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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): haha i have one of my own, im new to it though, i have a bf of almost 2 years who moved 4 hours to live with me , leavin mummy dearest at home lol...
She has 2 sons , 2 half daughters and a husband but my boyfirend is her pride and joy.. we joke about her mabey keeping his baby clothes and cott etc, as a shrine in the loft! She is realy cling towards him and it gets uncomfortable to the point i gott leave the room, bu theres not realy much i can do about it, she obviously misses him and even though she lives 200 miles away she is only just bearable for a weekend xD
All i can say is grin an bear it ;/ 3 good luck
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 We need more info. What makes her a monster?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): I agree that your partner should set the boundaries for his mom to back up. Also you should not give the mom alot of power by letting her get to you too much. Sometimes parents have probs letting go of their children and it can take time so partially entertain her (from a distance) but also be firm that she should not be offensive or rude to you. Good luck...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 December 2009):
You don't. Your husband does. Or is supposed to. You need to tell your husband how you feel (gently though, she is his mother). Hopefully, he'll listen to you and speak to her.
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