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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's been a long time since I felt "love that shakes you to the core" and I want that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29, met a guy, 35 years old, online and we talked on the phone and emailed for a month then decided to meet. On the first date I did not feel any attraction to him but we had a great chat and he even drove me around the city do to my errands. After the first date I thought ... (516 words)

I think about this girl every minute of the day...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I think about this girl every hour of every day. This has probably been happening for a year now, but has gotten worse. I don't know why but I have never felt the way that I do for this girl about any other girl. She has a boyfriend and does not have the same feelings for ... (281 words)

This is about teachers, but not your typical topic

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

3 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so I'll be 17 in a few weeks and I'm in love with one of my teachers. This is not what I want anyone commenting on, I just thought it would be helpful because I'm not asking whether you think he likes me back or if I should tell him or not because I already know the answers ... (205 words)

He said I'm too vocal in bed!!! I'm totally shocked by this revelation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend casually mentioned to me that I'm too vocal in bed. I'd never thought about it before and hadn't realised I was particulaly loud. The way he said it was very patronising and embarrassed me greatly, it has really knocked my confidence. I'm not keen on ... (207 words)

Is he lying to me? WAS something going on behind my back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend are driving and his phone keeps ringing, he asked me to answer if I wanted. I did and it was a female who says she had the wrong number. I questioned who she was calling for and she said her cousin gave her the number. I asked who was her cousin and it ... (271 words)

Do I still have feelings for my husband... or am I just sad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I need advice, my soon to be ex husband seems to be getting such an easy life of it, while i sit here stewing. we split up a couple of years ago after near ten years of physical, mental and sexual abuse and i feel so lonely while he seems to have a different girl every ... (154 words)

I really like him but I don't think I'm his type. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Okay so there's this boy named Michael, and I've liked him since August. I stopped liking him for like a week or so. My friends do not like him. I mean they hate his guts! So I really cant talk about him around them. Well now I'm falling for him again. I dont think I love him, ... (123 words)

Opinions please! Does my co-worker like me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a coworker who I've gradually formed a friendship with. He introduced himself to me when he first started at the company about two years ago, and we gradually progressed from quick, "Hello"s in the hallways to him stopping by my office to chat. We found we had an ... (292 words)

We're back together again but now her family hates me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years now. 8 months ago I cheated on her with an ex girlfriend through a one night stand. She was hurt so in return she cheated on me with a friend. We chose to forgive each other and move on. This summer at a family ... (170 words)

I can't figure out what to get him for Christmas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i need some help. Me and my boyfriend have been going out since October and im not sure what to get him for christmas. We are both 13 and I don't know what to get him. He loves playing guitar and writing songs. He plays xbox360 and like sports. People hav been telling... (85 words)

His weight gain is causing me to find him less attractive...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I hope you can help me. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now. The problem is that I am finding him more and more less attractive as the days go by. I find myself feeling so guilty about this and I don't usually base relationships on looks at all but I'm ... (224 words)

We built our relationship up so high only to be knocked down again. What can I do to get him back by my side again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well me and my best mate are gay 14 year olds, we have been going out for about a year. I think he's lost interest in me for our other mate we hang out with. He's bin spending a lot of time with him now and doesn't pay any attension to me any more. What can I do to get him back ... (97 words)

Angry about the double standards of sex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Ok, I don't want to be polemic here, but I'm really shocked and angry with the double standard. You see, my boyfriend suffers with retroactive jealousy, even though I wasn't a slut (I was a virgin when we met, granted, I was just 17 so it was normal for me to be a virgin, but I ... (431 words)

Am I wrong? Should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months today, in the beginning it was fine, (isn't it always) and maybe 2 or 3 weeks into the relationship he asked me to do something sexual and I told him I didn't want to, well he got really mad at me and didn't talk to ... (174 words)

13, want a boyfriend and want sex but think I'm frigid

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right so i am 13. i ahve no boyfriend and i am really really fridgid, i am scared to even talk to a boy when i am going out with them. but i really want to have sex i tihnk i am phisiclly and emotionally ready, but its just trying to get over my fridgedness. Any tips? please ... (81 words)

Am I just being too needy and expecting too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, been together for 10 months now. It's been around 3 and a half months now since we were last together in person. I miss him tremendously, and I know he misses me too. However, the first 2 months we were apart after our ... (936 words)

Boyfriend doesn't trust me with his internet passwords

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, if this is weird or I'm being irrational, please let me know. My boyfriend and I have been dating each other for four years and have been living together for roughly 3 1/2 years. (Yes, we took things a little fast, but it worked out.) We usually get along swimmingly and ... (369 words)

