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anonymous
writes:Hello.I'm 16 about 4 days ago I had sex with my boyfriend.He used a condom but I'm so worried I might be pregnant I don't think the condom "broke" or anything, I would've felt it or heard it,right? I didn't notice a tear or anything in the condom and I trust my boyfriend so much I know he'd tell me if it had torn or anything I just don't know why I'm so scared!My period is due some time soon but the only thing that frightens me if I am pregnant how would I tell my mum? She'd be so dissapointed and I can't be a mum at this age I have college to go to, heck I can't even look after myself the thought of being pregnant just terrifies me, I 've always had this fear even before I was sexually active and I don't know why.I just really don't want to be a young mum.I'm so scared.Can anyone help me put my mind at ease?Thank you in advance
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reader, jim0007  +, writes (11 December 2009):
Hi
I am so thankful for you! Please don't let it happen again! At your age you don't need that kind of stress! Make sure you an your partner use every way to prevent it from happening again! Have fun an explore an enjoy what a beautiful gift an pleasure God has given us! I'm very happy for you Dear!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust thought i'd give you another update.
My period came yesterday and is normal and regular :)
Phew.
Xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers.I've talked this through with my boyfriend he obviously didn't take this too well but he apologised for over reacting but he did reassure me its most likely just my period thats making me cramp and feel bloated which is nice to know.Thanks again everybody :)xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Morning after pills. Look into them.
If you had sex 4 days ago then you've still got about a day to do it.
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reader, jim0007 +, writes (8 December 2009):
Hi
I wish I could take away all you fears! It is what it is! Take a test! The deal with the results! Never let it happen again! Please be safe! I'm praying that you can handle the results! Get back with me either way dear! If you do not want the babby if there is one There are tons of families that do!
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (8 December 2009):
Do you know exactly where you're at in your cycle? Ask your mother if you can be put on birth control, if the condom didn't break I think you should be okay.
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reader, Sminky +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Try not to worry, I'm sure if the condom had split, your boyfriend would have told you, if only so you could do something like take the morning after pill. He doesn't want to be a dad yet, either right? If this scares you this much, you may not be as ready for sex as you thought, its ok to slow down once you have started, you don't have to keep up with anyone. I understand if you want to carry on in a sexual relationship though, so would you feel comfortable seeing you GP about maybe going on the pill? You are 16, they cannot tell your parents and you can ask to see a woman. Still use condoms though, by doubly protecting yourself you will be doubly safe from pregnancy and STIs. The only gauranteed way to prevent pregnancy, however, is not to have sex at all. Good luck.
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