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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Flirting but has girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - there is a guy i like who has i girl friend but keeps flirting with me does he like me i like him. help !!!!!!!... (26 words)

Any advice on leaving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40+ and have been with the same man for 11.5 years. We have had our ups and downs. We have 5 kids between us and the relationship he has with my 19 year old son is terrible. He doesn't live with us any more. Back in the Spring my son acted up but I was in the middle of ... (390 words)

Christmas Drama...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some advice! So my bf had his xwife come with the kids and his parents. We talked about this, he lead me to believe she'd be staying with relatives. He did not invite me for Christmas. Now he wants me to meet everyone next week for new years! And she's staying at his ... (61 words)

Bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age - Have been married 3 times. Its always me that is intaga ted the split. I have dated married guys for longer than any of my marriages have lasted. Been alone for 6 months. Someone stayed over last night and I couldn't wait for him to go. This is not the first time this has... (68 words)

Is it ok to break ties with my unloving mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) age - Do I have the right not to have contact with my mother, if I feel she is very damaging for me? I had been thru a lot at the last few years, with my kids and marriage, and she can't stop blaming me for everything , what has gone wrong. So now, it was the first Christmas I ... (131 words)

Is my ex rebounding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My Ex and i were together for nearly five years when we met she was married to a guy she met a year prior and married six months later supposedly he cheated on her and she was undecisive to leave him! she asked me to go to a resort with her after being nothing more than friends ... (802 words)

I'm unsure what she wants from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm feeling a little down lately. I've recently graduated from university with a degree in I.T. I want to make it perfectly clear that although i don't socialise often with friends, visit clubs and pubs or drink, i'm not a nerd! I'm struggling with a few issues suc... (236 words)

I'm not sure if this is how it is supposed to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just writing to ask for a bit of help on what i should do. The thing is, i have been in a relation ship for 9 months now, but the thing is, it is now starting to make me feel depresed being in this relation ship and i dont no what to do, all my friends say i deserve ... (543 words)

Long distance and younger/older relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back, I met this guy online. Since then, we have been talking and we both believe that the relationship we have is real and it's begun to get really hard to cope when we aren't talking. We have a lot in common and what should be considered a huge problem (his ... (309 words)

Conflicted...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been single for almost 3 years now, and it seems all girls ever do is use me. I recently started talking to a girl online, and she's cute and funny, but after just knowing me a day she said she loved me, and I told her I loved her too, which was a big mistake. I don't know ... (247 words)

Why are we too jealous of each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and boyfriend are too jealous over each other. Neither one of us have cheated or done anything. we have been together for 2 years. Is there a reason why? and what can we do to change this?... (38 words)

Why does she say she loves me and wants me but doesn't want a relationship right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so we have been apart about a month now. we dated for a year and a half. we broke up over stress and fighting to much i kinda brokeup with her first. after we brokeup she said she wanted to stay friends she didnt want nothing to change but she just didnt want a relationship ... (555 words)

She abandoned me for Christmas... who does this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - In an effort to express and vent, release my story and pain out there and possibly with hope, get a bit of healing in return, I am posting this painful thread here. Her and I were real, serious. Just a few weeks ago, we spoke of marriage, life together. She'd expressed her un... (236 words)

I am going through a divorce but I still love her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem and I need advice. I am going through a divorce and I have custody of my very young children. My wife is severly mentally ill and her mental condition has really collasped over this past year severly bad. She abused the kids so I got them out of the ... (394 words)

Do I wait and hope or try to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i fell in love like probley last christmas i met him on the 12 of december at work an he was the most amazing guy we were always firlting an i fell for him an he love me just he was going to the amry an i felt my heart just drop. so on the 15th of feb was the last day i ever ... (187 words)

How long goes it take?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What's the avarage time that it takes for a woman to reach orgasm?... (13 words)

