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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has a g/f already but is talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and I know that he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend already! He tells me that Im sweet,cute, and smart;but talking like this makes me feel bad for his girlfriend. What should I do?... (40 words)

My Best Friend is Driving me Crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Look, I love my best friend to bits. Shes kind, can keep a secret, sticks up for me and is generally amazing... but there are a few things that have been bugging me for a while now.. firstly shes so unorganised... infact thats pretty much the only problem but it stems off into ... (436 words)

We're just too good of friends to date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm just looking for a bit of advice here.. There's this guy, and he wants to date but i'm just really unsure about the whole thing. I'm afraid that we're just too good of friends and I don't want to ruin that. I can't completely give in to him because I always hav... (106 words)

How can we sneak away or be quiet enough that no one knows what we are doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 18 yrs old and have been dating my bf for 2 yrs he is 21. We are sexual activity and have a very good sex life. We haven't seen each other in a little over 6 weeks, and tomorrow I will be flying out to spend christmas with him and his family. We will be staying in a ... (149 words)

Why does he keep going limp during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and have a pretty good relationship. Until the last month we had a great sex life but about a month ago we were having sex and all of the sudden he went completely limp inside of me and then he told me it was because ... (189 words)

HELP...Wife lied about her past

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some advise especially if you've gone through this and can help. My wife of 8 years (we've been together for 12), has revealed that she lied about her sexual past. I actually caught her talking to an x on a social networking site that lead to all of this. This perso... (167 words)

I'm afraid she'll get hurt because of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, well im ive been dating this girl for awhile, and we have both agreed that we want to get married some day, and we'er madly in love. but her older sister is a super bitch and is trying to make it so that we cant date anymore for some reason, and as soon as her parents find ... (146 words)

Is This Unrequited Love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So first I'm married with three kids. Five years ago I joined a gym and, cutting it short, met a lady who I instantly fell in love with. It was two years before I spoke to her, I wasn't looking for an affair, but then we became very close and spent a lot of time together. ... (219 words)

Do women tell half-truths to spare your feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - As a man, it's hard for me to understand how a woman can be attracted and get very close emotionally when I'm not available, then, when I become available, say her attraction comes and goes and we both need to work through our particular issues but she wants to stay good ... (227 words)

Am I going to have to kiss him after he goes down on me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to get eaten out. but idk how it feels. or even if i should let my boyfriend do it. it doesn't bother me that he is licking and sucking my vagina. but im going to have to kiss him after. .... (44 words)

Why do we sometimes feel guilty after making love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do we sometimes feel guilty after making love? I'm sure it's different for everyone (if you're cheating on someone then it's pretty obvious). But guilt and having sex are often times associated with each other. Why do you think this is so?... (45 words)

Why would she need a break from our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - We had a fight and it's a big one. We rarely have big fights, we had like 3 big fights within almost 3 years of our relationship. I was uneasy about something she has done. I was uneasy that she hangs out past 4am till like 6-7am in the morning with guy friend(s) that i dont ... (496 words)

Am I being led on or what?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im really not understanding if im just being led on or what?.. well my sons father and i were together for two years living together and so on.. after our son was born things began to fall apart.. i left him in july .. shortly after he tried to start to work things out. then i ... (235 words)

How do you get over being replaced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - You might think this is stupid because alot of people say young people dont know what love is but im 16 and split up with my boyfriend around 2 months ago, we were together for about a year and a half and he broke up with me, and I cant get over him. We are still friends but I ... (175 words)

How can I not be bitchy when my boyfriend is madly in love with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and i are packing to move out of his old house..sounds good so far right? and we are moving to florida..sounds even better huh? well while in the process of packing today i watched him pack pictures of his exgirlfriend of 5 years who he, even after 5 years, is ... (154 words)

Should I give this relationship time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very in love with my boyfriend of 3yrs, we have been off and on but for the most part on. Lately we have been arguing over things that dont even matter to me like him not working and me making money and not wanting to spend it on us, which is not true. We would end up ... (213 words)

When do I start my next birth control pack?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so my period started two days early. it's monday and it was supposed to start wednesday and end on sunday according to both my birth control and my last periods. i chose the method of taking my birth control starting sundays, so even though my period is two days early and ... (90 words)

