked me out on my first date a few days after my 16th bday and we have been together ever since. (WE ARE BOTH 20 NOW). We had a great relationship and just as much as best friends as we are bf and gf. About ... (432 words)

My wife cheated and left me twice, and I have a GF who is hurt because I'm still married... what should I do??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Please I need help (tears). I'm shaking and crying writing this letter. Reader....Please take time to read this if you can. I have been married for 16 years. My wife is very controlling and is very jealous of me. A few years ago I was into modeling. I am a writer and I build ... (1669 words)

Questions about culture, age difference, and dominance in my current relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A connumdrum. I am 40 he is 24. We fell in love and then out of love, and now we are having a relationship. It has been nearly a year now and we are still together. At 24, he comforts me, supports me mentally (other, i get from my work)he satisfies me, but we both have not been ... (658 words)

My husband left me, I started dating and now my ex wants me back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 10 years decided to leave me and our two children who are still under 10 years old, for another woman about 6 months ago. My world was turned upside down. I did every thing in my power to make him stay. He wouldn't give me the time of day. I feel like I died with ... (212 words)

Does every marriage go bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - What are the chances for a marriage going bad? Does every marriage goes bad, except the religious, like Christian marriages? It's not the same, that staying together for any cost, or love each other for real.. Is it very rare,when people truly are in love for a life time? BUT... (98 words)

I need an opinion about what he wrote. (Short question!)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear friends, I have come here in the past for your much needed advice and you have been so wonderful and thoughtful to respond each time. My question is in part short, it's something the man in my life emailed me a few days ago. This man wants to marry me as he has said s... (281 words)

Should I give her another chance and play this stupid role forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i knows it's a little long, i really want a different point of view. thanks in advance... i love this woman and her son (not mine) w/ all my heart. all my friends and my mother tell me to stay away from her. i try to stay away and its hard, because i really do love her. ... (370 words)

Does anyone know the fastest way to get in shape?

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4 December 2009 (F) age - Does anyone know the fastest way to get in shape?please im desperate,my 25 anniversary is coming up ? I need to get in shape in just a couple months and was wondering if you had any diet and exercise ideas that are cheap and give results? please give me some ideas And also ... (69 words)

My parents are looking for another man for me, my guy he hasn't told his parents, and I am thinking of ending the relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Wanted to know i am working i hve boyfriend i have spoke to my parents abt our relationship but my parents are against our relationship and they r looking for another guy for me and the guy whom i love is not telling any thing to his parents i have a talk with him about it he ... (84 words)

What can I do to make him pay more attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What can I do to make him pay more attention? I've been in a relationship thats coming upto 3 years!! My bf's completely changed, doesn't make an effort with me, doesn't make time for me but when I suggest we should break up he can't say no, but the problem is I just cant l... (103 words)

My mother is jealous and hurt because she thinks she's not involved enough with planning my wedding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting married soon. And preparing for the wedding. Nothing has been really stressfull for me yet because it is a small wedding. My mother is upset at me because she says that I am not sharing anything with her and that when a daughter usually gets married she shares ... (141 words)

She broke up with me. I'm unsure of the next move.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I am 33. She is 35. About a year ago she went through a period of being more distant than normal, but it came down to her needing to take more space for herself, which I welcomed. It passed and we were completely in love ... (813 words)

Boyfriend wants to have sex with other girls!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently my boyfriend told me that he wants to experience having sex with other girls..quick info about us we've been dating for about 6 years now I was 15 he was 16 now (20 and 21) and we were each others first. I knew it would happen but didn't really want to think about him ... (199 words)

I really like this guy but am getting mixed signals from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I’ve posted question this a few times before, but I need your help. I really like this guy but am getting mixed signal from him. He’s a mutual friend who’s at college with me. We’ve been talking on msn for about a year, more and more. By now we talk a few times each d... (234 words)

How can I make the next step to asking her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all I've previously asked for advice on how I can win my ex back and am still trying but find myself confused. We have been apart for nearly six months but recently she has been texting me more and asked me out for a coffee last week. She then asked me to go round to... (162 words)

How do I write a formal letter of application?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i know that this isn't a relationship question but the other site owned by the same people as this (careerglove.com) doesn't look like it's been used in a while and i feel i can get better help from here. so my question is, how do you write a formal letter of application? ... (130 words)

Why did he change his mind about getting married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Both of us have been married twice, we have been together 2 yrs and known each other for 8+. When we first got together we both wanted the same thing to get married again one day but now 2 yrs later he is saying that he doesn't want to do it again. He feels as if we already are ... (92 words)

