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writes:well, I am 21, i so much want to be in a relationship, a serious one.i dont like to feel loneliness. I really want someone nice in my life. Can someone tell me where i can find the right person? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (8 December 2009):
go to cupidmedia.com and choose which dating site to join. Or go to gumtree.co.uk the dating section in your town. Enjoy
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Ha! Such an easy question but such a difficult answer. I'm sorry, at my 32 years I am still looking for this answer myself but I wish you best luck finding it soon.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 December 2009):
You'll find her in Canal Street in Manchester.
Didn't you know you were gay?
Honestly, what do you expect to be told. We can't tell you how to find the man of your dreams and you are obviously a bit depressed tonight so my advice is to eat an entire chocolate orange and tomorrow go for a long walk in the cold.
Have a think about ways to make yourself happy rather than put it all on some bloke.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Agree with Caring Guy. And I'd like to add that as humans, we all want to find someone to share our life, don't we. Perhaps, you can do things to attract that special guy. First of all stop focusing on that and just lookout for yourself. Start by doing things you love. Get involved in good community activities, sports groups, or volunteering, or good college/school based clubs, if you are educating yourself. I suggest, you just get out there, be positive..let your best shine through and keep meeting people and concentrate on enjoying your life. In other words, have fun..enjoy every aspect of life! That exuberance and happiness is what a nice fellow will take note of about you. And when you least expect it will happen. Smile and be the happiest you can be.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 So your happiness depends on someone else?
Prepare to be used. It is all to easy to find someone who will use your dependence.
Get a cat, get a hobby, get a social life but NEVER go hunting for a partner with the mindset "I won't be happy until I got someone". Just read all the bad relationship posts here and think about what the mindset of the woman was when she got involved.
Yeah, you just want to find someone nice. But your changes will be a hell of a lot better when you are, if not happy then at least content with your own life.
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reader, lazyman87 +, writes (8 December 2009):
i'm in a similar position to you and i'm sure that you don't 'find' the right person, it just happens. apparently.
i always find that when i want to meet someone new i never do, but if the thought doesn't cross my mind then i have been much more likely to chat to new people, etc.
i would advise you to live your life and enjoy yourself, and when you least expect it, prince charming might just be there for you.
best of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Why don't you try signing up for eharmony? Despite being a very outgoing person I found it hard to meet people I can enough in common with. My 2 last relationships have started through internet dating. Ok, so you meet some duds and you have to be a bit tough along the way but I'm met some wonderful people this way who will always be a part of my life because we have so much in common.
http://www.eharmony.co.uk/
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 December 2009):
You need to make sure you're happy for yourself before you go into a relationship. I know you're feeling lonely, but the right guy might get a bit nervous if he mistakes your loneliness for desperation. So make sure you're focusing on your life and not just spending all your time looking for a man. That said, the right guy could be anywhere, you just have to keep your eyes open :). Though to narrow it down, the best thing you can do is find yourself a hobby where other guys are, so you have something in common with them from the first. Even if you don't fancy any of the guys at first, talk to them so you just get a better understanding of us. A guy is attracted to confidence, so have patience, have confidence and you'll find him. Good luck.
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