My friends think I'm annoying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do. My friends either get annoyed at me easily, as apparently im annoying, and i understand that but i'm just me. or i just feel like i have no one. a coouple of months ago, i was always having sleepovers and meetin up with my mates. but now it seems like ... (123 words)

Stuck in a sexless marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Help! Since my wife has given birth to our two children (both are under 3 years old) she has pretty much become completely uninterested in sex. Not just the act of sex but also flirting, playing, making herself look sexy, touching me, cuddling me, caring about me... the list ... (186 words)

How do we meet other couples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can me and my boyfriend meet other couples to go out with and things? Im at college, hes at uni. VERY few/none of our already existing close friends have partners, any ideas? x... (35 words)

How to get thru to my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have only been with my man for 2 months. It was all going great - I had met all his family he said he liked me unlike any other girl he had been with. but then a week and a half ago he told me he felt weird and needed some time to think. Since then he has virtually ig... (196 words)

Is flirting considered cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If your in a relationship, and you flirt with someone else would you consider that to be cheating? I haven't done this, i'm just curious to what people think...... (30 words)

Are relationships just about love or is there more to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about six months ago, but all the feelings are still there. Lately he and I have been talking about getting back together, but I told him I wanted to wait to meet up in person and see where things stand (I'm at school 800 miles away, I'll be back home in a ... (174 words)

I was perfectly happy with the new guy before my ex came back..now I'm questioning everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am torn between two men. One is my ex, who broke up with me a month ago. We were together for 3 years, and he was deployed for the last year. He evaluated our relationship while over there are decided to end it prior to coming home. He said he didn't have the feelings to ... (349 words)

My anger got in the way of my relationship, is it still salvagable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So heres the situation I have been with this amazing beautiful woman for the past three years. Howerver I have an anger problem that has come in the way of our relationship. When i get to angry I just go crazy i punch holes in the walls break things etc. She left me last ... (184 words)

How do I emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) age - How do i emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband? when i say unlove it means he is never mentally or emotionally attached to me... i have tried to please him in all way but he prefers to be left alone most of the times. the only way i realize that would work the b... (140 words)

I'm worried his ex still likes him, how do I know he doesn't want her back too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help :( I'm insecure. And my esteem was starting to build up nicely with my new bf and then i found out he was still in contact with his ex, and they are close friends. Now I am back to where I started. I want to talk to him about it but I do not know how. I fear his ... (97 words)

Should I go against her advice and buy her a Christmas gift?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been "seeing" this girl for a couple weeks now, we hang out a lot, sleep over, bring each other food to work etc.., basically we get along very well and she has told me she likes me, but she is in the middle of a divorce and told me she dosent want to get into anything ... (230 words)

Why do I have to be the one to contact him and give him attention when I get nothing in return?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - SO i am so upset right now, I dont know whether its my fault or not. I haven't heard from my bf for the past week, from monday till now. And my bday was just the only last day Ive seen him. He was online a couple days ago and was "busy" and he didnt even send me a single "hi"- ... (155 words)

Will he ever come back to me and his two young children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dont know where to start. Iv got a 15mth old and 11week old to my ex who walked out on me when i was 3 month pregnant. we would have minor arguments during pregnancy and he would walk out but and i would say dont come back (not meaning it) one day we had a row and he said he ... (168 words)

Why hasn't he removed himself from the swinging websites he used to use?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 9 months used to go on swinging/sex/dating websites (the type where basically all's you want is sex) I found this out the other week when on his laptop (I wasn't snooping it just popped up) so what should I do? He joined up to them over a year ago so it was ... (121 words)

How can I get back my virginity?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i lost my virginity with my wex bf... i need to get back my lost virginity ... (19 words)

My virgin boyfriend is holding back on sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now, and of course we have been fooling round for a while but its always foreplay. You see, we're both virgins and I'm willing to go a little further with the intimacy but he holds back. The only thing he really does is dry ... (240 words)

I love him but I have a boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I like one guy from class 8th he also likes me but i dont tell yes to him since our family relationship will get spoil due to us and i dont want it but now on orkut we chat with each other he still likes me and i too but both of us is having our partners in life his girlfriend ... (113 words)

I have no intentions of getting back with him anymore, but I don't want him to hate me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really down at the moment.my ex boyf and i broke up 3 months ago.we'd been together a year.we finished because he had feelings for another girl.since then though we have been in touch every day. I wish I hadn't continued to talk to him as it's stopped me getting ... (183 words)

Why wont she admit that she is still in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this might take long so please bare with me. 3 days ago i just found out my ex who lives down south is wanting me back and my mate told me cause she was talking to her on msn. my mate told me that my ex wanted me back and is missing me badly and wants to move back up north to ... (529 words)