Is he still pining for his ex wife or am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age - Hi there I met this guy 2 years ago. At that time he broke up with his wife at her request. We moved in together at the begining of this year. Actually, i believe that he is still pinning for his wife; he's doing things for her, gives her money every month, he wants to be frien... (86 words)

How can I rely on someone who acts like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been in a relationship for the past 4 years and i try to make things work out, but now, i'm exhausted! Since my bf and I spent the hollidays with his family last year, we decided to go to my home town, and spend at least christmas with my mother. He had a lot of financia... (341 words)

Stinging feeling after sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've just started to have sex with my girlfriend and found that after a while i start to get a stinging feeling around my penis. I've found little cuts but they are under the skin. Making sex a bit painful from time to time. Why am i getting these pains and how can i help ... (57 words)

The night my boyfriend died I found out he had cheated on me, how do I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend died on November 15th, 2009. The night he died, I found out he had cheated on me and had lied to me about several things. How do I get through this? I dont know if I am more angry that he died and left me OR that he lied and cheated. I had absolutely NO clue ... (83 words)

How do I get over him? I loved him more than I love myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i had a bf. he was so nice n suit firstly. i loved him more than myself. but than he changed. it seemed like he didnt need me anymore, didnt want to be with me anymore, so i went far away from him. but whenever i remember him tears cum outa my eyes. i want to forget him ... (96 words)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - am i related to my boyfriend in any way if his uncle married my half sister?... (16 words)

I have never been the other woman. I just want him in my life and never want to lose him again. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man named Zack 8 years ago from a mutual friend. We have been best friends since that day. Zack and I have never once said or implied taking our relationship to another level. However, he kissed me out of the blue 5 years ago but pulled away and never thought much of it ... (608 words)

How can I make some good friends or find a nice way to spend my free time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 15 years old i'm quite smart, tall, i wouldn't say i'm good looking but i wouldn't say i'm ugly either, likewise about my weight i wouldn't say i'm fat i wouldn't say i'm thin sorta in between. but i don't make friends that easily. when i be myself people don't like it ... (286 words)

Just found out my girlfriend is pregnant, and I'm unsure what I want or should do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently found out that my girlfriend of almost 8 months is 5 weeks pregnant and I am unsure about what I want/should do. She is currently in her first year of university, and I am in my second year of university, at different universities. I love her with all my heart ... (332 words)

My theory is that all men exaggerate, so most women have no idea what size penis they are having sex with.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - may seem like an odd post. My girlfriend keeps going on and on about how massive my penis is. but its not its average. its 6" long and 5.4" girth. She says it all the time and if she holds it in two hands she laughs and says god its massive. Thing is its not as if she ... (159 words)

I don't know what to do, I'm an emotional wreck, I need your help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've a massive problem. I've been with someone for 5 years (seems to be common) but had broken up about 2 times. Every year i get into this situation when its the end of the year and i dont feel like i love her anymore. I've found another girl which i've known for 3 years a... (135 words)

I'm worried my ex won't pay me back the money I lent him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex 3 months ago because he couldnt decide who he wanted,me or another girl.(we had been together a year) since then we have been in contact. Basically he has used me to borrow money etc and i've been stupid enough to do it.now he's decided he wants the other ... (108 words)

Why doesn't he initiate sex with me, after the many times I have slept over at his house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why wouldn't a guy have sex with his girlfriend? I've slept over at my boyfriends house countless of times, but he has never tried anything. We sleep together in his bed, spooning or cuddling, and just kiss or even make out but after that it's just bed time. He's a ... (357 words)

Two best Buddies love the same girl - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Situation. approximately a year ago, as we start our new college life, we three are happily going together. my best friend and a girl. both of them just hurt from their recent love story. after a few months, i have notice their growing feeling towards each other, as a friend, i ... (493 words)

How much do I have the right to ask and know about his exes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Ok, i know that it is very individual and unique to a person and to a couple, but how important/necessary is it to know details about a partners exes? So, what are common things to know (or me to ask about?). What questions should I steer away from? He is my fir... (131 words)

At what age can a girl get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi to all, help me I have a serious question, what age can a girl or woman get pregnant? I want to know please help!..,.... (25 words)

My boyfriend doesn't love m anymore, but he still cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. We became very close after about three months, I lost my virginity to him and he's the first guy I have actually sincerely loved. And he's different. He was the one that wanted to take everything slow physically. So everything ... (672 words)

Ex went to jail, I've met someone new, but why do I still want my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my son's father for 10 yrs. He went to prison and I met someone new, who treats me alot better than my ex did. I really love this new guy and want to marry him, but I can't seem to get over my ex. What is wrong with me?? ... (56 words)

