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writes:So, there was a guy that i was seeing and things were great but because he is attractive and we never discussed about commitments and loyalty. i had some doubts and before we could talk about it, i broke it off!i started to see another guy for a month and he is sweet and cute but nothing compare to the other guy. and now i am second guessing myself.so now the other guy wants me to give him a chance and talk and see where it goes.... should i give him that chance or stay with the guy that i am with? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Hun, which one gives you butterflies? Obviously neither because you dont know what you want, I suggest that you stay away from both of them until you can decide what you want!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Well you did judge the first man based on his looks, didn't you? Because he is attractive you didn't stick around enough to see if he could be the real thing? I agree with Oldsister. Neither are for you. Break it off with this nice guy you are seeing. If you are wondering whether or not to be with him it sounds like you are with him just out of boredom and nothing better to do.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 December 2009):
The grass looks greener...?
Many women discount sweet caring guys because they come across as boring. Lord knows that's happened to me enough. Yet they flock to the smooth guys who go on to hurt them at some point, and let's face it, it already went wrong once. Ask yourself what you want. If you want some fun with the risk that it might not work out (as it didn't before), then end things with the nice guy and move on to the smooth guy. Just be aware that you will probably get hurt again. If you want a guy who will commit, stay with you nice guy and cut all contact with the smooth one.
You had doubts with the smooth guy. Why? Ask yourself that as well.
But if nothing else, if you do go to mr smooth, let the nice guy go first so he can go find someone else.
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