Should I go with my husband to view his dead friend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My hubby's friend died and his viewing is tonight. He hasn't asked me directly to go with him, but when I ask him if he wants me to go, he says "I dont care, you can go if you want. What should I do?... (46 words)

Do I move on and start a fresh new life where I know I will never get hurt and looked after or risk my ex going back to his old life???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I had been completely madly in love with my ex for 8 years, he loved me, we had a 7 year old but he was an addict, I'd been messed about for so long and in the end he ended it. Now he is in prison asking for one last chance saying he's changed, he wants to prove himself how ... (162 words)

He always wants to make a go of it when he is drunk, but then never remembers what he said the next day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

- i've been talking to this guy now for about 3 months and firstly when i gave him my number, after months of saying no, i didn't really see anything between us other than friendship. But he told me right from the very start that he's liked me for years. so i thought theres no ... (366 words)

Does he still have feelings for me or is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i met this guy Jeremy and we hooked up 3 days later so we stayed together for a while but the problem is he broke up wit this girl Allie and he talked about how distant they where and how happy he was with me, so he went around telling everybody that he was in love with me ... (619 words)

I'm attracted to my cousin, how do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 16 and I'm really confused and i feel guilty. I'm female and i really really hate admitting this, but i'm attracted to my female cousin. She's thirteen but she looks years and years older,she looks older then me even.She's the only one I've confided in about my feelings ... (438 words)

How can I tell if my boyfriend really loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i am in serious dilemma weather my boyfriend does really love me or not ..i met with him last year through chat room and slowly as days passes on, we became a very good freinds first ...we use to share everything and he use to call me every day taking out time from his... (231 words)

Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

3 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for the past ten days. And i feel pain when... (63 words)

He thought I was playing games, so now I think he is playing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - "Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen"...I think the guy I like is doing this to me, cuz the past few weeks he was really attentive towards me and showing huge interest..then all of a sudden he is ignoring me...I also think he got this advice from friends...so I assume they want me to ... (249 words)

How do I handle this situation? We are getting closer but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well I work with this girl and shes my age. she has had a boyfriend since highschool. we got to know each other and became real good friends. thru a year I've gone thru relationship after relationship and she has known bout each one. she asks me for advice every now and then ... (210 words)

Need advice on dating women. I'm starting a bit late at 25!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong interest and desire in women. ... (699 words)

The shine has worn off our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Wanted some help, me and my ex started our relationship really happy and we were for about a year and a half then we started arguing and got worse till we were arguing almost everyday over things that didnt even matter. She is very insecure and wanted me to see her everyday of ... (201 words)

I am frustrated because I cant decide if he likes me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear people of dear cupid, i feel i have a massive problem, but before i tell let me just say i am 15 and never had a boyfriend. my problem is that i feel that i am in love with the guy at school he is really nice most people tell me just to tell him how i feel but i am scare... (187 words)

I have a very silly question .......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is probably a really silly question, but I guess if I'm going to ask anyone a stupid sex related question I would really rather ask the people on this site than anyone else! Guys, girls, how exactly can you tell if a girl is loose? It's not exactly the kind of thing I'... (123 words)

She mixes with celebrities but I am just a ordinary guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Greetings everyone. I'm here to ask a very strange sounding question; just make sure you read everything I have to say or it may seem a bit confusing. See, I've been seeing this girl long-distance for almost two years now. Where I live, I'm fairly secluded from pop culture... (345 words)

I was lost, then found on facebook, and now discarded!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend found me on facebook. He wanted to meet again after 9 years. I told him I was in town and he never responded. I responded today saying he got the messages but he said alot has been happening in my life right now. What does this mean?... (50 words)

I bought gifts for his sick mother but he still doesn't want me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Hope i will get a good help here. It has been like 2 months and sth since my r/ship with my 6 years boyfriend started to shake.We loved and love eachother so much, we used to constantly talk about a future together and we were planning to get married like 3 months be... (851 words)

Is this what a normal relationship is like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in love with my BF about 2 years +, I feel my relationship is not normal. He is a White guy and he is a Boss of one factory in asian (Switzerland), I am Asian girl (Chinese), he always told me their culture in Switzerland is different. Is that true? 1) He told... (390 words)

My ideas of my ideal man are very vague, I can't decide what I want

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a little advice. I realized today that my string of bad relationships has never given me the opportunity to see what it's like to be treated well by a man. I have no idea what it feels like. I've considered joining a dating website to see if I'd have luck with meeting ... (149 words)