My boyfriend didn't give me a Christmas present!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend didn't get me a Christmas present. I wrapped all his kids gifts and put mine under the tree. We ad a talk prior to Christmas about exchanging gifts. I didn't was there to be any financial burdon on either of us, so I suggested that we skip it. He was offended ... (165 words)

What is he thinking and how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wondered if you could give me some advice on my break-up please? Any comments or ideas would be greatly appreciated! So here it is - My ex boyfriend and I broke up just over 2 months ago. He is 27 and I am 28. We started off having a long distance relationship where... (732 words)

I really like this girl and want to ask her out but I have been thinking about my ex lately....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's what she does: I sit next to her and she always puts her feet very close to mine, so much it makes me uncomfortable. She doesn't do it to others. Once, she had her leg touching mine, noticeably. I moved away, but put it back touching again and she didn't care. ... (280 words)

Trapped! How do I get out of this rut?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I get that there are people worse off than me... but it just breaks my heart that i have hopes, dreams, and talents that are going to waste and my life is passing me by because I don´t have the money to fulfill my hopes and dreams. This sounds like I´m feeling sorry fo... (633 words)

He's ignoring me and breaking my heart! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've known this guy for three weeks we were together for two weeks solid and then I left to go home. he said he would call me. he didn't and just left for his sister in min but he didn't say he was leaving but since he's been gone I've text him alot and I've only got 2 ... (132 words)

How do I go about meeting the right girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been single for a while (about 6 months), and now I'd like to get back out there and get a girlfriend. I'm a nice fella, about average looks, and what i'd really like is a woman who's funny smart and can take things easy. how do i meet a girl like that? most wom... (141 words)

How do I get my life back to the happy times that it once was?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for a long time~ my husbands job kept him away for the first 15 yrs, and he changed, never wanting to hold my hand, touch me, kiss me and even went as far as to say I was getting fat and that he doesnt like fat women. That was 5 yrs ago, so I decided a ... (475 words)

Need advice on meeting someone, who likes me for ME.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age - I just cant win. Men have told me to hold back when giving sex-but when one holds back then a man isn't interested in getting to know you! If I hold back they automatically think I am looking for a husband (I am divorced and dont want a husband) but then if I were to give i... (141 words)

How often should I email him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age - How often is it ok to e mail a male friend youve recently met-no romance but has given his e mail to you without being too desperate?? What sort of things does one put in an e mail when you like him but dont want to scare him off? Thanks Mary ... (64 words)

Want to have a real relationship and need tips on how to go about it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Helloo Well from since i can remember ive been the same but in the last few months ive realised how much of a loner i am. I have not many friends and NO REAL friends. Ive never had a girlfriend and dont think im anywhere close. I fuelled this anger by hiring prostitute... (309 words)

Foreskin problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when i masterbute my foreskin doesn't go back what should i do.....i don't want to go to a doctor.... (19 words)

No period but yet..no sex! What could be wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had sex for months and I have had my period since apart from this month I am also experiencing nausea at night, lack of appetite and I'm not tired until early hours of the morning what could it be? ... (41 words)

Is there a probability that she is sleeping with others?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am still in a sexual relationship with a former partner. I suppose I get to see her once a fortnight or once a month. So far she has not been keen on us getting back together formally. My question is do you believe she have other sexual partners beside myself. It is pr... (109 words)

Is this situation with Andy, hopeless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys and girls. my name is amanda. im new to this site, im 14 and hopelessly in love with a guy who has a girlfriend. this guy, we'll call him andy, has a girlfriend but hes in love with both of us. he chooses her over me but hes so adorable and we always talk on the phone ... (110 words)

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He tried several times to ... (384 words)

Trying to get over a very recent break-up during the holidays...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Trying to get over a very recent break-up during the holidays...we were together about 9 mo, very close and believed we loved one another..we haven't been getting along on some things and we both agreed maybe we should go speak to a third party and sort out some differences, ... (298 words)