Did I do the right thing by ending an affair with a married man? I know we could be soul mates.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused.....I am a horrible person and recently went out with a man who I knew was married. We had fun for about 2 months and neither of us could end it. I did however after realising that he was starting to fall in love with me and I finally woke up to the fact that I ... (171 words)

Is it possible to work things out after he lied and cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So... this is all new to me. i have never asked strangers to help me with my relationship but at this point maybe this is the best thing for me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years now. The summer of 2008 he broke things off with me. he said he neede... (503 words)

How can I turn around our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. We have known each other for a few years prior to us hooking up. She is really sweet and kind towards me, and i love her to bits. She has spent quite a lot on me this Christmas, as i have on her, so she must be keen ... (318 words)

How do I go out with him without making the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age - I am a still rather attractive woman after 3 kids. Look 10 years younger than what I am yet I feel like my life is not moving. I am waiting for it to start. I have had two long relationships but each time they leave me feeling loney and miserable. I know for a fact that ... (343 words)

Why is he lying about porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I've been w/ my fiance for 3 years now, 2 of which we have lived together. He works construction and got rained out early one day, and instead of coming home, went to the adult store. I didn't mind, it was nothing we had done together before, but not something I am ... (535 words)

How do I spoil him so he never wants another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age - I have been going through an, at times, very unpleasant divorce over the last 4 years after 22+ years of mostly happy marriage. I began to think I would spend the rest of my life on my own and then a friend convinced me to try a dating site aimed at my age group. So I gave it ... (366 words)

Why is he cooling off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been dating for 4 months. He used to pay a lot of attention but now it's different. He talks more to his friends and replies my messages really slow. He doesn't put in effort into our relationship. He never gave me gifts. And we don't go to nice restaurants anymore. He ... (91 words)

Is it wrong to like him when he has a girlfriend and a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I work at a grocery store with a couple of pretty good looking guys. There are 2 in particular that im really interested in. The most prominent guy is Brian. He's 24 and he has a girlfriend named Amber. Amber just had a baby about a week ago by Brian. I always catch him ... (145 words)

How can I find interesting things to talk about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance told me yesterday and reminded me today that he no longer has anything interesting to say to me. He was acting really clingy the last week and then all of a sudden this happened. How can I bring something of interest to the conversation? We are about to have a ... (106 words)

Is my dad showing sexual interest in me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, well....I've asked a few questions on dear cupid already...and I'm beginning to realise that I haven't mentioned everything that I need to...infact, there is a big thing that I haven't mentioned in my other questions which I need to ask help about. I'm sorry if I've as... (293 words)

Tell me the psychology behind this type of behavior man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! I met a guy about 11 months ago and from day 1 he came on very strong, telling me only after 2 weeks he felt love for me, he smothered me and completely lusted over me, this completely freaked me out understandably so i regected his effections (maybe i could of been nicer ... (589 words)

I honestly believe him with all my heart, should I go back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were dating for about 3 months and things were going great like we never got into one fight or anything. But about a week ago i hear things going around that he wants to break up with me and im so upset because i dont understand why. Well he left school ... (253 words)

Can you please tell me why I feel guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,ive been talking to this guy for a while, he knows that i love him. i text him yesterday to tell him that the guy next door clean the snow off my car yesterday. but he never replied to my text. today i bought the guy a thank you card, for his generosity. but my question... (199 words)

I cant be sure that he loves me as much as I love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for like a month now and he says that he loves me every time we get off the phone and whenever we talk, but im not sure he really means it cause well I don't think anybody could have the same feelings for him as I do and I truly love ... (110 words)

He has pain during intercourse

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi how do i make feel better my b/f while having intercourse should he in top of me or i should be in top him. i would like to ask that i noticed his balls turn into pinkish blue color does he have any disease. asked him about that but he tells there is nothing problem.... (73 words)

Vaginal muscles hurt during orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a female and everytime I cum my muscles in my vagina tighen up and it hurts when he sticks his penis inside of me.it feels like my vagina is pushing him out. but he does not feel that my vagina is tightening up while he's is inside me.. do anybody no why this happens ... (60 words)