I really, really like her, but does she like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i know if she likes me? ok so i met this girl and now we are good friends but it seems like if she likes me i like her but i dont know if she likes me we flirt like everyday and she always gets close to me as if she wants me to hold her or something she also sits ... (92 words)

We are going to wait for sex, but maybe I should give him a little taste test!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... So I have many questions about me and my 19 year old bf. this one us goin to be a alittle different. We have been togegter thru alot and and I mean alot, well I think that I want to tell him to wait to have sex until we are ready again, I don't want him to go else ... (118 words)

I got out of a loveless marriage but now I feel guilt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a loveless marriage for quite some time. I cannot say my conduct has been ideal. I had a fling a few years ago and I treated my husband badly. I was trapped, we were utterly incompatible people, counselling didnt help and all we did was fight. My husband forgave ... (313 words)

Since being played I cannot trust

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im a 22 year old virgin.my whole school experience was pretty terrible for me i always felt insecure missplace and low because i was always being made fun of, plus my first relationship ever was a sad wreck i got played! as a result im unconfident insecure and havent trusted ... (64 words)

How do I find the RIGHT kind of woman...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

How long should I wait before we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 18 years old and I am a virgin I have a boyfriend who is 24 years old and we have only been going out for a while I do want to end up having sex with him but I am kind of scared but also at the same time I don't know how long we should wait till we actually... (209 words)

It's over but I can't move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me almost a month ago, and I still can't bring myself to move on. I've been left before and none have hurt this bad. I see her at school and it's like she's completely erased me from her momory. Like we never stood together, watching the ... (165 words)

At first I said no, then I said yes, he disappeared and now he is back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 13 when I dated my then boyfriend who was 16 at the time. He was a pretty boy and came from a wealthy family,so did I,meaning he was the player type. We dated for abt a week before he asked me to come over to his place. I made it clear before I got there that I was a ... (182 words)

I am love with a co worker, and don't know how to let her know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello i need help on this i am in love with this coworker but she work in front of the house i work in the back how can i tell her i am in love with her? or ask her out? i dont want to ask her at the job. but how can i do this? she is single! this is my first time ever l... (76 words)

My best friend is turning into macho man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This started yesterday. My best friend slept over at my house. We were just lying around and he just started acting weird (e.g. staring at me). Then he said something really weird, he's like, "You know I love you, right?" I wasn't sure how to reply so I just nodded my head. ... (90 words)

I still love my girl but have cooled off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I"m 17 and my girlfriend of 11 months is 16. We're almost at our 1 year anniversary and I can't shake the fact that my feelings for her are swinging up and down. I've never been so confused in my life. I love this girl but at the same time I feel like I don't as much as... (415 words)

I daydream constantly about kissing my guitar teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dreaming of playing the guitar ever since i was 6. I didn't actually get a guitar until i was 14. I am now 16 and have started taking guitar lessons 2 months ago. During that time i have for some reason started to have a crush on him. I know you will think its w... (284 words)

I want to ask my date to be in a really funny way ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I need help, the winter formal at my school is in 2 weeks and I want to ask my date-to-be in a really funny way, I'm willing to embarass myself haha. Any ideas?! Thank you!... (36 words)

My girlfriend wants an open relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I've been off and on here various times these last few months, seeking random tidbits of advice for my ongoing relationship with my gf. Let me start off with a bit o' history. Notably, answers from the 'net have barely helped and in my problems, the most common answ... (679 words)

I have forgiven him, but was I just gullible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have worked through so much in the last six years and finally this last school year (he is actually graduating in a few days and I have another semester) we have had the time to do a lot of fun things. We pretty much live at my place, but he goes to his school to ... (340 words)

My relationship is already rocky and my ex "wants to catch up"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am trying to make my shaky relationship with my girlfriend work. We've had lots of financial problems and trouble communicating. Things had been going pretty well and getting better and better and I was feeling really good. Today I ran into my old girlfriend. She... (178 words)

My family fights all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - love my family dont really like them. i am also depressed abd it was told that i shud hang out with them more but its mostly arguing wat to do?... (30 words)

Is my girlfriend still a virgin?

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3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is my girlfriend still a virgin? my girlfriend and I (she is 18, i am 20) are wondering if she is still considered a virgin if her ex boyfriend just got the head of his penis inside her. The way she explains it is he tried to penetrate her but she could not take the pain, bu... (86 words)

My long term friend is turning fake and it annoys me!

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - iv been friends with this girl for a very long time and shes been one of my best friends but lately for some reason the way she talks or acts sounds so fake and annoying to me and it sounds like shes just trying to get a laugh or attention. how do i talk and still be aro... (76 words)

She fulfills my fantasies but wont be my girl!