What do I get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay my boyfriend and I are somewhat of an on and off couple, but thats mainly because of our parents. Anyways we're both 14 and for this christmas he got a me silver heart necklace with a purple gem in it. We had just started goin back out a couple days prior so I didnt expect ... (163 words)

Do women like intelligent men?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i was wondering, does women like intelligent men? I really love to become a mathematician or a physicist, i mean not the wrong social stereotype of the geek who cant socialize, i mean a guy that is fit + personality + mathematician or physicist, does women find it attra... (56 words)

Where did I go wrong with my flirting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this problem since high school. When there's a boy who shows interest in me, and I dropped a little hint back as a sign that im interested, things always go south. They stared at me, they tells joke, they smiled at me, waved at me but all of this stopped whenever i ... (116 words)

How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need advice on aproaching a girl.I'll just explain my situation first.I'm 16 and female,I dont much care for labels,all I know is I definatly like girls,and I definaltly like guys.I had a boyfreind not long ago bout found it very..very distasteful.So I suppose I want ... (307 words)

Sleeping with a friend who has a girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my best friends in the world and I have been sleeping together for a few years now and i am in love with him. He says i am his dream girl and wants to be with me but because of other circumstances (neither one of us drive, he has no job etc..) it isnt something we can ... (342 words)

I am worried about having sex with my boyfriend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - right, im nearly 14 and i have a boyfriend. hes older than me, hes 15. hes not a virgin and we do talk about having sex alot. he has fingered me but he only fit 1 finger up and i am very scared of the pain if he does have sex with me, im also scared just incase his penis dont ... (76 words)

I am in the friend zone and want to move out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Oh what am i to do? and why do i get myself in these situations? Ive been talking to a girl for a few weeks whom ive known for a while but just started to actually get to know.. i feel theres chemistry there but she has a boyfriend.. one who she complains about constantly.. ive ... (154 words)

Will my boyfriend's faith break us apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and recently he is becoming religious and being distant. he is a muslim and recently started listening to a lecture (unknown) about their religion and i think it influences him a lot. he told me that once upon a time he was ... (777 words)

Girlfriend (Ex at this point?) likes another man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short, me and my girlfriend basically got into a really stupid argument. The argument consisted of her yelling at me, calling me names (stupid, retard, etc) and she basically said my view on the world was stupid. So in my defense, I got a little mad at her ... (1239 words)

My In-Laws are causing problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - [Moderator Note: Confusing Reference to Addams family Removed. Family is not anything like the Addams family.] My husband is the oldest child and only boy in a family consisting of the following: The dominant mother who never worked a day in her life Donna reed, the incredib... (975 words)

My ex-friend is a back stabbing slut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I convince my ex-mate that I'm not a backstabber and that she's done worse and what I did wasn't bad. If I am in the wrong please tell me. My ex-mate (I'll call her K) K dated this guy for approx 5 days, within this 5 days she told more than 3 men she would do any... (322 words)

I ended the relationship, so why am I having a hard time getting over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I just ended a two-year relationship. I initiated the breakup, but why am I the one having a hard time getting over him? Here's the background; it's complicated, so please bear with me: We met in early 2008, and we clicked immediately (he is 32, I am 36). We are both in g... (1183 words)

I feel like crying, its so confusing :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically a guy attended my school for about a month and we became good friends but then he left and moved to a different city. We still have contact thru facebook but i really miss him. Hes had 2 girlfriends since he left and always coming to me for advice but now i hav seen ... (130 words)

Should I be angry that he wasn't with me at christmas or I am overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I posted 2 days before christmas about my ex who I have recently been seeing again. We were exes for 8 months now but still remained in contact somehow. Last week, I confessed to him that I am going to be alone for christmas and he said "he will see if he can spend it wit... (562 words)