Sex but no relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to this for 6months and we been having sex. But we are not together and he says he doesnt want to rush into relationship. And that way fine when first started talking but now im ready for relationship. I wanna say that to him but i don't want to scare him off. ... (84 words)

My husband's ex girlfriend is a psycho and horrible mother!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I've been with for over 4 years has an ex that has a severe jealousy issue. She has hated everyone hes ever dated and hates me even more. This woman is in law enforcement and yet commits/gets away with some of the most unbelieveable things. She has spent nearly a ... (753 words)

MY husband needs to know that I need love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been married almost 2 years now,I feel like my husband is not in love with me anymore because he never hold me close to him at anytimes esspecially when i had my first baby on sep,After labor he came in and didnt give me a kiss or a hug nor asked how i was feeling w... (225 words)

Why did he lie to me? And why is his ex more important than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Thanks your time. Dear, I with my BF have been together around 3 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Switzerland guy, and I am Asian girl (Chinese). I just break up with my BF one month ago. Was 2 weeks before Is my birthday, I call my ex-BF to say... (436 words)

Feelings for both sexes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it wrong to have feelings for girls and guys at age 14?... (13 words)

He spends 2-3 night a week with his friends instead of me. Is that normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a question: is it normal for your guy to spend 2 or 3 times a week with his friends after work and not with you? My guy see's me 2 times a week on his days off and sometimes 3 times a week if he has time during a break at one of his jobs. I don't think he is ... (252 words)

I felt guilty so I came on too strong. What can I do to fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i met a girl about 2 1/2 weeks ago, we got to hang out a couple of times and i even went to her house once. She seemed to like me since she was always constantly calling me to do things together from going to the movies to going to parties and eating out for lunch or breakfast. ... (406 words)

Can I get her to change or opinion of me? I want more than friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I like this girl in my last period class. She's a country girl. But is completely down to earth. She shares my view of waiting til marriage for sex. She loves riding horses. We both have one. But from what I can tell, she thinks I'm kinda stupid. I'm one of the kids in that ... (225 words)

Does moving on from my ex mean that I have to let go of my best friend too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So after a year long dysfunctional relationship, I decided to put a stop to it once and for all. I am going sober from my ex boyfriend. Shortly after, me and my ex boyfriend broke up, a couple months back. I started dating my best friend (who has been there through it all) ... (303 words)

Was he avoiding taking my number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'd liked this guy for quite some time, and he works at my favourite restaurant. We always talk and joke around when I go in. Tonight, I got my usual order, and (remembering the last time I was in) he gave me an extra pickle with my food. He smiled at me and told me he ... (175 words)

Do guys like girls with make-up, or without?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Many girls wear a lot of make up and some do not wear any at all. I was just wondering if guys like it when girls wear make up or don't. ... (31 words)

Without her I feel alone. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my girlfriend of three years and now i fell all alone. I don't have that many friends except for her and a group of people that we used to hang out with together. She continues to hang out with that group but i feel awkward and out of place if I am there. ... (78 words)

Nervous, want more than a hook up. How do I get to know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I worked at a theme park in the summer. During my last few weeks there I got to know Chris. He worked in a different department. He asked me to hangout but it was right before I was going away to school so I needed to pack and spend time with family and friends. We've talked on ... (146 words)

My sister went through my underwear

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4 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i caught my sister going through my underwear shes 17 and I'm 14 and i don't know what i should do. I didn't ask her what she was doing i just walked back upstairs and pretended like everything was okay but its not. What should i do?... (49 words)

I like older men, is the age gap a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 but i like guys who are around 25-27 because most of the guys i have been with around my age are total pr*cks who have just used me for sex. However, I find that the older 1s actually want to know ME not my body, is this too much of an age gap tho?? xx... (61 words)

He's gave me an STD and he's sleeping with a pregnant girl

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and i have recently been having sex with this guy who's 1 yr older than me and found out he gave me chlamydia when i confronted him about it he didn't really seem to be bothered (he knew he had it), worst thing is he was in a relationship with a girl who's only 16 and ... (158 words)

I'm ready for sex, but not able to lubricate the way I used to

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What can you do when you have the desire for sex, but lack the lube to make it enjoyable? This is a recent problem for me and it's freaking me out. I have NEVER had a problem getting wet during foreplay. My b/f is great in bed and really takes the time to make sure I'm ... (192 words)

Why do I feel like a fool after he broke up with me?

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We dated a couple of months I didn't let him hit until I was ready ta have sex with him..days went on we did the do. As the months n weeks went on we were cool. Until I found out that was four weeks pregnant. He's 22 I'm 18 I'm a senior n highschool. When I told him he had a ... (283 words)

Does my friend fancy me?