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3 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - We were together for 4 years. I see her frequently. It seems like we're dating again exclusively, but she "doesn't want a boyfriend right now." So, she started talking dirty to me one night, and we got into it. It was weird at first, so I stopped. She became disappointed. We ... (86 words)

Trapped in a situation and I don't know where to turn

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3 December 2009 (M)

- I have been in a relationship with my fiancé for the past 3 years and we have 2 children, the eldest who is 3 and a half is from her previous relationship and we have a child together who will be 2 in a few days time. I love each of the children equally and think of the eld... (719 words)

My friends poke fun at my being a virgin!

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, let me tell you about my situation, im a 21 yo virgin and my last boyfriend was when i was like 15. and i currently dont have a boyfriend and it doesnt look like its gonna change any time soon. its really taking its toll on me, cause i dont know of a single other vir... (315 words)

I am in a dead marriage!

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3 December 2009 (F) age - What are the reasons for saving a dead marriage? Is this for God? Or the kids? I'm confused? Why do we suffer in unhappy marriages? Why do we stay in them so long ,than at the end we can barely move. I do this myself. It's just does not work, but I don't even understa... (78 words)

He asks me for my movements but then doesn't act on the information!

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy last Friday and he got my number. We hung out again Saturday night. I live about 45 minutes away from him and I'm in college. Monday I came home for Thanksgiving break. He told me to tell him when I got into town. I did... two nights in a row he'd ask what I was ... (425 words)

I am only 17 so I told her I was older

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3 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK story time! Here I go... I met a girl the other day who I got along well with and we have been messaging back and forth since; she is 19. I feel like an ass I said I was 18 when I'm really only 17; anyways I am going to be 18 in like 3 months. I couldn’t take the ... (219 words)

He called me by his pet name, does that mean he still cares?

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3 December 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I broke up with a man about six months ago. We broke up to his sexually performance problem (health related). We see each other on a semi-regular basis (travel in the same circles due to my child's hobby). We have been able to stay friends. He has even done a few fa... (131 words)

He told me it aint gonna happen but I am still hoping

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this is how the story goes ......me and Stan have been friends since high school in India and now I am in America and he is in UK. So I have had a crush on him since high school and one day an apt situation came up for me to confess my love to him and I told him. As soon ... (439 words)

How do I break the news that I'm pregnant to my mom? Is what I did so bad? Am I a fool?

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old im in 10 grade. I just found out i was pregnant for my boyfriend whos 17. I kno im to young to young to raise a child but it wasnt my fault. My boyfriend wanted a baby so i wanted to make him happy. Becuse he been so good to me so i gave him sum thing he always ... (126 words)

How do I keep my teeth from hurting him?

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how to keep your teeth from hurting the guy during a blojob ? i find it hard and tricky to be done that i end up no really sucking that much .. ideas ?... (35 words)

I'm trying to understand what she meant by these comments!

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me few weeks ago, (I’m a teenage lesbian, if that means anything). She said it wasn’t because she wasn’t interested in me anymore, and when asked she said she didn’t know if it would be permanent, but that it was because she’s been feeling really ... (244 words)

What do I tell him when he asks again if I'm virgin?

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy i like is not a virgin and he asked me if i was and i just looked at him and turned around.. his friend said oh she gave you the look, i dont really know what that means ? I know he is gonna ask again.. but i dont know what to say .. help (oh yeah, and hes perverted)... (65 words)

I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas!

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend since October of 2008 and I have no idea what to get him for Christmas! He likes football, wrestling, nascar, etc. But, I have no idea what to get him what so ever. Any advice?... (40 words)

Anyone with experience taking Plan B?

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want to know if anyone has had any experience taking plan b. ... (14 words)

I'm afraid that I'll be alone my whole life.

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is probably a very common question, but I'm just gonna go ahead anyway. I'm afraid that I'll be alone my whole life. I've never had a boyfriend or anything, and I don't think any guy has ever liked me. I'm not very pretty, and I really fat, so I don't think anyo... (232 words)

I'm looking for positive quotes and sayings to write in my notebook.

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3 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im looking for quotes and sayings...or anything i can write in my notebook. I want to fill it, with positive things, and memories. Im going through a really tough time in my life, with things like school, "friends", my bf that ive lost contact with, and lots of other ... (122 words)

Why could I barely walk after my fourth orgasm yesterday?

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3 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Well I had at least 4 orgasms yesterday and the last one seemed so intense that I could barely walk when I got up? Why and how is this possible? Does anyone know what might have caused this?... (47 words)