Hollywood ex: Do? or don't?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, So my boyfriend has been sort of hinting that he'd like me to get strip the carpet downstairs, but I'm a little unsure about it. Ladies, have you done it before? Would you recommend it? Does it hurt as much as I think it might? Any other bits of advice you could g... (108 words)

Whenever we break up he flirts with this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im havin this problem with my bf lately there's this girl who he chats to on the internet and whenever we break up he ends up flirting with her. Telling her how he has these feelings for her and it bugs me a little sometimes but what really gets me frustrated is that when we ... (240 words)

I can feel myself getting attached and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on holiday and he lives 2 hours away. We spoke ever since we met (about 3/4 months) Then last weekend i went on the train to see him. It was so nice, we got on so well. we did get up to a few things, we didnt have sex though. Overall it was just dead sweet, h... (248 words)

Am I being manipulated or is he truly sorry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were in an on again off again relationship for three months, breaking up twice during the relationship until this third time when I ended it for good. The first time we broke up because he was talking about getting back together with his ex-fiance (dating 4 ... (1003 words)

Does he love me as more than a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that I am just another girl asking the infamous question "does he like me?" but I am really confused. I met a guy at work two years ago, and we have since then become really good friends. I would even consider him to be one of my two best friends. My mom, sister and ... (354 words)

I'm worried I will lose my boyfriend after my drunken flirting with another man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend (not real names) Lenny has a best friend named kate. kate has a brother- Nico who came for a visit in the country. we all arranged to go out with 2 other friends as well on friday night. however Lenny did not show up. they played some nice music and i had a coup... (462 words)

I am willing to give my ex time because I care - is this a huge mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly things i contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minutes later and i explained my reg... (401 words)

Is it a good idea to be single when you go to University? Or can relationships work whilst you are at Uni?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm currently in my last year of school and hoping to go to uni next year, which is all good. But there's something that got me thinking... Loads of people are saying that you should be single when you go to uni. Apparently if you're in a relationship when you go to uni, ... (209 words)

I want to be friends with him but I also want to keep that 'closeness' between us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well its a really tough time for me right now. I have been in love with my best friend(a guy) for nearly 2 years now and the pains just getting worse. It wont go away. Throughout these two years i was always so confused because i thought he liked me which is what started me ... (429 words)

My boyfriend frequents dating websites, how do I learn to accept this and not let it bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well.been with my bf for more than a year. i will try keeping it short. he goes on dating website and send request to women. and i dnt know how far it goes with them but i check his phone and i have his password as well which he does not know.I also know he hasnt met anyone ... (218 words)

Help with verbal domination in bed! What should I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend and I are very adventurous in the bedroom department and love trying out new ways to pleasure each other. We've recently gotten in to doing some very light kinky stuff (not too kinky though just some light domination and submission). Now, my boyfrie... (214 words)

How do I convince her that I am the best option for her? I cant stand to see her get back with her abusive ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a pretty big problem. Im in love with the most beautiful, smart, funny, amazingly fun to be around girl in the world. My friends loved her, she loved my friends, our parents are friends, they adore me and my parents adore her. When we first met, we had instant chemistry, ... (555 words)

Is this wrong? That I asked her for a kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - If you ask a girl if you could kiss her and see where it'd would go. Is that rude? I thought this girl was going to end up giving me another chance to be with her.. So when I dropped her home.. I gave her a hug, and very gentleman like, grabbed for her chin slowly, and said ... (190 words)

Can someone stay 30 minutes before he cum during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, i want to ask this question because am not comfortable with it. i had phone sex with my girl friend who i met on the internet. we shared pictures and known each other well but we haven't see face to face. she's not a virgin and also am not. the time we had the phone ... (223 words)

I don't know how to be assertive without being an ass!

