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writes:FREAKING OUT!!!!!I'm 16 years old and I have been pregnant before when I was 15, I had a surgical miscarriage. I regret it every bit, but I know for a fact that i was not ready for a baby. I'm still not ready, I think I'm pregnant again, I'm showing all the signs and have missed a period. I do "NOT" want to do what i've done before and i'm going to keep my baby. The boy I'm with says he'll marry me and be there for me, but to be honest I think it's a load of shit. His mom will no doubt try to help and suport me. we havent told anyone yet. I plan to take a test this weekend to comfirm my fears.This isnt really a questin just looking for advice.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Go to the drug store and buy a pregnancy test. Make an appointment with a doctor to confirm the result. Don't freak out until you are sure you know what's really going on.
You have ruled out abortion, so your choices are keeping the baby and adoption. I would strongly encourage you to look into adoption. There are countless people out there who want to adopt a new baby, and who can give the child a good home and a wonderful future. You're not ready to do that, and the child's father isn't ready to do it. You've already made the decision to give the child life (if there is indeed a child); now go the extra mile to choose people who can give the child a fine, wonderful life that you cannot.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (8 December 2009):
Why didn't you get on birth control, if you had an abortion before didn't you learn from it? You need to go get a test and find out then go see a doctor and go from there. I had an abortion and I learned from it, I take my birth control every day...
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reader, Donna81  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 First thing you need to do is find out if you are really pregnant, buy a pregnancy test and discuss this further with your boyfriend and maybe your parents.
Try to be more careful in the future and use protection, for your own safety.
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