Why can't he distance himself from his ex completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i have been seeing this guy for 1 year now. he is really sweet and nice to me but the problem is he can't distance himself from his ex. They were seeing each other for 5 months till she dumped him and it tool him 2 years before he finally moved on, met me, asked me out... (248 words)

Too much too soon, how to tell him without hurting him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Ok, so I'm in a relationship with this guy, Josh. He's a really nice guy and I enjoy the time we spend together. The only problem is, I feel the relationship is moving way too fast. I'm like a rabbit in headlights and I want to run away, but perhaps I'm overreacting... (459 words)

How do I forgive the person who raped me when I was a child?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For years a family member molested me from the age of 4 till I was 12. When I was 9 he started to rape me, I use to be very sore for days and I bled alot and I got infections and couldn't walk properly. I never told anyone as he always threatened me, and I believed the threats ... (198 words)

Gone for 5 weeks and no contact why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age - i met my arab boyfriend 5 years ago he was in uk on training with air force he has to go home at certain times like rammadan , he is from saudi arabia and treats me like gold dust. 1st time he went he contacted me all the time 2nd time maybe three or four he goes for 5 weeks at ... (230 words)

Does anybody know about narcissistic personality disorder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a hard time coping with the end of my relationship as it is so unique to anything I've been through. My ex suffered from narcissistic personality disorder. I didn't realise this until after we broke up and learning about the disorder helped me make sense of his ... (548 words)

Wait till school starts or just kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I started going out on the last day of school, which was a week ago, and we havn't seen eachother since then, but we are going to see eachother in a few days. I really like him, and I want to kiss him, but because we havn't done anything yet, it seems to fast. ... (71 words)

How do I ask a girl to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - how do i ask a girl if she wants to have sex with me??... (14 words)

Unmanly stance of my penis

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Everybody! Could anyone help me with this problem? When my penis is erect, it doesn't lie down on my tummy; it stands upright, pointing at the ceiling. Then when I stand up, the penis , if it is very hard and if I'm very aroused, simply keeps parallel to the floor. It ... (98 words)

Best friend slept with my girl and it bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 and ive been dating this girl for about two months. shes 15 and has made mistakes in her life, she has a baby girl, but i really liked her. people told me the child shouldnt matter. before we started datin she had a crush on my best friend. and they slept together t... (420 words)

Friend having an affair, husband knows but doesn't do anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - guys can someone translate this please.. a married friend of mine is having an emotional affair with a married woman whose thier famillies are friends it is a common dilemma but the confusing part is her husband who knows what she is doing but doenst mind atall...though ... (134 words)

I think there's an attraction between us, do I say something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I need some advice for two people Me and My Friend. Okay We known each other for years and have gotten really close to each other... MY Love life has been simple a few Girlfriend you know school love.. But Hes the first guy that I'm really attracted to and hes been that guy ... (277 words)

I seem to dwell in a hole of lonliness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 35 years old. I had a great childhood but once I hit puberty I became depressed (at the time I just thought I was going through a stage). I was mildly depressed through college. After college I was mildly depressed. People cannot see this from the outside as I hide it ... (616 words)

I'm ready until the condom goes on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when my girlfriend and i make out and stuff i get an erection almost to easly, but when it comes to actuly having sex i feel nervise and i cant have one, when i finely do get one i put a condom on and then it goes away. it is so embarising, my girlfriend is very understanding ... (66 words)

Can't get her off my mind. What is this all about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age - I am over 50. Married for over 25 yrs. A stranger approached me on a flight. She wanted to sit in unoccupied seat on my row,she was sitting one row back. She was talkative, possibly looking for a husband, she's divorced with 3 kids. E- mail relationship lasted 2 months. ... (102 words)

She's engaged but gave me signals and I didn't act on them

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26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im in high school i fell in love with my best freind and loved her for 3 years im still not over her and she is engaged but the wort part is she gave me signals a while back befor she got engaged but i was to afraid to act on it now its to late ive tryed moving on but i cant ... (76 words)