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21 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I've been hanging out with this girl for a while now and I know for sure that I like her. I actually think that I might and could develop some deep feelings for her. The problem is that I actually haven't seen her in exactly a month. We've been talking on the phone and ... (249 words)

Our bickering and insulting have become ingrained habits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, I just can't stop fighting with my boyfriend! We've been together just over a year, and we used to get along so well. But for the past few months, we've both been under alot of stress, and take it out on each other. I feel like everything I say, he finds a way to ... (102 words)

How come they cant see past the little inperfections and see ME!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh boy, I am lost. I'm 16 and have never had a boy friend nor have I ever been what the idiot guys at school call "Fuckable." Which is being #1 Skinny. #2 wear 3lbs of makeup that makes you look like some cliche teeny bopper popstar. and #3 have giant boobs and a nice "ass" ... (207 words)

To scared of being hurt again to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in a serious relationship of 6years with the father of my 2year old son then he decided to just move on with his life because i did not agree to move in with him and he knows that im a christian i cannot live with him because we not married.now my problem is im scared to ... (60 words)

I have no answers to my emails from USA boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - last month i have met a guy from U.S, he is such a sweet guy to me, i confront that i like him so much, i love the way that he talk, i like the way that he smile at me,i think that i really fall in love with him and it seems to me that he also likes me. there was a time we went ... (239 words)

My Breasts are hurting!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why are my breast hurting, I'm on a really and I mean REALLY heavy period and I'm felling up a tampon and a pad like crazy and I've been more than a few times a day. I was on a pill that would get my harmonies going again, (it's not a BC pill if you were wondering) so I can be ... (204 words)

Should I call him about my accidental "calling" and let him know I'm available to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been on a cpl of dates w/ this guy who is incredibly romantic (candlelit dinner on 2nd date/let me borrow his jacket for a 1wk on our 1st date),worries about what I think about everything/makes sure i make it home ok and told me hes a worrier..seems genuine...sweet. ... (287 words)

Should I lose my V-card to my cousin?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the thing is is that i want to have sex ( lose my viginity to ) with my older cousin. he is only older than me by 2 years and we are very close. he shows me love and we kiss and he fingers me and once got close to having sex. i love my cousin and don't think this is weir... (100 words)

I'm married but I can't separate from my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i loved my girl friend very much from last 6 years, but due to my family problem, i married other girl.still me and my girlfriend love each other. i also loved my wife. suddenly my girl friends mother khows our physical relationship, so they are trying to marry her with ... (69 words)

Will I ever have the kind of passionate relationship I had with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a bit confused about these feelings I am having about my ex. He broke up with me about 8 months and he has gotten back with his ex girlfriend since we broke up. We were very attracted to each other and there was a lot of passion in the relationship. I have sort of go... (457 words)

Should I move on if my ex slept with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up about two weeks ago after 2 years together. I think we both knew it was coming because he was increasingly distant and trying to be more independent (by blowing me off) and I was increasingly worrying and picking silly fights over everything. During th... (455 words)

Is my boyfriend worried about my reputation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when your bf says he doesnt want u hanging out with certain people. mind u all of u grew up together and when i was wayyy younger i kissed one of them thats it. i am a virgin. does this mean he doesnt trust me ? worried about my rep? or he is jus controlling?... (59 words)

Sleeping with my sister's boyfriend's son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so heres the problem. theres this guy, who i have managed to really open upto and feel really strongly about. we have a great time when we are together, and im constantly craving his company, the thing is that we have actually slept together twice. (im not complaini... (201 words)

Is there a recipe to fall out of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that no matter how many lovers you've had it is those who got away that stay with you so long. Is there a recipe to fall OUT of love with someone who will never come back?... (39 words)

What do I do about my boyfriend and the ex that has my heart?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked for some gas money so i gave it to him he was supposed to meet me an hour after i gave it to him to go out.... Well i didnt hear from him for a few hours but that didnt really bother me what bothered me is the status i saw on this girls myspace page saying ... (339 words)

Paranoid about being pregnant? We didn't use a condom.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, me and my man were having sex a few weeks ago and he came in me, i was due for my period on saturday, its now monday and still no period, im also stressing a lil bit, so that may be causing it, but i dont. i do feela lil bit tired, and i have been peeing alot, but that ... (113 words)

Should I revisit my marriage or move on with the new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a divorced mother of three and have had a long distance relationship with a wonderful man for the last three years. My children are 11,9 and 5 and have had limited contact with my boyfriend but get along very well with him. It's getting to the point where we're looking at ... (256 words)

Should I choose my potential husband or the name of a school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I were together for two years and we currently go to separate colleges, 6.5 hours away from each other. It's been a year since we broke up and I'm trying as it is to get out of this city. He's successfully done that because he actually paid attention in high ... (224 words)

