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female
age
41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes:This guy that msged me daily or almost daily seems to have disappeared.We've been on a cpl dates but have mostly talked/txted.All was well - the contact was still steady as ever.I baked him cookies(he asked for em) but have yet to drop em off - it's been hard to pin him down for a meeting but he still would msg almost daily to see how I am etc.He recently moved and maybe that's why I havent heard from him (+ he does 12 hr shifts) but he msged me last wednesday - sayin hello n what not,I msged back. I called friday askin what he wanted me to do w/ these cookies/lemme know. No reply. That whole day I had phone trouble and my phone was off or not working..so I txted Sat askin if he got my msg.. no reply. WTF happened??Its weird to go from constant contact.. to none.I know I shouldnt think negative or even care or wonder but I automatically start to feel im being ignored or i did something wrong. Even though I know I didnt do anything wrong. I haven't been clingy etc.I guess all of this sounds stupid.. it just irritates me not knowin whats up. I like consistency.(thanks to anyone that gives advice, I'm sorry for always havin qs.. i feel its best to ask people I dont know..so the advice maybe better than close friends) Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 December 2009):
I hate to tell you this, but I think you're being played. If he's very hard to actually pin down, then what else is he upto? Even a working man will make time if he's really interested in a girl. You didn't do anything wrong at all, what's moist likely to have happened is he's either found someone else, or he's just not that into you and doesn't know how to say it. I would suggest leaving it for now and seeing if he gets back into contact with you. Let him chase now.
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