Do I wait for him? He wants to be with me when he is over her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been friends with a guy for awhile now, he had a girlfriend of 7 months. (hes 22 im 20 and shes 18) we were just friends and stuff but developed feelings for each other and ended up fooling around before they broke up. (they did shortly after) We were just talking but we ... (147 words)

Is there something wrong when the man is no longer interested in sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age - i just want to know if something is wrong in a relationship when the man youve been with no longer is interested in having sex.he no longer holds me or even looks at me as a woman,yet he checks out other women he sees when we're out somewhere.i lie beside him in bed at night ... (186 words)

In love with my best friend, tell it to her face or write a note?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend. ..and I'm just really having a hard time to tell her. I've always seen myself as a lowest common denominator, even though everyone says I don't give myself enough credit. I wrote a note spilling my feelings onto it, and am thinking of givi... (97 words)

What should I do to make my partner happier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i m inna relation with a guy 4m last 4yrs.we r age 20 now. i m a dental student from a educated family n he has just done his school but hav joined his family bissness. he is 4m an orthodox family. his family is really disapointed by him.his family is rude to him. he dont hav ... (182 words)

How can I get my point across?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At work there is a guy who constantly texts me, telling me how much he likes me, how pretty I am, etc., but he knows that I am still in high school and 5 years younger. He will not leave me alone even though i have stopped texting him and avoid him when we have similar ... (64 words)

I have a great b/f but I let my ex pursue me. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge issue. My ex bf and I..we've been broken up 5 years.after a year after our break up, I met someone else.let's call him jo.he is a super nice and cute guy. We've been together 4 years now and have lived together for 2.I love him dearly, but started a relationship ... (284 words)

Should ex-wife tell "mistress" husband wants wife back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age - My husband left me for another woman back in 1991 and subsequently married the mistress. Afer 10 years of being divorced from each other, we reconnected and have been seeing each other since 2004. He moved from another state to be closer to me, but is still with the 'mistress" ... (144 words)

She is willing to give me one more chance but I'm afraid it won't work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, i really need help. I am very lost. My girlfriend wanted a break because we had a big fight. basically i bottled up anger about something that was bothering me about her and vented all out on her, threatening to break up. She broke down and cried and she said she wanted ... (312 words)

Suffering from retroactive jealousy! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months now. We have known each other through work for 3 years prior to getting together. We have an awesome relationship but there is something that still haunts me after 6 months, and that is the number of people she has ... (311 words)

Do you think she wants to kiss me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 14, female, and bisexual. A month or two ago I was talking about how I feel left out because I hadn't had my first kiss yet. One of my close friends came over during the break that was just starting and she started talking about first kisses and stuff, so I wondered what she ... (278 words)

Any insight on my horrible life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Im so sick of my life. Everything is so Bleh! UGh! Nothing seems to work out for me.I have to work hard for every tiny lil thing. And it seems as if im cursed and have bad luck because the worst things always happen to me. ANd i can't stand it. Im deprived of many things in my ... (229 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I lied about my past?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have lied to my boyfriend about my sexual past. I did so early in our relationship out of fear of rejection and judgment, but ever since I have felt absolutely terrible. I told him I had only slept with 2 people, but the truth is that I have slept with 5. I know my numbers ... (247 words)

How do I not jeopardize our friendship?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ever since my friend and i got drunk, i've started to have feelings for her. we've gone as far as fingering each other, but we were both drunk when we did it. my trouble is i don't know if i should tell her i'm starting to have feelings for her, because we've been ... (201 words)

How am I supposed to keep our relationship secret not that I'm pregnant?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i told my bf i love him as suggested the first time i told him he his reply was i love you to baby,not sure if he meant it.our relationship is a secret my friends thinks i am single cuz we had broken up before but i never told them we get back together plus thats the way he ... (106 words)

