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Why do I not like having sex? Relationships have fallen apart because of it.

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Question - (8 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *ballfreak718 writes:

OK, I dont know if this is weird but i am 22 year old female and i do no like to have sex. I have been in several serious relationships before and i pretty much broke it off with the guys because i felt bad that im hardly up to have sex with them. currently i am dating an amazing guy, his great from head to toe and its been over a month since we had sex and i know he wants to, he tried to make moves several times before but i keep coming up with 1001 excuses not to. we had sex before and he is great i just feel as if sex as a chore, any suggestions what could be causing this????

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

If you are able to get turned on, what events, situations, sequence of feelings, conversations turned you on? Write it down so you know how to get to the aroused stage. Like a map or a recipe.

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A female reader, Miss-Tee Nigeria +, writes (8 December 2009):

I think it is normal, because i also have a similar issue.

i don't like having sex atall and i don't force myself to do it and my bf understands.

What i will tell u is dat let ur bf understand that naturally u don't like sex.

but make sure u are giving him once in a while.

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