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres a guy who is my friend and he is really nice to me and whenever he talks to me I feel like he cares about me. I told him once that I called this really cute guy to go out with me and he got really jealous...the thing is i love being friends with him. but i wana know does ... (77 words)

Is 2 years too big an age difference?

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4 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and im in love with a girl shes 15, is 2 years a huge age gap for us if we date? ... (23 words)

Some insight on rough sex during pregnancy please

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi and thanks all that reply back to me :) Well I was just wondering what everyones opinion on rough sex is... I'm currently three months pregnant and very time I have sex with my boyfriend I'm sore afterward. Today one of the lips of my vagina is a lil swollen ... (52 words)

I'm afraid my husband is only with me because his ex is into women

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very strange situation, I met my now husband on match.com. We talked alot before meeting and he did tell me that he was still very close to his ex wife. He was married for 4 years and while he was gone on work she told him she was actually into women and wanted a ... (495 words)

He wants me but doesn't know if he wants a relationship

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating my roommate recently. He used to have sex with women a lot but he doesn't make the first move with me and we've only had sex two times in 3 months. He was also very hesitant to actually "date" because he feels like I would move things along so much faster ... (547 words)

My mother has banned my boyfriend from visiting because we don't use birth control

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been dating my bf for 3 yrs now, since we were both 16. When my mom seen our relationship was getting serious she took me to get birth control pills. The first 2 months I was on them I got really sick and my doctor said I need lower dose and that year we tried se... (230 words)

It's been a year but I still miss my ex

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4 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up almost a year ago, we fought a lot, it was a bad break up. To this day I still miss her, I think about her all the time and I constantly think I see her when I'm out. What does this mean? I hated our relationship yet she has a hold over me. What to ... (62 words)

My doctor refuses to prescribe medication for my anxiety

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've suffered from anxiety for like 2 years and my doctor continually refuses to put me on meds. I'm close to being denied my credits at school because of how many absences I've had from freaking out before I go in. I've tried everything to keep myself off medication but at ... (62 words)

He left his wife for me, but now he treats me badly

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been on here several times and I wanted to update my stories. I was seeing a married man for six years. His wife finally left him, and we moved in together. I thought things was really going to be okay, and that I was finally going to be happy. Well things star... (397 words)

How do I get past the guilt of empty relationships?

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 21 year old girl and really sensitive. I ended up having relationships with many guyz just out of depression...but I never loved any of them in real. I was in a relationship with one such guy...and ended up having sex with him. Suddenly, I realized its silly to get depr... (138 words)

My boyfriend uses me for money

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Age posted is incorrect] im 16 me and my bf have been pretty much been together for 2 years. we've had sex, quite alot and i fear that he will soon get tired of our relationship. we broke up earlier this year and he told me over and over again, 'buy me t... (427 words)

I miss my clingy ex-boyfriend

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just broke up with my extremely clingy boyfriend, and I feel so lonely without him. The relationship became abusive because of his jealousy and clinginess. I know that the best thing for me to do was break up with him. I lost most of my friends because of him and now I just ... (72 words)

Will losing my virginity be less painful if I practice with toys first?

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a virgin, but i want to know if it will hurts as much as everyones says if i've used toys before?... (23 words)

My fiance is convinced I'm cheating!

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, My fiance says that the reason why he is being so mean, acting out with so much animosity towards me is plainly because his mother is deceased (about 1 or 1 1/2 years ago). He constantly assumes that I have a dude coming over to my house while he's at wo... (159 words)

How to tell my LDR that I don't want to quit my job and move up?

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'm new so please forgive me if I don't do this right. I've been dating my boyfriend long distance for about 9 months now, I am almost in my thirties and he is mid thirties. We were friends for 5 years when he lived nearby. He was with someone else the majority of that... (522 words)

What can I use as a lube when masturbating?

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 I have been trying to masturbate but for some reason i keep getting dry, and when i get in the mood to masturbate but when i actually do it then i start to go dry i dont know why. I can't buy lube because I don't want my mom to find out and see lube in my room. Is there ... (83 words)

BIG problems in our marriage re porn.

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4 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Cupid Friends.. I been married to my husband since May of this year we have and are having our first year dramas which all newlyweds have.. The first one was his porn collection he loves porn use to watch it every day on dvd on his iphone at work with his buddies on each ... (621 words)

How do we keep this a secret forever?

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4 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just know this post is going to be long winded because its such a difficult situation to explain. First of all I just want to say that I think that the problem is mine not my girlfriends, I just wondered if anybody had experienced similar emotions and managed to deal with ... (1339 words)