Should I take her word that he doesn't like me?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i really like this guy who is a year younger than me. his sister (my bffl) knows that i like him but she keeps telling me that he dosent like me. idk if shes telling me the truth. should i ask him if he likes me or should i just take her word?... (60 words)

Should I tell him I like him if he has a girlfriend?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. Me and him are really close though. We flirt all the time, and he treats me like were going out, and he's the nicest to me. He's showing signs he likes me, but do I tell him I like him? ... (51 words)

What can I do about this "cousin relationship"?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone ,merry Christmas !!! 4 years ago i went out with this guy # 1 but then we broke up.It took me a while to get over him but i did. At some point because i was going to the same univ as my cousin we decided to rent an apart together, we were very close and still ar... (666 words)

Should I be rethinking our friendship?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been friends with a girl for five years and we have been really close with each other ....she has low self esteem and is over weight but really a pretty girl however she has only had onee boyfriend ever and i have been trying to help her find a boyfriend or at least a male ... (156 words)

Is my ex stringing me along?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years told me he was moving on about a month ago. I met with him after a week or a half after that and told him all that I had realized about our relationship and how I thought we could fix things. He started crying when I was telling him what I had ... (156 words)

Is this girl just not relationship material?

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26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok... So ive been dating this girl for 2 months now and im glad she's my girlfriend but lately we've been having some problems and i dont know what to do and i dont want to lose her unless its absolutely nessecary to do. Everytime i tell her that i wont be able to talk to her ... (377 words)

Should you be honest about fantasies?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the right thing to say to your boyfriend when they ask you what else other than them you think about during masturbation?... (24 words)

He gives mixed responses. Is he for real or just playing games?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I don't know if this guy is player or he is genuine? should I drop him? when I decided to move away I started a casual relationship with him because I was going away for good and wont have to deal with it. I know he was sleeping with someone else at the time a... (288 words)

Is this a little sign she might like me back?

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26 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I told a girl last night that I 'kinda like' her and she said 'aww :p you are such a cutie') Im just wondering if this is a little sign she may like me back? We have been talking for nearly two months now, we live far away from each other so we don't see each other in pe... (121 words)

Home remedy for a yeast infection?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So I had gone over my guy's house and was on my period, but we still had intercourse. When I'm on my period usually we don't use a condom, except this time i got kind of dry during intercourse. When i had gotten home i had noticed I was itchy "down there". The next 2 or 3 d... (132 words)

If I push too hard I might lose her...any advice?

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26 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - so we were close friends for a while then she noticed that i have a crush on her and we were going out for more than 6 months.. we ere talking to each other 50 times a day but general conversation and one night we were both drunk and had sex... we didn't discuss at all after, ... (349 words)

Have we lost the spark due to my pregnancy?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and pregnant and me and my husband have been together a year. I was never really phsically attrated to him, I was attracted to my love for him, but the longer we are together the more it seems like that may not be enough. He isn't a good kisser, he has very small lips ... (347 words)

Abusive brother and drinking problems...

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26 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I dont like having ACCIDENTS, spent 6 hours in A and E.Dislocated my shoulder told people i fell over. A bit os laughing gas and then a morphane injection and my shoulder was back in place but at the time i was in agony. Doctors refused to put me to sleep because i was drunk. ... (237 words)

Head over heals for my coworker!

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what do y9u do if youre working with someone you adore and they dont know-its not as easy to tell them as they have a casual girlfriend but im head over heels in love with my work friend-what should i do... (41 words)

How should I tell him I like him?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy and lately we've been getting pretty close, like going on late night walks together and talking allot. I think he likes me, quite a few others say that he does and I know I defiantly like him but I don't now how or even if I should tell him. He's coming up for ... (77 words)

How do I forget the intimacy and move on?

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26 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lingering doubts about a recent break-up, even though many told me the relationship was unhealthy -- and I believe they were right, to an extent -- because him and I were compatible in so many other ways. I have a difficult time remembering how increasingly unhappy and ... (305 words)