How should I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I had recently broke up. We were in a long distance relationship and it was difficult. We didn't break up because of distance though. We broke up because I've given him so many chances to treat me right. He acts like he controls my life and I just hate that so much. ... (202 words)

How can I keep fear from preventing me from doing things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I let fear keep me from doing alot of things and sometimes things i enjoy. Im 15 and im in high school and i kinda wanna be on the football team but the boys that are on the football are the type of boys who like to talk about people and play around and that like to start stuff ... (215 words)

Will I fit into his circle of high class friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy a couple of days ago. hes awesome hes the type i go for. im 22 i dnt like dating younger guys my age because i dont find them in my level. so therefore i always go for older guys. so about this guy i met he 55 years old and hes a doctor with three kids one older ... (118 words)

Why the reason for women marrying at a younger age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - in our society, when there is age difference between husband and wife, i notice 99% time husband is older. Statistics also say that women generally get married at younger age than men throughout the world. what do you think the reason for that?... (43 words)

My husband keeps cheating so what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband keeps cheating on me He gives me large amounts of money take care of his kids and pay all my bills we have been married for 5 years and have 3 beautiful girls ages 4, 3, 2, I'm 24 and he's 28 He's never home I'm gettng tired of this and lonely I want to cheat so bad ... (115 words)

Should I stay with him out of obligation?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the Army. We have been together on and off for about two years. I love him with all my heart. I am still rather young and in high school still. I dont want to make himsound bad but he has not been faithful to me. I could never cheat on him. I do exaclty what ... (143 words)

How long will he take to contact me?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend told me he was moving on a week and a half ago. I saw him 1 week ago when I told him that I realized why he wanted to move on. I also told him that I had been thinking alot about why things turned out the way they did and let him know the ways that I was ... (112 words)

Was it all a big hoax?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and I have been dating for almost four years. We used to be so amazing together, we had so much fun, and hemade me feel like the most beautiful girl ever. I was so secure in myself and him. Now things are SO different. We have lived together for abt 3 yrs now, and over ... (291 words)

Any ideas about what's going through his head?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for 2+ months.. We have known each other for for 10+ years and we have kinda dated off and on.. we have recently started dating again and its been about 2 months so far. I have two kids and he has stated that he loves spending time with us. But is ... (184 words)

Is it wrong to want some privacy to masterbate?

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21 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old and in the ninth grade, and like most guys my age I masturbate what I guess would be pretty frequently (at least one time a day if not more). I'd rather not do it in the bathroom, I'm just more comfortable in my bedroom, but my mom tends to come in without ... (154 words)

Am I wrong for being so certain he has feelings for me?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married woman in a polyamorous relationship and I've fallen deeply in love with a good friend. He gives me doe-eyed looks all the time. So I told him my feelings and he "friend zoned" me. He told me he's attracted to me and we're good friends, but it is not a road he wi... (143 words)

Would you still marry your spouse if you knew then what you know now?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age - To all the married couples, ten years or more: 1. If you can go back in time knowing what you know now about your spouse, would you still marry him or her? 2. If you won a large jackpot lottery of millions, would you stay with your spouse?... (54 words)

Am I making a huge mistake?

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What did he mean? Is he just looking for more work, or does he want to see me personally?

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in need of some advice from a male perspective! I wont bore everyone with a long story so basically I met this guy the other day after he came round to my house to carry out some work. From the moment I opened the door I thought "wow"! We chatted for a while and he ... (187 words)

I smelled my sisters feet when I was younger, am I normal?

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21 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - (MOD NOTE: TITLE IS ORIGINAL POSTERS)Sexual thoughts and family Okay so I'm 17 and for about a year ive had "intrusive thoughts" where i picture sexual acts with basicly everyone i meet, even family members. I'm quite disgusted with myself and was sickened, but i found reli... (247 words)

The Christmas Woes

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21 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend, Joe, and I have been together since late August. He is really sweet, caring, etc. However with Christmas coming up he has been really stressed with Work, Partys, Cooking, Family, Presents, etc. Lately he has been showing it more than usual, snapping mostly, or ... (139 words)